💬 Off-Topic Random Trans Thoughts, Musings, and Questions - For all your armchair psych and general sperging

[Comfy Summer]

That r/egg_irl subreddit is honestly of the darkest places on the internet, I swear. Full of teenagers, but there's absolutely a bunch of 30+ years old as well.

Isn't it so cool to teach a teenager how to get hormones on his own?? We groom people on discord, and we are proud of it!

Honestly fuck Reddit, they ban people for the faggiest of reasons and let this shit up. It's so depressing seeing young people being excited about joining a death cult.

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[General Zoider]

"The Emperor's New Clothes" is an uncomfortable story because it's all about virtue signaling. It's especially relevant to tranny ideology. Lots of people love to show how accepting they are. It's not taught today because it's all too relevant to today's culture of bullshit empty platitudes.

If you want to see what a woman really thinks about trannies, congratulate her on passing so well. When she gets mistaken for a tranny you'll see what she really thinks.

I just want to admit that I have done this 3 times accidentally due to being exposed to tranny nonsense for too long while also being bone tired. All three times, the women got very, very angry.

Random question because I'm curious. In your personal irl experience, has trans support gone up, down or stayed the same? What about your online experiences, are those any different?

Here on the streets where I am, tranny acceptance has always been low (Imagine being white in a black neighborhood and being constantly looked at as the odd one kind of overall situation), But in the current year support has dropped into the negative for anyone who is gender diverse. Its reached the point that in some of the local bars here, people sigh in relief if the person is just a homosexual or lesbian.

 

[The Morning Visitor]

Random question because I'm curious. In your personal irl experience, has trans support gone up, down or stayed the same? What about your online experiences, are those any different?

It's gone down. I have no evidence other than my anecdotal witnessings, but it's gone down. The current governor of California (that has championed "trans kids" issues) admitted to the late Charlie Kirk that the issue of transwomen in female sports is "a question of fairness" and there's been a huge sigh of relief from normies realizing that they're neither insane nor hateful for wanting these activists discarded for the chaff that they are. The right has always hated them, the centrist dems have turned on them for putting them on unjustifiable hills, and only the far left has clung to them, confused why Middle America takes issue with their children spayed/neutered and their wives/sisters raped.

The pendulum has swung. It may swing back left 20 years down the road, but we're trying to survive right now, and we have no time for first-world problems like identity.

 

[General Zoider]

The pendulum has swung. It may swing back left 20 years down the road, but we're trying to survive right now, and we have no time for first-world problems like identity.

this, the world of privilege for many, is over. Being trans has become a luxury belief/luxury in general. Even if the pendulum didn't swing, it's no longer really possible to support the trans lifestyle on a retail/minimum wage (if it ever was possible). But thanks to the pendulum, the lure of trans has lost its spark when it's no longer celebrated. Yas QWEEN has turned into "cool, your pronouns are she/her, but can you please finish my McDonald's order?".

Also I think I have discovered people who are immune to MtF trannies, those people happen to be fags who are cursed with chasing the jock stereotype. This means things like femboys do nothing for them on top of things like gock are already off the list. ... Well, it won't save them from trooning out themselves, but they are functionally immune to the allure of a MtF troon.

 

[and I must scream]

I have an important question to ask about troon terminology. When they talk about top and bottom in sex, is it about the position, or is it about who penetrates whom?

Is a woman riding a man considered a top, or is she only top is she shoves a phallus shaped thingy into his rectum?

I want to know the answer once and for all lol

 

[Paper Machete]

I have an important question to ask about troon terminology. When they talk about top and bottom in sex, is it about the position, or is it about who penetrates whom?

Is a woman riding a man considered a top, or is she only top is she shoves a phallus shaped thingy into his rectum?

I want to know the answer once and for all lol

Pitching vs catching

 

[SR Latch]

I have an important question to ask about troon terminology. When they talk about top and bottom in sex, is it about the position, or is it about who penetrates whom?

Is a woman riding a man considered a top, or is she only top is she shoves a phallus shaped thingy into his rectum?

I want to know the answer once and for all lol

Both, depending on who you ask. A "woman riding a man" situation has about equal chances for the woman being called a "top" (because she is on top), or a "power bottom" (because she is the active partner, but is also taking it).

 

[bouquetnine]

Anyway, that's the kind of anti-gender resource that older kids need, the kind that tells them how to pick apart arguments, how they're being sold on an ism--and the kind that's funny, because if they weren't a threat, just look at the troons. There are plenty of resources that come at it from a faith standpoint, or cutsey books so you can tell young kids they're special just how they are. It's impossible to get ahead of the ever-changing goalposts of the gendies and warn about each individual threat specifically; kids need a framework and some reassurance that it's not just them, like we have informally here. You want it set up so your kid doesn't come home and say "I talked to Leaf and I think I might be a demiboy too," but instead, "hi, Mom, guess what new identity Leaf is trying to claim now."

Plenty of people would be that gender resource or publish such a thing, but this is where cancel culture comes in. The troons know their ideology cannot withstand scrutiny so they do every thing they can to deplatform and censor. This is why JK Rowling and Chapelle anger them so much; they can't shut them up. Troonery only persists because going against it is enforced with (as we have seen with Kirk) every tool up to and including violence.

 

[General Zoider]

I have an important question to ask about troon terminology. When they talk about top and bottom in sex, is it about the position, or is it about who penetrates whom?

Is a woman riding a man considered a top, or is she only top is she shoves a phallus shaped thingy into his rectum?

I want to know the answer once and for all lol

first I want to say that top and bottom isn't troon specific, it's actually taken from BDSM and homosexual stuff.

But to answer your question, the "top" sticks thier "dick" into the "bottom". You can think of it in the heterosexual way (...well this comparison was used before the great trooning). The bottom is the woman while the top is the man in the bedroom.

 

[bouquetnine]

Random musing: The term "Girlfailure" seems to be trending. What if we normalize calling trannies, "Boyfailure"? Seems to be a very succinct way to describe them that doesn't immediately kick up warning sirens.

 

[AI generated waifu]

Just a couple of days ago I had a coworker inform me that apparently a member of staff hinted at preferring "she/her" pronouns. I'm not entirely surprised, based on the fact that the guy in question has given off serial gooner vibes from day one in a way that seriously creeped me the fuck out, but I'll lose my job if he makes that preference more strongly known and I don't bite my tongue.

Disgusting, hope that freak gets fired. I am relieved I haven't been put in such a situation before and I can't wait for this lunacy to be a bad dream again. Are there any people you work with that share your opinions about how weird this all is? I'm cautiously optimistic that a repulsive pervert trooning out will peak those around you.

It's gone down. I have no evidence other than my anecdotal witnessings, but it's gone down. The current governor of California (that has championed "trans kids" issues) admitted to the late Charlie Kirk that the issue of transwomen in female sports is "a question of fairness" and there's been a huge sigh of relief from normies realizing that they're neither insane nor hateful for wanting these activists discarded for the chaff that they are. The right has always hated them, the centrist dems have turned on them for putting them on unjustifiable hills, and only the far left has clung to them, confused why Middle America takes issue with their children spayed/neutered and their wives/sisters raped.

The pendulum has swung. It may swing back left 20 years down the road, but we're trying to survive right now, and we have no time for first-world problems like identity.

The biggest cure to trans activism really is just interacting with trans people. If you have any sense left in you you know how delusional it is to put men in the women's sports category or to experiment on children with unresearched drugs. Trans activists are often extremist, unwilling to compromise and generally unlikable.

Its reached the point that in some of the local bars here, people sigh in relief if the person is just a homosexual or lesbian.

Lol, probably had to deal with a ma'am few too many times

 

[Big Shot]

if tranny/queer teachers decide that gender nonsense is more important

The other students are worse than the teachers. Kids are rebellious and don't take their teachers seriously, but brainwashing from fellow peers and social contagion is MUCH more dangerous

Just 10 years ago I used to laugh at homeschooling advocates and call them whackjobs, but looking at the modern state of education with pooner teachers and kids who go around fake moaning and saying "choke me daddy" at age 11, homeschooling has never seemed like a better alternative

What if we normalize calling trannies, "Boyfailure"? Seems to be a very succinct way to describe them that doesn't immediately kick up warning sirens.

You already have a trillion words for that. Failure to launch / manchild / bottom-feeder / ...
Society is a lot harsher on men who fail at becoming independent than women, that itself is one of the reasons men troon out

 

[The Morning Visitor]

If you have any sense left in you you know how delusional it is to put men in the women's sports category or to experiment on children with unresearched drugs. Trans activists are often extremist, unwilling to compromise and generally unlikable.

It's just common sense. We separate our sports by sex because trained male athletes will beat trained female athletes with near 100% certainty. On average we are taller than women, we have more muscle mass, we have deeper lung capacity, and we have better spatial awareness (not even barsports are safe from being gatekept). We separate changing rooms and prisons by sex because not only are men stronger on average, we're more aggressive on average. We are more likely to try to initiate unwanted sexual contact and women shouldn't have to deal with that just for existing in public. I don't care if most men trespassing in their spaces are post op and infertile, or chemically castrated and impotent, the very fact that they're muddying the waters created an actual avenue for sex predators to violate this boundary because people were too confused on if it's acceptable or just to call it out or take action.

I'm actually glad that they're incapable of compromise. We'd be living in an Aldous Huxley novel if they made half of their demands socially acceptable.

 

[Aunt Carol]

What if we normalize calling trannies, "Boyfailure"? Seems to be a very succinct way to describe them that doesn't immediately kick up warning sirens.

Concern: there's a troon term, "male fail," that describes when a MtF is "boymoding" in public to avoid trouble, but still gets "read" as female because their gender-soul/moobs are too powerful. Whether or not this actually happens, they do talk about it as a positive thing.

first I want to say that top and bottom isn't troon specific, it's actually taken from BDSM and homosexual stuff.

At this point people are treating it as a personality type, like the "use your words; I don't speak bottom" and the "you're not a top or a bottom, you are 14" memes. People not in the subculture using in-jokes they're not cleared for.

 

[Polexia Aphrodisia]

Disgusting, hope that freak gets fired. I am relieved I haven't been put in such a situation before and I can't wait for this lunacy to be a bad dream again. Are there any people you work with that share your opinions about how weird this all is? I'm cautiously optimistic that a repulsive pervert trooning out will peak those around you.

The gooner in question should not legally work at the company because he committed theft against the company some years ago and was told that he could avoid charges by leaving quietly and never returning. Chalk it up to the hiring manager being a ridiculously soft touch. He was severely underperforming for his first few months of re-employment and was on a fast track to being fired - but unfortunately he seems to be now putting in enough effort to not be in danger of firing, and he's smart enough to be respectful towards the right people while being a condescending and manipulative little worm to people without any supervisory power over him.

The problem with being a "TERF" is that most of the people around me who share my views on trannies are my sociopolitical opposites in most, if not all, other ways.

We've already got one fully trooned person on staff, who doesn't radiate the stench of perversion but is still very antisocial and annoying, and unfortunately I fear that the people who aren't as in-tune with the nastier parts of troonery and goonery aren't as bothered by Goon Boy's inherent presence as I am.

If he does decide to go full open troon and I'm expected to use "she/her" about him, I wish that I could say something like -

"Have you heard of Euphoria Boners? It's when "transwomen" achieve an erection at the thought of being treated as a woman, or achieve an erection when people actually treat them like a woman. This is considered a completely normal, ordinary, and common part of the experience of being a transwoman. I don't deliberately treat people in a way where they could be expected to get erections, and I don't think it is fair or appropriate of a workplace to ask me to start interacting with someone in a way that would normally result in them getting an erection."

But again, I can't. I'd get a brief grace period for using the "wrong" pronoun but immediately axed if they sensed I was doing it on purpose.

 

[The Morning Visitor]

I've understood "Top" and "Bottom" to be dominant and submissive personalities in bed. This often corresponds to "Top" being a pitcher and "Bottom" being a catcher, but not always (further reading: "Power Bottom"). This does mean that a woman riding a man cowgirl style, despite being the penetrated partner, could be considered a "Top" if she's really taking charge of the situation.

If you look up the "Amazon" position (a ridiculous riding position that's only possible in porn because it requires a combination of lengthy penis and lengthy female thighs), that is a position where the woman is unquestionably the "Top". The man basically has his ankles up in the air like he's on a giant changing table and the woman is doing all the work while he looks as undignified and submissive as possible.

 

[bouquetnine]

Concern: there's a troon term, "male fail," that describes when a MtF is "boymoding" in public to avoid trouble, but still gets "read" as female because their gender-soul/moobs are too powerful. Whether or not this actually happens, they do talk about it as a positive thing.

I've never heard "male fail" before. And it's hard to imagine anyone misgendering a mtf tranny in "boymode" unless they were being excessively cautious. Probably some kind of dumb humblebrag, "I'm so feminine even when I'm not trying I get gendered as femme" except it's completely made up.

At this point people are treating it as a personality type, like the "use your words; I don't speak bottom" and the "you're not a top or a bottom, you are 14" memes. People not in the subculture using in-jokes they're not cleared for.

"Bottom" definitely is a personality type. There's way more bottoms than there are tops and they're often clingy and pushovers. I have top energy and I have to beat these fags off with a stick.

 

[healing rain]

What’s a good rebuttal to “the reason so many trans people have an OnlyFans/go into sex work is because no one will hire them!” ?

 

[NiKo's Deagle Miss]

What’s a good rebuttal to “the reason so many trans people have an OnlyFans/go into sex work is because no one will hire them!” ?

cuz they are traumatised and love sexualizing themselves cause of it i guess

 

[Baraadmirer]

Random question because I'm curious. In your personal irl experience, has trans support gone up, down or stayed the same? What about your online experiences, are those any different?

It feels like it's stayed relatively the same, though it might have gone down a little. I come across the occasional non-binary in certain projects, but they are usually competent in their role, so no one exhibits any dissatisfaction with them. As these situations are highly collaborative in nature, the incidence of troons is incredibly low, and I've never come in contact with one there. There's usually a pronoun disclosure during the meet-and-greet, but they are formalities as 98% of them are choruses of "he/him"s and "she/her"s.