Kayla should have filed papers after the Mandy episode.
Your husband whines and complains about how your snatch is too slack after five kids and your saggy tits are touching your knees, so in a desperate attempt to try and make that vacuous amoral narcissist happy, to be the trophy wife he's demanding despite having borne him five children, you agree to go under the knife, have some money-grubbing quack perform pointless and unnecessary procedures in an attempt to get his flaccid cock hard -- something that's never happening anyway given all the coke he's hoovering up.
But no sooner have you had these unnecessary but potentially life threatening procedures than the narcissistic fuck is crooning love ballads to an obsessive autogynephile who's been publicly flirting with your husband for weeks.
The only possible reason there can be for not being served with divorce papers under those circumstances is that you're an abuser and you've married a co-dependent woman because she's happy to allow you to abuse her as long as she gets certain needs (Star Trek and benzos?) met.