Should I voice train to have a cuter voice?

[Ruined by the Rain]

I can't believe the sportball player I like prefers a tiny girl with a cute voice. I'm taller, more sturdy looking, and with a deeper voice, the exact opposite of her.

So, should I put effort into it and obtain a more cute voice or would it be uncanny when combined with my general appearance

Edit: This is how it feels sometimes

 

[Poppavalyim Andropoff]

Nah, broad shouldered.

how manly

You would caught me dead before you caught me being fat

don't be sizeist

 

[Iron Jaguar]

You're nearly the height of an average man, you are flat chested, you have an androgynous haircut and you wear glasses. He probably thinks you're a lesbian, a Pooner or even a Troon. If you want to attract the attention of a normal man, try making an effort to look feminine first.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

Edit: @California Newt was gay so your manly frame probably appeals to his tastes. We already have a dating thread and I will support your beautiful lavender marriage to kick off the KF dating app.

I was gonna ask why there's so many gays here but then I remembered this is a gossip site

 

[Colress]

i dont even know if op is a pooner, troon, or WHAT

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

If you want to attract the attention of a normal man, try making an effort to look feminine first.

I'm trying to grow my hair out.

i dont even know if op is a pooner, troon, or WHAT

I'm a heterosexual woman

 

[Colress]

...and apparently you're tall for a woman with a flat chest. There's no salvaging this. But I'm sure you'll eventually find... someone, who is into that.

All boobs are good boobs.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

...and apparently you're tall for a woman with a flat chest. There's no salvaging this. But I'm sure you'll eventually find... someone, who is into that.

All boobs are good boobs.

That's it, I'm hiring a rent boy

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Maybe that's what you should have thought about before taking the 'roids.

Try finding some values other than breads & circuses. In yourself, and in other people.

 

[Colress]

Maybe that's what you should have thought about before taking the 'roids.

Try finding some values other than breads & circuses.

Ah, so this is a former pooner.

 

[Nicholas Gur]

Op is gay.

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

I was never "gay"; I'm your bog-standard straight guy gooned vaguely bisexual.

I love how you've been editing that statement. The very addition of "vaguely" and insistence on "temporary" bisexuality induced by porn use is beyond parody. In combination with your religiosity, this makes you the gayest straightest Kiwi Farms user.

I was gonna ask why there's so many gays here but then I remembered this is a gossip site

KF is faggot central, but most are deep in denial. There have been so many instances of gay sexting in the DMs by supposedly straight people that it's safe to assume homosexuals are the majority here. I'm not sure why so many insist on denying it either. You're tolerated even here on the tranny-hating forum.

 

[California Newt]

I love how you've been editing that statement. The very addition of "vaguely" and insistence on "temporary" bisexuality induced by porn use is beyond parody. In combination with your religiosity, this makes you the gayest Kiwi Farms user.

Ok? I'm kind of a goofy person as a concept, sure. I think I'm just stuck in your head because you can't win any of our arguments.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Not beating the tranny accusations any time soon

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

Ah, so this is a former pooner.

I'm a bodybuilder. It's also a mental illness, but it's a different one. But even I don't deserve to have a hot guy look me in the eyes and ask whether I'm male or female

I'm not sure I'm looking to link up with a woman who makes threads like "can I jerk you off".

It's okay I understand

Not beating the tranny accusations any time soon

I understand if you think it's a pooner, it's mental illness to be a transgender but it's even worse mental illness for a male to want to be a woman

 

[Lidl Drip]

I understand if you think it's a pooner, it's mental illness to be a transgender but it's even worse mental illness for a male to want to be a woman

Pooners don't do this

Tema 'Do you also masturbate to your own reflection in the mirror?'

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Or is it just a me thing

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[Ruined by the Rain]

Pooners don't do this

Tema 'Do you also masturbate to your own reflection in the mirror?'

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It's a bait thread.

Also I'm very sure good looking, muscular type of pooner do that

 

[#1 Hot Sauce of Kiwi Farm]

So, should I put effort into it and obtain a more cute voice or would it be uncanny when combined with my general appearance

I don't think you should change yourself for someone else. If you want to act more feminine do so for yourself.

You said that you two play sports together, is the relationship purely only within the activity or are you friends outside of the activity?

He is apparently comfortable enough to talk to you about the type of woman he is interested in. Has he shown any interest in you outside of a platonic relationship and have you done the same? He may not even know that you are into him or men at all.

Ultimately you should think of why you like him and either choose to be more upfront or continue the relationship as is if you are concerned about how pursuing a more intimate relationship might affect your friendship.

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

You said that you two play sports together, is the relationship purely only within the activity or are you friends outside of the activity?

This is just some random guy I find hot. He's an athlete in a local [sport] team so I said he's a sportball guy.

Also the part that shook me up is this. He really has to ask

But even I don't deserve to have a hot guy look me in the eyes and ask whether I'm male or female

So I was thinking whether others actually perceive me as a male. Especially men I find attractive

 

[#1 Hot Sauce of Kiwi Farm]

This is just some random guy I find hot. He's an athlete in a local [sport] team so I said he's a sportball guy.

Also the part that shook me up is this. He really has to ask

I assumed you were being vague as we are on Kiwifarms and I suppose you can try to be more obvious that you like him though I don't think he will ask though it never hurts to try.

 

[YWNBAM]

>laments about how all wahmens are weak and inferior to men, wishes all females looked like buff ugly men with vaginas, Buck Angel style
>"waah guys pay attention to inferior weak wimmins, should I start acting more feminine, fellow kiwis???"

Pick a side, lady. Makes it sound like you are just salty about not fitting the standarts for an "ideal" female look.

Gnc women, especially those who don't spend much effort or time on their makeup, style or figure, obviously aren't going to attract random people on the street. But do you really need to do all that if it's not really you? As has been said many times in this thread, trying to larp as someone you're not is not the way to go. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who like muscle mummies and tomboys.

If getting male attention is that important to you, you should focus on your clothes and general appearance. Looking at your anime picture, I'd say you should add more variety — plain hoodies and white shirts aren't particularly eye-catching. You can still look atractive without wearing dresses and miniskirts or talking in a high-pitched lolinigger voice. Maybe show off your abs more or switch glasses for contact lenses.


I got a D in fashion, so I can't help much here. Perhaps you should have asked this question in Gorl Talk instead.