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In old fairy tales and legends, it is often man's hubris that leads him to danger before anything else, assuming foolishly that he is stronger than the will of gods or the temptation of devils. In the modern day, however, this now looks like guys taking bathtub estrogen and assuming it won't be a big deal because 'blood clots' are something you can just walk off, and isn't the possibility of a stroke worth it to have big, heaving mommy milkers to show off to all the minors in your Roblox server?
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An aging crossdresser is too senile to realize the difference between fake compliments, real compliments and backhanded compliments. Pour one out for his wife who he is now lording his "youthful" femininity over; if he winds up on the bad end of a sack of hammers wielded by her hand, I vow to acquit her if I am on the jury."Hrt gives you blood clots"
Maybe it does, maybe it doesn't. Research says that it does increase risk a bit.
You know what has a way higher chance of giving you blood clots? Sitting in a chair.
My point is to not let fearmongering dissuade you from getting hrt if its what you need.
You can find a negative side effect of literally EVERYTHING, so don't get too caught up in worries
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After a hot minute of fucking with his hormonal panel in the hopes of becoming a hot anime loli, a man reports that he has lost a whopping three inches in height over the course of only 8 months. If this were remotely true, it would be extremely alarming to medical providers that someone's bones could turn to ash so rapidly, but hey, at least OP now reports that he is "so cute and tiny" even though he's allegedly standing in at 5'8"; here's hoping he never winds up standing next to any pooners as, for some odd reason, they are usually so small one needs a microscope to see them.Is HRT the "Fountain of Youth"?
As an older girl, I started my HRT later in life, at 50 years old, im currently about 2.5 months in and for the last 2 weeks have just been getting comment after comment about how youthful im looking and twice now after someone had heard my age, they've asked for ID to show proof! Makes me feel fantastic!!!
Ive always been told I appear younger, but now im getting significantly younger guesses, early to mid 30s!!! Does it get better even from here??? Will i be mistaken for my 20s by next month
My poor wife was called a cougar the other day, after i was introduced to her new co-worker, thinking I was younger, (she and I are the same age)... she's been giving me a hard time ever since....
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Speaking of poons, this one desperately desires getting her tits filleted into medical waste to achieve proper boyhood, but her dreams of liberation from her feminine qualities are soured by knowing she shares community with attention-starved histrionics who dash her hopes of living a life of deception.i got 3” shorter in 8 mos.
Ok yall I had heard that MTF GAHT could take a few inches off your height, but I didn’t realize it would happen so soon. For context, I started HRT in the beginning of February last year, so I’m coming up on one year. Before starting HRT, I was just under 5’11”, which is tall for a girl, but not too crazy, so honestly I wasn’t too worried about my height.
Well, I was looking through after-visit summaries of some previous medical appointments, and nearly gagged when I saw my height listed as 5’8”. I never really pay attention to my measurements when they’re being taken (inattentive adhd lol) so I had no idea.
I thought for sure it must be a fluke—maybe the medical assistant took a guess at my height or measured incorrectly? I pulled up a summary from a different visit with a different provider from a different clinic, and again, my height was listed as 5’7.99”. So, probably not a fluke. Two independent measurements that were almost exactly the same.
I ran to grab a measuring tape to confirm for myself, and sure enough, I measured (to the best of my ability) 5’8”.
I went through my medical charts, and found a record that listed me as 5’8” from all the way back in October! Which means, for the past 3 months, I’ve been telling people that I’m 5’11” and they’re probably thinking “ok sure, uh huh”
TL;DR I lost 3” of height after only about 8 months of taking estrogen and now i’m so cute and tiny.
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Getting sick of hearing about the horny hockey hullabaloo surrounding Heated Rivalry yet? Me too! Unfortunately for all of us, however, this show has a vise grip on the hearts and souls of doodz everywhere, who all seem under the impression that they are the only ones to be swayed by watching two men - who both appear to be incest babies, but of different clans - pretend to have sex. Is NLOGery getting worse? Discuss.I fear I’m more likely to get clocked after top surgery.
I’ve gotten to a very comfortable point with myself. I’ve been on T for about. A year and a half now, I’m cis passing and the other people who know I was female at birth are those who knew me before I started T. The next step for me is top surgery, and I fantasize about it constantly, but because of how in your face some of these people online are about “LOOK AT ME LOOK AT MY TOP SURGERY SCARS IM SO FUCKING COOL THESE ARE BECAUSE IM A TR^NNY”
I feel like if I ever have my shirt off in the future I’m getting clocked no matter what. Ofc I can lie, I can say I had gyno, or some other surgery, but I also feel like most people aren’t going to ask they’re just going to look at me and assume I was born female.
This is part of the reason I hate the transgender community so much. In “fighting for rights” they’ve created dog whistles that make people less safe. Maybe I assume that’s what others will see because that’s almost always what I see, but it’s fucked up that I feel like the dysphoria of my chest will just shift into social dysphoria and feeling like everyone knows and will never consider me a man.
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Proving that taking the girlcock is integral for anyone of the pronoun persuasion to respect you as an ally, a tranny admits that he would rather spend time with closeted gay/bisexual conservatives who vote against his whims than men who toe the party line but are strictly no-dickly. Remember, everyone: they will never consider you worshipful enough unless you give up your bodies as sacrifice!Am I alone in getting struck very specifically by the show Heated Rivalry? (Gay(ish) ftm)
So I watched heated rivalry with my partner and a friend, and I really liked it. It struck something in me that I've been having a really hard time figuring out how to explain.
I'm pre-transition ftm, but completely out. I'm not really sure what it was about the show, but it triggered my dysphoria really strongly? In a weird way? Like I wouldn't say I have that much dysphoria, but I definitely feel it from time to time. But after finishing the show it's been nonstop in my face, although not necessarily in a bad way. It's not been easy to deal with but it hasn't caused harmful feelings for the most part.
I'm definitely feeling a lot more "I wish I was born a man/in the correct body" then I ever have before. And have been researching a lot more surgical transition routes than I have before. Which is weird because I've known and have been out for a decent bit, and am an adult so it's not like I don't have potential access to any transition amenities I may want. I am trying to go on T soon, and hopefully I can.
I'm wondering if part of the show was just it being so casually gay (not in reality in the show, they are closeted but), i would say I'm culturally queer, and I see a lot of people who are gay but not culturally queer. Sometimes I wish I could just be casually gay and not culturally queer, even though I love my queerness and queer history. I feel like if I had been born a man I would be more casually gay in that way. And I'm not sure what's appealing about it but..
A part of me wishes I could have a relationship like the show depicts, which is a REALLY weird feeling for me considering I absolutely love my relationship and have been very happy with my partner for years. But maybe it's a part of that wishing for casual gayness...It may tie into my tendency of getting very emotionally invested in fictional stories, in a way that makes it sometimes hard to separate my feelings of reality vs the book I may be reading.
I guess I'm just wondering if I'm alone in feeling very uniquely struck by heated rivalry in the gender department lol. Again I'm not explaining all of this very well, but I was really just wondering if anyone else felt similar.
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A freak under the comically fitting username Cocky_Girly asks fellow creeps in his class whether they also enjoy inappropriately juvenile forms of address to validate their fetishistic fantasies of fillyhood. The comments on this one are quite brain-melting and, quite frankly, some of you are getting a bit too clever, so obviously I'm dragging you down into the low-IQ mud with me by showing you what was said.Why do I have more trust with conservative cis straight men that willing to date trans women rather woke cis men who only pursue AFAB people?
I have some mistrust with people having genitia preference
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"Girl" versus "Woman"
Is it weird to sometimes like being called a girl over being called a woman? I find both affirming, but sometimes, I prefer being called a girl. I'm not a minor. (I acknowledge some women do not want to be called a girl past a certain age. That's valid and should be respected. I also acknowledge that some people can use "girl" as a way to demean someone else rather than as a friendly term. I am not talking about that, as that would upset me.)
[–]Remote_Speech1907
Nah not weird at all, lots of people have preferences like that regardless of being trans or cis. "Girl" can feel more casual and friendly in certain contexts while "woman" feels more formal - totally get why you'd vibe with both depending on the situation
[–]Helpful_Mountain_582
I’ve also wondered this. Could it be because most of us never had a ‘normal’ girlhood and our brain is still trying to make up for that?
[–]Nuclear_rabbit
I'm not even out publicly yet, and I already feel confident I'd rather be called "woman" at work and "girl" outside of work.
[–]louisa1925
To each their own. I am a woman and I will defend my identity as an adult. If being called a girl works for you, I say run with it.
I faced a decade of abuse when I came out and learned to dig my heels in. For many others, recently coming out allows exploration of their missed childhood. So I can understand the appeal.
[–]Blahajaja
I see it as women have their shit together and know the gendered skills and competence women are expected to possess
i'm still learning how to exists as a woman
so, I see myself as a trans girl working to become a respectable woman
not everyone's view, kinda depends on your feels of gender roles and society and stuff
[–]Dravos7
For me, it feels partially like unconsciously trying to reclaim my childhood since that was spent as a boy. I often refer to myself as a girl, I’ll say out loud to myself, “I wish I had a boy to kiss or cuddle me right now,” “I’m actually such a cute girl,” etc. Very teenager-like sorta phrasing and such when hyping myself up or pining after boys. Any men that I find attractive are just immediately “cute boys” lol, doesn’t matter how ruggedly hot they might be, they’re just cute boys now lol
Another part may just be my attitude. Not intentionally, but I generally cutesify myself, as I definitely have more of a playful, teasing sort of style and vibe about me. A bit unserious. “Woman” feels so powerful and serious and strong, and yeah, I am a woman. But I’m also literally just a girl. I have a hard time opening jars, carrying my groceries home, can’t fully reach the top cupboards without a stool. Literally just a girl
Part of it is definitely some internalized issues tho too
[–]Canadian_Eevee
The term trans woman is surrounded with so much political controversy In a way that trans girl just isn't. It feel less heavy in a way, I don't know if I'm making sense.
[–]Willing_Soft_5944
Woman just feels wrong for me, too professional IG. It feels restrictive, like a choking cloud of S(CH₂CH₂Cl)₂, aka Mustard Gas
[–]Incendas1
I'm transmasc nonbinary and I prefer boy to man for sure. "Man" feels very much like "ok, well I'm not a man exactly" unless it's used super casually. "Boy" is inherently more casual, I guess? I don't necessarily dislike either of them.
Anyway, if it makes you happy, that's really great! We have different experiences to some people who dislike the terms and that's fine.
[–]BRDF
I used to feel this way earlier into my transition.
The way it eventually made sense to me is that the word woman carries with it the implied life experience of years of being a girl. It tasted a lie to suddenly don that title when I felt so inexperienced.
I liked girl. It felt affirming, and didn't carry the weight of womanhood.
After a few years I started becoming more comfortable with woman.
[–]Longing2bme
I love being called either and often refer to myself as an “old girl or girl” depending on the situation. My wife like in your comment asked not to be called girl. I asked why and she sees it as demeaning, she said she is a woman. I pointed out it was meant and is meant as a friendly term and generally used among women that know each other. I also said I would respect her request. I just call myself girl and use girl in reference to things that are not addressed to her. So totally understand this is an issue for some women who see it as an issue of respect.
[–]DefaultingOnLife
I love being called girl. But I acknowledge that I am a middle-aged woman. Both are good.
[–]CarL_Bennett
Woman feels more formal, public face like, while girl is more casual, something your friends would call you
[–]According_Dust913
Girl feels more casual. Woman feels more serious. Completely normal!
[–]CrackedMeUp
I won't claim the woman label because of the binary implications. I'm non-binary. My gender identity is feminine, female, I'm a trans girl, just in a non-binary way. That does not mean I'm a child.
Among the definitions of girl:
I see Prince Fiyero and say "omygawd that boy is soooooo pretty," and I am not referring to his age.
So while our experiences differ in how we perceive the label "woman" I don't see anything weird about gravitating toward a more informal label, especially in informal settings/discussions.
I've had a cishet person tell me once to stop calling women girls because they aren't children and I had to explain that girl and child are not necessarily synonymous, especially in the contexts in which I was using them, and that I'm a girl and that doesn't make me a child. Like I get that it can be used condescendingly, especially in formal contexts like one might find at the workplace, or when generally being rude to someone. But in casual conversation about people I know informally, or myself, I only want my language policed by people who aren't comfortable having it applied to themself even in informal context.
[–]Deep-Effect-1795
I'm a trans guy, but I prefer boy over man. I didn't spend my entire childhood feeling wrong as a girl to just skip boyhood and become a man.
Nah not weird at all, lots of people have preferences like that regardless of being trans or cis. "Girl" can feel more casual and friendly in certain contexts while "woman" feels more formal - totally get why you'd vibe with both depending on the situation
I wonder if there may be a bit of a similar connotation around "boy" vs "man".
E.g. femboy has a cute/friendly ring to it, where attaching femininity to the notion of a "man" seems more challenging/contradictory, as it's more fully steeped in masculine connotations.
I can't speak for any larger patterns, but for me, it feels less challenging to to describe someone as a boy when they aren't stereotypically masculine. Like, I have this idea of a man, and I have been consciously expanding it because I want to be inclusive of how varied men can be, but that initial idea is there. There is the more masculine-coded phrase, "the boys," which can have that stronger connotation, but I still feel like "boy" has a lot more freedom in that way. That's my subjective, late night take.
I think “the boys” is a gender neutral term. The way I see it, I’m not being referred to as an actual boy, I’m so incredibly good/cool/fun/friendly that I’ve been upgraded to being considered one of them.
Sorta like becoming an honorary member of the mafia even though you aren’t technically Italian in a cheesy New Jersey movie
[–]Helpful_Mountain_582
I’ve also wondered this. Could it be because most of us never had a ‘normal’ girlhood and our brain is still trying to make up for that?
[–]Nuclear_rabbit
I'm not even out publicly yet, and I already feel confident I'd rather be called "woman" at work and "girl" outside of work.
Is it coz woman sounds more formal at work ?
Not just formal. Mature and professional.
[–]louisa1925
To each their own. I am a woman and I will defend my identity as an adult. If being called a girl works for you, I say run with it.
I faced a decade of abuse when I came out and learned to dig my heels in. For many others, recently coming out allows exploration of their missed childhood. So I can understand the appeal.
[–]Blahajaja
I see it as women have their shit together and know the gendered skills and competence women are expected to possess
i'm still learning how to exists as a woman
so, I see myself as a trans girl working to become a respectable woman
not everyone's view, kinda depends on your feels of gender roles and society and stuff
[–]Dravos7
For me, it feels partially like unconsciously trying to reclaim my childhood since that was spent as a boy. I often refer to myself as a girl, I’ll say out loud to myself, “I wish I had a boy to kiss or cuddle me right now,” “I’m actually such a cute girl,” etc. Very teenager-like sorta phrasing and such when hyping myself up or pining after boys. Any men that I find attractive are just immediately “cute boys” lol, doesn’t matter how ruggedly hot they might be, they’re just cute boys now lol
Another part may just be my attitude. Not intentionally, but I generally cutesify myself, as I definitely have more of a playful, teasing sort of style and vibe about me. A bit unserious. “Woman” feels so powerful and serious and strong, and yeah, I am a woman. But I’m also literally just a girl. I have a hard time opening jars, carrying my groceries home, can’t fully reach the top cupboards without a stool. Literally just a girl
Part of it is definitely some internalized issues tho too
I suppose that I feel like calling myself a girl because I like to express myself with youthful clothes that I wanted to wear so badly when I was 10-17. Sometimes, I just feel my body relax when I do something "girly," though I also do very unexpected things. Like you, I wonder if it's something to do with feeling heard when I wasn't before. I feel it's more associated with joy and I like that.
I used to think I had to be all softness to be a girl. I didn't apply this judgment to others as much as myself. I've realized that's not true for me. To me (my experience), being trans is to question and feel something deep in your heart, to express it as self-justifying truth. This is not because gender is innate, but because how we choose to embody ourselves in the world is powerful and both sociological (influenced by everything) and yet something we ultimately describe and experience as a daily emotional reality. If I say I can be one thing only if I am one way, it undermines being trans itself.So, I'm just me. Just a girl who loves My Little Pony. Just a girl who loves Hazbin Hotel. Just a girl who loves miniskirts and knives (they're so interesting). Just a girl who loves being cute and feeling small when safe. Just a girl who loves being powerful and in charge. Just a girl who loves microtonal music.
I think most people have some type of issue, and trans people even more so because of what we face. I have them, too. I'm doing my best to integrate all of myself, which is hard sometimes but worth it to me. It's trial and error, deciding when I want to try something new if it might make me happier versus just accept how I am already of that does so instead. Again, that's just my experience so far. Everyone's matters.
Yeah I feel this! So much of the things I gravitate towards are things that I just never let myself want. I have plushies now, that’s a big one! Never felt there was anything wrong with anyone having them, but it was never something I could have. Or my phone case! It has flowers on the back! I have another one with bees on it! Also just got a basic black case before.
Definitely a lot of “making up for lost time” in language, presentation, behavior, everything!
Opening jars and carrying groceries? I feel like everyone has those problems at least once in their life..
There has been a MASSIVE difference for me since starting HRT
I put a few apples and a couple canned goods in the basket and I’m using two hands to hold the basket now lol
By any and all physical standards, I am very weak lol
I haven't taken hormones and I still have a hard time with some cups with the temperature changes making them tighter.
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[–]Canadian_Eevee
The term trans woman is surrounded with so much political controversy In a way that trans girl just isn't. It feel less heavy in a way, I don't know if I'm making sense.
[–]Willing_Soft_5944
Woman just feels wrong for me, too professional IG. It feels restrictive, like a choking cloud of S(CH₂CH₂Cl)₂, aka Mustard Gas
[–]Incendas1
I'm transmasc nonbinary and I prefer boy to man for sure. "Man" feels very much like "ok, well I'm not a man exactly" unless it's used super casually. "Boy" is inherently more casual, I guess? I don't necessarily dislike either of them.
Anyway, if it makes you happy, that's really great! We have different experiences to some people who dislike the terms and that's fine.
[–]BRDF
I used to feel this way earlier into my transition.
The way it eventually made sense to me is that the word woman carries with it the implied life experience of years of being a girl. It tasted a lie to suddenly don that title when I felt so inexperienced.
I liked girl. It felt affirming, and didn't carry the weight of womanhood.
After a few years I started becoming more comfortable with woman.
[–]Longing2bme
I love being called either and often refer to myself as an “old girl or girl” depending on the situation. My wife like in your comment asked not to be called girl. I asked why and she sees it as demeaning, she said she is a woman. I pointed out it was meant and is meant as a friendly term and generally used among women that know each other. I also said I would respect her request. I just call myself girl and use girl in reference to things that are not addressed to her. So totally understand this is an issue for some women who see it as an issue of respect.
[–]DefaultingOnLife
I love being called girl. But I acknowledge that I am a middle-aged woman. Both are good.
[–]CarL_Bennett
Woman feels more formal, public face like, while girl is more casual, something your friends would call you
[–]According_Dust913
Girl feels more casual. Woman feels more serious. Completely normal!
[–]CrackedMeUp
I won't claim the woman label because of the binary implications. I'm non-binary. My gender identity is feminine, female, I'm a trans girl, just in a non-binary way. That does not mean I'm a child.
Among the definitions of girl:
I am a girl. I date girls. I date boys. They are all adults.informal / women who mix socially or belong to a particular group, team, or profession. / "I look forward to having lunch with the girls"
I see Prince Fiyero and say "omygawd that boy is soooooo pretty," and I am not referring to his age.
So while our experiences differ in how we perceive the label "woman" I don't see anything weird about gravitating toward a more informal label, especially in informal settings/discussions.
I've had a cishet person tell me once to stop calling women girls because they aren't children and I had to explain that girl and child are not necessarily synonymous, especially in the contexts in which I was using them, and that I'm a girl and that doesn't make me a child. Like I get that it can be used condescendingly, especially in formal contexts like one might find at the workplace, or when generally being rude to someone. But in casual conversation about people I know informally, or myself, I only want my language policed by people who aren't comfortable having it applied to themself even in informal context.
[–]Deep-Effect-1795
I'm a trans guy, but I prefer boy over man. I didn't spend my entire childhood feeling wrong as a girl to just skip boyhood and become a man.