Dark haired. I love dark haired men. Straight or wavy hair. I have a preference for white men but some hispanic men are nice too. I like a man with a bit of a tan but it's more of a nice to have.
A bit of stubble as well. Not too much. I hate beards they're disgusting.
There's always something about the voice too. I love men who have that soft, manly baritone. Manly, but soft.
I also like a soft jawline on a man. Manly and well defined but not chiseled or "pointy" if that makes sense. High cheekbones too.
Lean, fit, doesn't have to be super muscular, just takes care of himself. Although I wouldn't say no to a chiseled Greek god. But not gym bros, I despise gym bros.
I like men with broad shoulders, like a well made torso. Fills a suit nicely.
Has to smell nice. In the sense of cleanliness, not perfumes. I hate perfume.
I love a man with good personal hygiene. Too many men don't even wipe their asses.
There's always something about the eyes too. Usually it's what draws me first. I don't have a particular preference for color, though a warm shade of brown or green are nice. Lookup scorpio eyes, it's a mix of that (like he can see straight into people's souls, also looks a bit crazy) but also warm with a sweetness to them. I like a man with a mischievous smile, like he's always plotting and scheming and dissecting everyone around him. Thin lips, I like thin lips.
He has to be able to hold a conversation without trying to interject little innuendos and creepiness. Can't stand men who do that thinking it makes them funny or clever. It doesn't.
I like a man with "clear eyes" that is, he looks alert and aware. I can clock a man with the pornsick stare from miles away.
Height would be anywhere from my height (5'7'') to taller.
In terms of personality I'd be lying if I said I like kind sweet men, I like them sarcastic, nasty, eccentric, obcessive and unhinged. Kind to animals though. I like artist types. I like men who can be absolutely venomous and cut right into people with their words. I like them stubborn too. I like a man I can butt heads with who isn't afraid of dishing out as much as he takes. There's nothing hotter than a pissing contest with the man I like.
I like him to have an absolutely horrible personality but be so good at hiding it everyone around him thinks he's "just a bit caustic!" and can't tell how much he despises them and what a snake he is until he turns the whole place upside down. I like men with anger issues but not so much the type who'll blow up and make a scene, more like the type who'll find some creative completely assholish way to ruin someone's life over some petty crap. The more poetically creative, the better.
I like a man who is obsessive with the one person he likes (but not sexually aggressive or inappropriate). I'd never tolerate abuse. Also not promiscuous, I abhor promiscuity. I'd even take a virgin over a fuck boy. I hate, hate men who have emotional support pickmes, I don't care how perfect he is, if I spot a handmaiden it's an instant turn off.
To top it all off he has to be into pegging and be completely hetero but I'm aware how unlikely that is.
I also prefer uncircumscribed because circumcised dicks just look kinda injured and sad... besides I'm european so I just find the whole thing odd.
I don't care for politics but I have a soft spot for politician types and middleaged conmen. Something of a fetish really.
