I know for the sake of accuracy everyone defining men and women has to go on about gametes etc, but really, if you were born with a dick you're a man. If you weren't, you're a woman, That covers 99.9% of people, and its simple.
We don't define other things by including every tiny deformity or mutation that could possibly arise.
To make this more simple, we have known for millenna what is a man, and what is a woman.
Even in the rare 'intersex' cases, the binary benefits them because they have immutable characteristics. In some cases those things are treatable.
The binary would also help trans people too. If it were as simple as being born in the wrong body and simple accomodations would work great.
Compare this to being gay or lesbian. Even if you were a bible thumping straight edger, the thought of being attracted to members of the same sex has been a part of human history. It's easy to explain and also widely supported. Where things get muddy is when we talk about families, raising children, etc. But you notice that no one argues about gender here.
Every solution for the transgender lobby involves some accommodation beyond reasonable social norms. You also notice that most trans identified individuals have massive political lobbies behind them. We're not allowed to question how they feel or why they are trans. We are not allowed to apply any standard that would determine hey are you really feeling like a woman or is this just trauma responses. Mainly because all of the solutions are cosmetic and if logic applied, untenable.
Think about gender expression for a bit. A man wearing a dress and makeup occasionally was seen as no judgement on identity. A woman who preferred to work on cars or otherwise stereotypical male dominated fields could weave in and out from being a tomboy or dress down to whatever extent. But for the sake of the pinko commie trans people, everything is on the table to justify their reality.
At the end of the day, we are not questioning the gender identity of a newborn baby. We can tell boy or girl without gender markers of any sort. You still need the right biological parts to have children. Typically gender norms come through regardless of hrt hormones (it's ma'am. Dominance, strength, etc.)
It's not getting into the women's restroom. It's getting off on seeing women being vulnerable. It's not participating in womens sports. It's the dominance over helpless women that gets them off. For the pooners most of it I feel is dealing with the shame heaped on them by society as they develop into women. No one believes that you can add a dick to a woman. That's a massive fantasy.
But trans people don't exist without politics and power. And those politics are quite frankly one of the worst things that the West has invented. Trans has kinda won the social war. Pedos, furries, polygamy are all knocking on the door next. I think government should step in and be more careful.