The goal isn't to say "my side better", the goal is to make detransitioning a nationally viable and aware thing for trooners.
All of the troons and poons are aware of and terrified of detransitioning, like all cult members are aware of heretics. Their arguments against it are 1) its so incredibly rare that we shouldn't even talk about it because it could prevent people from life-saving transitioning, 2) it's due to society's transphobia, not a genuine desire to detransition.
Any detransitioner who is publicly elevated and given a platform is now an ambassador for detransition, both to the ignorant public and trannies. If they flip flop back, the cult can now point to them and say "see, even your poster girl was actually trans all along and were cruelly brainwashed by TERFS". People giving them a platform have a responsibility not to put a mentally unstable person in a position to further fuck up their life, and also not perpetuate the cult of trans by supporting the rare/coerced detransition story.
This has happened multiple times, with the AGP Shupe, a couple of flip flopping girls in the TERF sphere that I cannot be assed to look up at the moment, and currently the pised off lawyer pooner who's retransitioning or it was all a psyo, or something.
These people are not mentally stable and that doesn't go away when they stop playing pretend full time.
Cloe Cole is a very rare extremely sympathetic, put together, well spoken "perfect victim" of the trans cult, in a field dominated by shrieking insanity, that's why she is the face of detransitioning.
If the right wants to use detransitioners as a political tool to fight the trans, then they need to vet the shit out of them so they do not blow up in their face. So far they've done a good and responsible job with this, working with what they have.