what matters the most is having contacts, so try meeting as many people as possible, go to talks, go to gatherings, go to wherever, just to meet people in your industry
thats what im planning to do at least
Network.. with what? You're not a soft-spoken young student gentleman looking for a mentor, you're another kid who got told to "go network". What can you offer someone with an established career? Why would they put down chatgpt and close linkedin to entertain you, if not to make a linkedin chatgpt post out of it?
I'd love to be optimistic but there really is no grounds to. Just the other day I watched a clip of a guy saying "My advice is to drop out of college and get a blue collar degree (...) we're working on automating welding too". You can't program the welding robots and by the time you know how to weld, you've been replaced. We're genuinely in that hellish plane where you might as well do whatever you want to, financially worthwhile or not, cause there's no safe alternative.
Going from a small crew of mostly older zoomers to a crew of mostly older millenials is rough. Literally all work all the time.
I've noticed that "only going to work to get paid" is a mindset that stems from being around people who share that sentiment. The office job I'm about to ditch, we sit in complete silence all day. Look back to my bottom-shelf job with equally bottom-shelf pay; great cafeteria, close to home, no mind fog from deadlines and treading water, and coworkers I could shoot the shit with. That difference in culture alone is enough to make me want to ditch the hopes of an office job to be around older people who produce actual value.
Nigger, its an internship of course they don't what to fucking do and they essentially have zero responsibilities in the working environment; so what are they supposed to do when nobody gives them directions. Interns are great when their mentor throws them against every problem to gain experience and takes them along to all sorts of things. You can't expect new employees to work like experienced ones. Because you essentially expect an unprocessed cube of metal to cut like a metal knife.
It's actually nuts cause a lot of workplaces set up their own internship programs while others (private sector) places, they just assume you'll be a 28% efficiency free laborer cause they never intended to put effort into teaching you. On one hand it makes sense, going from an internship to a full-time position, but once you're on your 3rd internship, now you've dug yourself into a hole. "Why do you have so many internships? Why won't anyone hire you? You did great here but uhhh social currency!".
I looked up some old classmates on linkedin and they make it seem so easy. University degree, a semester abroad in Beijing or some shit; back, find a job, work 18 months, promoted, work another 8, promoted. That's it. Get the degree, the job, and get promoted internally. That's the one appeal of private companies, but likewise they're the ones cycling out interns every summer with no intention to ever hire any of them.