🤝 Community Munchausen's by Internet (Malingerers, Munchies, Spoonies, etc) - Feigning Illnesses for Attention

This cow, graciously brought to us by @Fungible penis, is munchie gold.

Allegra Peres, of Staten Island, NY, is a 26-year-old they/them claiming Long Covid, POTS, CFS/ME, endometriosis, and MCAS. Her family is over her excuses, and every medical professional she sees knows she’s full of shit and just BPD attention whoring. She’s been tying to, on top of other classics, be seen by Dr. Afrin (known for killing teens and young adults via unnecessary and excessive long-term steroid use) and other munchie-preferred docs, and convince someone to give her a feeding tube, since she’s “too fatigued to eat.” She’s on self-imposed bed rest and, since she clearly can’t be expected to work, has a GoFundMe that‘s racked up over $5,400 after her first failed GFM only netted her a bit over $300 (archive; archive). She was also “temporarily homeless” for refusing physical therapy.

You can’t make shit like that up, unless you’re a failed adult theater kid with an internet addiction who’s desperate to have an excuse to remain a NEET.

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I love when they tell on themselves with medical notes. Your clinician isn't saying you're depressed Allegra, they're quoting your mother who obviously also doesn't believe you.

Also, unrelated, those Manta sleep masks are legit. They're not cheap but they are amazing for blocking light and a godsend if you do night shift.
 
Not really munching but adjacent:

Anyone remember Anna Stubblefield, the barking mad professor of ethics, and in particular ethics in “disability studies”, who claimed that a severely intellectually disabled man with cerebral palsy consented to sex via facilitated communication (not a real thing) where she was the facilitator? Who left her husband & kids for said spaz? Who was sent to prison for this, because when the communication wasn’t facilitated by Anna Stubblefield the young man said fuck all?

Well, she’s out of prison and Louis Theroux has made a documentary about her, Tell Them You Love Me. I tried watching it tonight. Turned it off after three minutes, she’s fucking insufferable and dindu nuffin. I don’t say this lightly but she’s a wicked cunt.

Now I’m depressed.*sigh*
 
Not really munching but adjacent:

Anyone remember Anna Stubblefield, the barking mad professor of ethics, and in particular ethics in “disability studies”, who claimed that a severely intellectually disabled man with cerebral palsy consented to sex via facilitated communication (not a real thing) where she was the facilitator? Who left her husband & kids for said spaz? Who was sent to prison for this, because when the communication wasn’t facilitated by Anna Stubblefield the young man said fuck all?

Well, she’s out of prison and Louis Theroux has made a documentary about her, Tell Them You Love Me. I tried watching it tonight. Turned it off after three minutes, she’s fucking insufferable and dindu nuffin. I don’t say this lightly but she’s a wicked cunt.

Now I’m depressed.*sigh*
Holy shit, I remember watching a Gavin McInnes video about this back in middle school, forgot all about it. Time really does fly.

Sick, sick woman
 
Anyone remember Anna Stubblefield, the barking mad professor of ethics,
jfc this article is something else Archive
Anna didn’t want to keep her feelings secret. As far as she knew, neither did D.J. In recent weeks, their relationship had changed, and it wasn’t clear when or how to share the news. ‘‘It’s your call,’’ she said to him in the lead-up to a meeting with his mother and older brother. ‘‘It’s your family. It’s up to you.’’

When she arrived at the house on Memorial Day in 2011, Anna didn’t know what D.J. planned to do. His brother, Wesley, was working in the garden, so she went straight inside to speak with D.J. and his mother, P. They chatted for a while at the dining table about D.J.’s plans for school and for getting his own apartment. Then there was a lull in the conversation after Wesley came back in, and Anna took hold of D.J.’s hand. ‘‘We have something to tell you,’’ they announced at last. ‘‘We’re in love.’’

‘‘What do you mean, in love?’’ P. asked, the color draining from her face.

To Wesley, she looked pale and weak, like ‘‘Caesar when he found out that Brutus betrayed him.’’ He felt sick to his stomach. What made them so uncomfortable was not that Anna was 41 and D.J. was 30, or that Anna is white and D.J. is black, or even that Anna was married with two children while D.J. had never dated anyone. What made them so upset — what led to all the arguing that followed, and the criminal trial and million-dollar civil suit — was the fact that Anna can speak and D.J. can’t; that she was a tenured professor of ethics at Rutgers University in Newark and D.J. has been declared by the state to have the mental capacity of a toddler.

Anna does not agree with this assessment. She does not deny (as no one could) that D.J. is impaired: His cerebral palsy leaves him prone to muscle spasms in his face, his neck, his torso and his arms and hands. She acknowledges that it’s hard for him to stay in one position, that muscle contractions sometimes twist his spine and clench his fingers in a useless ball. It’s clear to her, as it is to everyone, that he has trouble making eye contact and keeping objects fixed in view. She knows that he wears diapers and cannot dress himself; that he can walk only if someone steadies him; and that otherwise he gets around by scooting on the floor. She knows that D.J. screams when he’s unhappy and chirps when he’s excited, but that he can’t control his vocal cords. Anna understands that even now, at 35, D.J. has never said a word.

But she takes issue with the other half of D.J.’s diagnosis: that he’s not just spastic but has a very low I.Q. In 2004, five years before Anna met him, a clinical psychologist named Wayne Tillman, who consults for New Jersey’s Bureau of Guardianship Services, assessed D.J. and found that his impairments precluded any formal testing of intelligence, but that certain facts could be inferred: ‘‘His comprehension seemed to be quite limited,’’ ‘‘his attention span was very short’’ and he ‘‘lacks the cognitive capacity to understand and participate in decisions.’’ D.J. could not even carry out basic, preschool-level tasks. A few months later, a court made P. and Wesley his legal guardians.

From the time she met D.J., Anna thought Tillman had it wrong. D.J. might be unable to speak or hold a pencil, but those are motor skills, not mental ones, and their absence didn’t mean his mind was blank. What if D.J. had a private chamber in his head, a place where grown-up thoughts were trapped behind his palsy? Then, of course, he would fail the standard tests of his I.Q. — tests made for people who can answer questions verbally or read and write. What D.J. needed was another way to share his deep intelligence.

At the request of D.J.’s family, Anna began to work with him, using a controversial method known as ‘‘facilitated communication.’’ Starting with her hand beneath his elbow, she helped him point at pictures, and then at letters, and eventually at the buttons of a Neo, a hand-held keyboard with a built-in screen. With his hand in hers, she helped him type out words after 30 years of silence.

Wesley and his mother had been thrilled with D.J.’s progress, but now, suddenly, they recoiled. (Neither D.J.’s family nor Anna agreed to be interviewed for this article; all their quotes and recollections are drawn from court records and testimony. P. and Wesley are referred to by a middle initial and a middle name to shield D.J.’s identity, which has not been publicly revealed.) When Wesley told Anna he thought she had taken advantage of his brother, she could not muster a response. At last, with her help, D.J. began typing: ‘‘No one’s been taken advantage of. I’ve been trying to seduce Anna for years, and she resisted valiantly.’’ Then he typed another message, meant for Anna: ‘‘Kiss me.’’ Wesley walked out.

Later, after he told Anna that she wasn’t to see his brother anymore, she tried to plead her case by phone: ‘‘I will put in writing, prick my finger and sign with blood — whatever makes you reassured that this is for real,’’ she promised in a voice mail message. ‘‘I will leave my husband, and I will make a permanent life and home with [D.J.].’’

But the family had had enough. What at first struck them as a miracle — a voice for D.J., his inner self revealed — now seemed a fraud. D.J. could not have given his consent to any love affair, they later told the authorities, because he suffers from profound mental disabilities, just as the psychologists had always told them. His ‘‘messages’’ must have been a sham. If Anna pretended otherwise, it was only so she could use D.J. as a guinea pig for research, or to further her career, or because, as Wesley would later say during the three-week trial for sexual assault that concluded this month in Newark, ‘‘she was having some sick, twisted fantasy.’’

Anna has never wavered in her claim that she and D.J. fell in love and that his messages were his. Even after she was indicted, she seemed more concerned about his fate than her own. ‘‘In the spring of 2011, [D.J.’s] access to his means of communication was taken from him,’’ she wrote in a chapter for a recent academic book, which was published while the justice system creaked its way toward trial, ‘‘and he is once again treated as severely intellectually impaired by those who have control over his life. This chapter is dedicated to him, in hope that he will one day regain his voice and his freedom.’’

Marjorie Anna Stubblefield goes by her middle name, pronounced with an aristocratic a, as in the word ‘‘nirvana.’’ Her last name is her former husband’s. Years ago, she was Margie McClennen, an honors student who grew up Jewish in the nearly all-white town of Plymouth, Mich. ‘‘I was raised to believe that I have the responsibility of tikkun olam, repairing the world,’’ Anna wrote in her 2005 book ‘‘Ethics Along the Color Line.’’ As a high-school student, she put that lesson into practice, writing articles for the school newspaper — one about a classmate who became pregnant, and another about a press-freedom case involving Plymouth students. Each won a national award. While a sophomore, Anna played the title role in a town production of ‘‘The Diary of Anne Frank.’’ ‘‘Marjorie just was Anne Frank,’’ says Elyse Mirto, a fellow cast member who is now an actor. ‘‘You know that famous quote — ‘I still believe, in spite of everything, that people are truly good at heart’? That was Marjorie.’’

Her parents were involved in local politics, environmentalism and women’s rights, but their most enduring cause was that of people with disabilities. Each trained in special education for their Ph.D.s. Her mother, Sandra McClennen, started working with blind, cognitively impaired children in 1963. For decades, she taught disabled people social skills, like shaking hands and talking appropriately with strangers, in the hope of helping them move out of state-run hospitals and into community housing.

Anna shared this interest in disabilities: As a high-school student, she studied Braille and learned the alphabet in sign language. But as a junior academic, she would apply the mandate of tikkun olam to a different focus — the fight for racial justice. Since getting her Ph.D. in 2000, she has become a prominent scholar in the field of Africana philosophy, has published widely on race and ethics and has served as the chairwoman of the American Philosophical Association’s Committee on the Status of Black Philosophers — the first and only white scholar ever to have done so. ‘‘Our world is in shambles,’’ she wrote in ‘‘Ethics Along the Color Line.’’ ‘‘White supremacy is central to this state of affairs, and we cannot repair the world without ending it.’’

Her own family is mixed-race — she has two children with her ex-husband, Roger Stubblefield, a black tuba player and classical composer. For 11 years, she served on the faculty at the Newark campus of Rutgers University, whose student body is among the nation’s most diverse. Yet for all her work on behalf of African-Americans, she worried that she might be ambushed by the ‘‘habits of racism.’’ ‘‘Even in well-intentioned quests to be antiracist,’’ she wrote, ‘‘white people all too often invade or destroy the space of nonwhite people.’’ The same essay lays out what could be a thesis statement for her whole career: It is crucial, she wrote, for white philosophers ‘‘to wrestle with the horrors and conundrums of whiteness.’’

Those ‘‘horrors and conundrums,’’ as Anna saw them, formed the nexus of oppression she had sworn to fight in all its forms. As the years went by, her mission seemed to broaden and merge into her mother’s. By 2007, Anna had begun to argue that a person’s intellect — and the degree to which he or she is ‘‘disabled’’ — could be as much a social construct, as much a venue for tyranny, as race, gender or sexuality. It was, after all, white elites, she wrote, who first devised measures of I.Q. ‘‘as both a rationalization and a tool of anti-black oppression.’’

With this shift in her scholarship, Anna began to wrestle not just with race but with disability; not just with racism but with ableism. If poor, black Americans were the most vulnerable members of society, she wrote in 2009, then poor, black, disabled Americans — men like D.J., born with cerebral palsy, raised by a single mother, seemingly unable to communicate — were the most vulnerable of the vulnerable. Voiceless in both fact and metaphor, she said, they were the ones ‘‘whom we push so far to the margins of our society that most of us, regardless of race, do not even notice when they fall off the edge.’’

By the time that warning made it into print, Anna had been working with D.J. for about a year. This was her mitzvah and her tikkun olam. She was helping to repair the world.

When D.J.’s brother finished his dissertation, he included a dedication to his family: ‘‘Mom, I stand in awe of your strength and grace,’’ he wrote. Wesley also put in a message to his little brother: ‘‘[D.J.], you never cease to amaze me.’’

Wesley graduated from high school in 1993, then enrolled at Rutgers. He was always very close to his brother, whom he sometimes calls ‘‘Baby Bubba.’’ By the time Wesley was named one of D.J.’s legal guardians, he had earned a master’s degree in history; in 2009, he was on track to get his Ph.D. and in one of Anna’s courses. During class, Anna showed part of a 2004 Oscar-nominated documentary called ‘‘Autism Is a World,’’ narrated by Julianna Margulies and co-produced by CNN. The film described a nonverbal girl with disabilities and an I.Q. of just 29 who went to college after learning to type using facilitated communication, or F.C. The girl reminded Wesley of D.J., and after class he went to Anna for advice: Could his brother also learn to use a keyboard? Anna said she had attended a three-day workshop on the technique the year before and maybe she could help.

One Saturday not long after, Wesley and P. took D.J. up to Anna’s office in Conklin Hall. In preparation for their visit, Anna had cut out pictures from magazines and drawn on index cards. ‘‘In which room would you find a stove?’’ she asked, laying out four cards showing a kitchen, a bedroom, a bathroom and a laundry room. ‘‘Please don’t be insulted,’’ she added quickly. ‘‘I assume you know the answers to these questions.’’

D.J. couldn’t name the pictures or gesture at them on his own. It seemed to Anna that he would try to point and then freeze up and lock his hands together. So she used the method that she learned during the workshop. First, she placed her hand beneath his elbow to stabilize his arm and found that, with this help, he could pick out the picture of the kitchen. Then she asked him to show her the president of the United States, and D.J. pointed — still with her support — to a photo of Barack Obama. Now she used her other hand to tuck his pinkie, ring and middle fingers lightly under hers, as if their hands were spooning, with just his index finger sticking out. From this position, she introduced a set of letter cards and finally a keyboard. ‘‘It was clear he knew the alphabet and could spell simple words,’’ she said later. ‘‘He was a fast learner.’’

P. took D.J. to Rutgers every other Saturday and then asked Anna over to her house for more facilitation. ‘‘I would get excited: ‘Did he do something?’ ’’ P. said. ‘‘I tried to contain myself, but [Anna] said I was distracting him.’’ At one point, Anna had to make P. leave the room.

That fall, P. took more than half a dozen mothers of children with disabilities — friends from her support group — to meet with Anna and learn about facilitated communication. (One soon began working with Anna.) ‘‘I thought it was the best thing since sliced bread,’’ P. said.

Wesley was enthusiastic, too. When he met other users of facilitated communication, he noticed that D.J. was among the very few who weren’t white and didn’t come from some degree of privilege. ‘‘I was proud,’’ he said in court. ‘‘Who wouldn’t be?’’ His brother ‘‘was the Jackie Robinson of F.C.’’

The method that Anna used with D.J., and with several other clients at the time, was devised some 40 years ago to help a girl with cerebral palsy named Anne McDonald. Born in 1961 to a family that ran a dry-cleaning business in a railway town 60 miles north of Melbourne, Australia, she came out feet first, with signs of fetal distress. For the first hour of her life, she could not breathe on her own. At 3, she was given a diagnosis of spastic quadriplegia with severe mental retardation and sent to the St. Nicholas Hospital for children with profound disabilities.

Even as a teenager, McDonald was small enough to fit into a baby stroller and weighed less than 30 pounds. Her eyes were often crossed, and her arms, neck and tongue remained in constant motion. When Rosemary Crossley, then an assistant at the Mental Health Authority, first saw McDonald, she was bone thin and writhing on the floor. Neither McDonald nor any other child had toys or wheelchairs, Crossley has said, and they weren’t getting an education, either. ‘‘Just the floor and a cot,’’ is how she remembered it.

In 1974, Crossley selected McDonald and seven other children for a special play group. She called them ‘‘beanbaggers’’ — most were so physically disabled that they could sit only in beanbag chairs. Three years later, she turned the play group into a communication study. Her plan was to ask the kids to point at objects, photographs and words, and thus find a way for them to voice their basic needs. She started with McDonald: ‘‘ ‘Annie, I think I can teach you to talk,’ ’’ she recalls in ‘‘Annie’s Coming Out,’’ the memoir she wrote with McDonald. ‘‘ ‘Not with your mouth ... but with your hands, by pointing to pictures of things.’ ’’

The problem was that McDonald had a lot of trouble pointing. When she tried to move her arm, Crossley wrote, it would ‘‘shut up like a rabbit trap,’’ sometimes snapping back against her face. Crossley realized that she would have to keep it balanced. ‘‘I was acting as a responsive item of furniture, not moving her arm but simply facilitating her own movement.’’

The supported pointing worked brilliantly. Now, McDonald could pick out word-blocks and form sentences like ‘‘I want a book, please.’’ Just two weeks into this training, Crossley took out a magnetic board with letters on it to see if McDonald could spell things on her own. Less than a week later, McDonald pointed to the letters ‘I’ and ‘H’ and then to 11 more, producing ‘‘IHATEFATROSIE.’’ ‘‘This is the first sentence Annie ever spelled,’’ Crossley wrote. ‘‘Annie had freed herself.’’

After a month, McDonald demonstrated a familiarity with local politics. In two months, she was doing fractions. It all happened so quickly that some of Crossley’s colleagues wondered if her assisted pointing might be a fraud. Perhaps Crossley had controlled the children’s hands herself, guiding them to shapes and letters in the way that people move the pointer on a Ouija board.

Crossley had the same concern. ‘‘What I did not know was whether I was subconsciously manipulating her,’’ she wrote, ‘‘or imagining her hand movements over the letters and making up sentences to fit what were really random twitchings.’’ But she became convinced that the method worked after McDonald started spelling things with other people — including references to private jokes that no one else could have known. How had she learned so much so fast? She had worked out the rudiments of language by watching television and overhearing nurses’ conversations. She had learned arithmetic by counting slats on the barriers that enclosed her cot.

Soon after McDonald turned 18, she went to court for the right to leave St. Nicholas. In a proceeding, she was shown an arbitrary pair of words — ‘‘string’’ and ‘‘quince’’ — while Crossley was not in the room. Then she had to spell them out with Crossley’s help. ‘‘String’’ and ‘‘quit,’’ she wrote. Not exactly right, but close enough. The judge accepted the method and ruled that McDonald was competent to make her own decisions. Addressing the press right after, she spelled: ‘‘Thank you. Free the still imprisoned!’’ McDonald went on to graduate from college and died at 49.

The philosophy that drove Crossley’s work, one of radical inclusion, was gaining traction in the world of special education. In 1984, the same year that ‘‘Annie’s Coming Out’’ was made into a movie, Anne Donnellan, a professor at the University of Wisconsin, Madison, published a sort of manifesto for disability rights. An academic paper called ‘‘The Criterion of the Least Dangerous Assumption,’’ it advised teachers on how to treat disabled children: When you assume they will never function as adults, when you shunt them into special classes and give them toys meant for younger children, you make them victims of your meager expectations. It’s better to treat every child as if he or she has hidden talents, Donnellan warned, because if you do the opposite, what happens if you’re wrong?

Assuming competence was the founding principle of Crossley’s method. But her work would not become widely known until a Syracuse professor of education named Douglas Biklen visited Crossley’s Melbourne clinic in 1988. He described that trip — along with a second one a few months later — in a bombshell paper for The Harvard Educational Review in August 1990. The implications were enormous, Biklen wrote. Those who had been categorized as having among the ‘‘lowest’’ intellectual capacities could now tell the world they existed; they could say, as he put it, ‘‘We will reveal ourselves, we will show our creativity, when we feel appreciated, when we are supported.’’

With Biklen’s help, facilitated communication spread through the world of disability services with a near-religious fervor. At Syracuse, he set up an institute that trained teachers, parents and social workers. Among its earliest disciples was Anna’s mother, Sandra. When she heard about the method, she set out for one of Biklen’s workshops on the night train. Back in Michigan, she had Anna serve as the videographer of her early sessions.

At the peak of F.C.’s popularity, a workshop could draw 1,000 people, says Christine Ashby, who now runs Biklen’s institute. By October 1991, the technique had made its way into this magazine, in an article that began with a boy in Syracuse who was thought to have an I.Q. of 37 until he started using facilitated communication; he received a standing ovation when he graduated from high school. Three months later, Diane Sawyer did an Emmy-winning segment on the method for ‘‘Primetime Live’’ on ABC. ‘‘For decades, autism has been a dark mystery,’’ she told her viewers, ‘‘a disorder that seems to turn children in on themselves, against the world. Tonight, however, you are going to see something that has changed that. Call it a miracle. Call it an awakening.’’

Not everyone was convinced. Howard Shane, a speech pathologist and professor at Harvard Medical School, was at a conference in Stockholm in the summer of 1990 at which Crossley presented her data. He had been trying to help nonverbal people communicate for more than 15 years, using keyboards linked to voice synthesizers and other tools: Press a button, get a word. In Sweden, Crossley claimed that she had made stupendous breakthroughs just by squeezing a shoulder or cradling a hand.

‘‘It just didn’t fit with anything that I or anybody had ever seen before,’’ Shane says now. ‘‘Either she saw something that nobody saw, or there was something wrong with me, in that I was dismissing people as being retarded when all you had to do was just believe that they could do it.’’ He snorted as he recalled Crossley’s presentation: ‘‘We were sitting in the back of the room, and I turned to my friend and said, ‘This is the craziest thing I’ve ever heard.’ And then I said, ‘But what harm could it do?’ I actually said that to her. I said, ‘But what harm can it do?’ ’’

Shane got his first call from a district attorney a few months later. A nonverbal adult in Northampton, Mass., had accused someone of sexual assault while typing with her hand supported. The story turned out to be untrue, but it was not the only accusation of this kind. Facilitated communication arrived in the United States during a hysteria over child sexual abuse, fueled by memories ‘‘recovered’’ during hypnosis or elicited from children. By the end of 1994, some 60 users of facilitated communication had made claims of sexual abuse.

As these cases multiplied, Shane and others began to look more closely at whether facilitated communication could be trusted. When Betsy Wheaton, an autistic 16-year-old from Maine, typed out that her father ‘‘makes me hold his penissss,’’ Shane, brought in to evaluate her, arrived with a battery of tests. First, he showed Wheaton and her facilitator, a speech and language trainer named Janyce Boynton, a set of pictures — a shoe, a spoon, a ball — and asked Wheaton to identify them. In some trials, Wheaton was shown the same pictures as Boynton; in others, she was shown different ones that Boynton wouldn’t see. No matter which she saw, the results were the same: Wheaton spelled out whatever was on the pictures shown to Boynton.

Next, Shane started asking Wheaton for information that Boynton didn’t know — the color of her parents’ car, the names of her family pets. Wheaton pointed to the letter board with Boynton’s help, but her answers were inaccurate. For a final test, Shane took Wheaton into the hall and showed her a key and other things from his pocket. Back in the room, he asked her to name the objects she had seen. With Boynton supporting her arm, she failed to spell out anything at all.

The results of these experiments matched those from published studies that used a similar controlled approach — asking typers to name objects their facilitators either could or couldn’t see. In almost every case, it seemed that the messages nonverbal people typed were not their own. One early review of this research found just four subjects whose communications might be valid out of 126 people tested. A subsequent review of 19 studies of facilitated communication performed during the 1990s found zero validations across 183 tests.

It looked as if the technique had been debunked. Professional societies put out formal statements questioning or condemning its use. In late 1993, ‘‘Frontline’’ aired a special that told Betsy Wheaton’s story, among others, and suggested that facilitated communication was an elaborate display of what psychologists call the ideomotor effect, in which an external suggestion or a person’s beliefs or expectations trigger unconscious movement: The facilitator was guiding the typing, even if she didn’t know it. In early 1994, ‘‘60 Minutes’’ ran a similar exposé called ‘‘Less Than a Miracle.’’ Public funding for the technique in schools started to dry up. Attendance at Biklen’s workshops in Syracuse dropped sharply.

Even Anne McDonald’s story turned out to have a set of complicating facts. Before the ‘‘string’’ and ‘‘quince’’ test that won her case in court, she was subjected to a series of investigations that came to different, often contradictory conclusions. Cheryl Critchley, a freelance journalist, has documented several harrowing accusations made by McDonald and Crossley’s other typers. McDonald said the hospital superintendent had tried to smother her with a pillow, and another young woman said he had forced a noxious liquid down her throat.

The backlash against facilitated communication ‘‘was horrible,’’ says Anna’s mother, Sandra, who still acts as a facilitator with clients and testified in an F.C.-related sexual-abuse case in Michigan as recently as 2008. (She also traveled to Australia in 2005 to meet with Crossley and McDonald.) ‘‘In the early 1990s, people were so excited, and we were able to get a lot of people going on at least some communication. Then came the pushback, and a lot of schools said you can’t do it anymore and literally took away the only communication system that had ever worked for many of their kids.’’

D.J. is about five feet tall, with skinny arms and legs and the lolling head of a punch-drunk boxer. He has a tendency to rock from side to side and to bang his face against his knees; his nose looks as if it has been broken once or twice. When he is anxious or upset, he puts his hands in his mouth and bites them, leaving open sores. In a better mood, he likes to play with plastic coat hangers or scoot over to the refrigerator for a snack. D.J. loves to eat; he loves to be outside; he loves to look up at the ceiling lights.

Sitting at the keyboard, D.J. also seemed to have a lot to say. His messages were simple and misspelled at first, but his skill and fluency improved. Eventually he could hit a letter every second, and if Anna guessed the word before he finished typing, he would hit the ‘‘Y’’ key to confirm. Anna brought books for him to read, Maya Angelou and others, and discovered that he read like a savant — 10 pages every minute. (She turned the pages for him.) They discussed the possibility of his enrolling in a G.E.D. program.

As D.J. came into his own, Anna kept her mother posted on his progress. In the spring of 2010, Sandra asked if D.J. might like to give a paper for a panel she was organizing at a conference of the Society for Disability Studies in Philadelphia. The panel was on Article 21 of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of Persons With Disabilities, which lays out the right to freedom of expression and opinion. D.J. wasn’t sure he could do it, Anna said, but she convinced him he should try.

For the next six weeks, they worked together on his presentation — a one-page essay that D.J. wrote with Anna’s support and constant feedback over many sessions at his adult day program. In early June, D.J. traveled to the conference with his mother and brother, and then Wesley read D.J.’s paper to an audience of some 40 people. ‘‘The right to communication is the right to hope,’’ the essay said. ‘‘I am jumping for joy knowing I can talk, but don’t minimize how humiliating it can be to know people jump to the conclusion I am mentally disabled.’’ In Philadelphia, Anna and her mother typed with D.J., too, and introduced him to other users of facilitated communication. Two of D.J.’s fellow typers on the panel, Jacob Pratt and Hope Block, had just become engaged. They had been going on ‘‘supported dates’’ — flirting with each other through F.C., planning get-togethers, negotiating intimacy — for about a year.

Anna found that her relationship with D.J. was getting deeper, too. All the time they spent working on the essay, all the books they read together and all their conversations had changed the mood between them. ‘‘I began to gradually be aware that I was having romantic feelings,’’ she would later testify. ‘‘I became aware of things when he wrote the essay. It wasn’t all that original — people who had had the same experience had said similar things — but with all the spelling mistakes, he had a way of putting things.’’

She had also grown more involved with D.J.’s family. When P. came down with walking pneumonia and needed urgent care, Anna showed up at the hospital. At one point, P. baked a pie for Anna’s family. ‘‘I could have called her Aunt Anna or Cousin Anna,’’ Wesley said during a deposition. ‘‘She was like family.’’ In October, P. went with Anna and D.J. to a second conference in Milwaukee. The paper that he gave there, read aloud by Anna’s father, ended up being published in a peer-reviewed academic journal.

That fall, D.J. started sitting in on a 400-level course in African-American literature at Rutgers. A Rutgers undergraduate named Sheronda Jones, recruited by Anna, used F.C. to help him do his homework. ‘‘He pretty much read the books,’’ Jones remembered in a statement to the police. ‘‘I can’t tell you what he read. And he typed out the information.’’ She added, ‘‘I know because one of my roommates was in the class with him, and they pretty much wrote some of the same things.’’

A man who had been said to have the mental capacity of a toddler was now on the conference circuit and taking college classes. At last the world could get to know D.J. and understand his mind. ‘‘He’s an extremely ethical person — it’s one of the things that impressed me about him,’’ Anna said in court. ‘‘You know how you can meet somebody who’s extremely physically attractive, and then when you get to know them, they have such a horrible personality that they don’t really look attractive to you? It works the same way in reverse. If somebody has an interesting, engaging mind and good heart and a beautiful soul, that is transformative. It shows through, and you love the person. And so you love being close to them, and you love the body that they’re in, because that’s the body that they have.’’

Even as Anna came to feel this transformation, even as it seemed to her that D.J.’s world had opened up, her relationship with his family was not as stable as it seemed. One problem was that no matter how much progress D.J. made with Anna, his typing never worked with his mother or brother. They spent many hours training in F.C., but neither had success. Anna typed with D.J.; Anna’s mother typed with D.J.; Sheronda Jones typed with D.J. But somehow, P. and Wesley always failed.

Wesley remembered that he would take hold of D.J.’s arm, and they would type a single word together: the. Then nothing. Anna, he recalled, would tell him: ‘‘You have to keep practicing. You have to sit down and work with him and just continue at it. D.J. prefers to facilitate with some people more than others.’’ P. said that when she tried to grab D.J.’s hand, he would pull it away or scratch her. Anna told her to stop mothering him.

In January 2011, Wesley grew so frustrated that he went online to find the video about F.C. that Anna had shown in class two years before. He wanted to see how people helped the woman in the film. ‘‘I was looking for a model to pattern myself after,’’ he said during a deposition. But when he started searching, he came across a different film — not ‘‘Autism Is a World,’’ but the ‘‘Frontline’’ investigation from 1993.

Other things raised Wesley’s suspicions, too. Some of D.J.’s messages didn’t seem as if they came from him. D.J. typed with Anna that he didn’t like gospel music, but Wesley knew his brother loved to sway in church, doing what Wesley called the ‘‘Stevie Wonder dance.’’ D.J. also typed, through Anna, that he enjoyed red wine — especially from a label called Fat Bastard. But Wesley spent Communion Sundays with D.J. and said he never showed much interest in drinking wine. ‘‘It seemed very class-based,’’ Wesley said. ‘‘It seemed very much of what she liked but not what [D.J.] liked.’’

While Wesley harbored private doubts, P. began to feel put off by Anna’s interventions. They quibbled over the clothes D.J. wore and the records he listened to, and they debated whether D.J. should find his own place to live. I’m his mother, P. said. Let him be a man, Anna told her.

In March 2011, Anna invited D.J. to Rutgers to give a presentation about his disabilities. Students asked him questions:

‘‘What are your hopes and dreams?’’

D.J. typed that he would like to go to college, become a writer and work in disability activism.

‘‘Would you like to be in a romantic relationship?’’

‘‘I want that more than anything,’’ D.J. answered. ‘‘But I don’t know if that’s possible for people with disabilities like mine.’’

That was the moment Anna knew she couldn’t keep her feelings to herself. ‘‘I wanted to put my arms around him and say: ‘You can have that. I love you,’ ’’ she later testified. A week later, at his afternoon day program, Anna finally told D.J. how she felt. ‘‘I love you, too,’’ he typed. She said she had known that for a long time, and he said he had known it, too. And then he typed, ‘‘So now what?’’

They went back and forth on this question. ‘‘He grilled me on how much I really loved him, how committed I was to him, how I felt about my husband,’’ Anna wrote in an account of their relationship that she compiled six months later at her lawyer’s request. D.J. wanted to know if she would someday marry him. ‘‘I said: ‘Please, I love you very much, but please don’t ask me that just now. I need time to think through everything.’ He said that he was sorry. He didn’t mean to push that hard. It was childish of him.’’

After many hours of discussion and several visits to the day program, Anna finally convinced D.J. that she meant all that she had been saying. ‘‘O.K., I believe you really do love me,’’ he typed. ‘‘But are you physically attracted to me?’’

‘‘That broke my heart all over again,’’ she said in court. ‘‘I said, ‘I’m in love with you the whole way.’ Then he said, ‘Kiss me,’ and I did. He said, ‘Kiss me again.’ I kissed him again.’’

D.J. typed, ‘‘Do you think it’s even possible with my cerebral palsy for us to make love?’’

They met the following Sunday at D.J.’s house, while his mother was at church. They tried to kiss while lying down on D.J.’s bed, on the theory that it would be easier, given his impairments. But D.J. kept sitting up, and then he lowered himself onto the floor. Anna offered him the keyboard and asked if anything was wrong. Nothing’s wrong, he typed, he was very happy, but also overwhelmed — he needed a minute. Anna said O.K., and D.J. scooted out into the hall. ‘‘Look, whatever we’re going to do, you set the pace,’’ she told him. ‘‘You call the shots. This is all about what feels right for you. I just love being close to you in whatever way works for you and for your body. No pressure.’’

A few minutes later she was naked.

‘‘I’ve dreamed about this,’’ he typed.

At his request, she said, she pushed down his pants, loosened his diaper and performed oral sex on him. They never finished — ‘‘I was close,’’ D.J. typed — but they had tickets for a disability-related film festival at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. They were going to see ‘‘Wretches & Jabberers,’’ a 2010 documentary about F.C. produced by Douglas Biklen, the founder of the Syracuse institute.

A week later, Anna recalled, the couple tried to have sex in Anna’s office at Conklin Hall, with condoms, a blanket and an exercise mat. It didn’t work, and they ended up just sitting on the floor together, Anna talking and D.J. typing. Anna asked him if he might want to see some pornography, ‘‘to see what things looked like and different positions people used and that sort of thing.’’ She said she wouldn’t want to pay for porn or watch anything offensive, but that she would be O.K. with finding free clips on the Internet that depicted couples engaging in mutually pleasurable intercourse. He demurred, typing out that in his view the women in porn are being exploited, and that, besides, Anna was more beautiful than any porn star, and he really wanted to be thinking only about her when they finally made love.

The following Sunday in her office, it finally happened. D.J. ‘‘was very happy with what was going on,’’ she said in court. If he needed to say something, he would bang the floor, and she would pause to set him up with the keyboard. ‘‘It was a few hours from getting undressed to afterglow,’’ she said. When they were finished, he typed: ‘‘I feel alive for the first time in my life.’’

It’s not that Anna didn’t know of F.C.’s checkered reputation. But like many in that insular and passionate community of users, she thought the method had been unfairly pushed aside. Anna knew it worked, firsthand.

She had watched her mother use F.C. for 20 years. In 2000, Sandra introduced her to an F.C. user with autism named Nick Pentzell. Anna was teaching at Temple University. He sat in on her classes. (She also typed with him herself.) At Rutgers, Newark, Anna worked regularly with several people other than D.J., including a nonverbal teenage boy named Zach DeMeo. Zach, now 22, has autism and lost his speech while a toddler. Like D.J., he met Anna through an older brother who was enrolled at Rutgers. Soon they were having weekly or biweekly sessions at Anna’s office. ‘‘It changed his life,’’ says Zach’s mother, Toni, a substitute teacher on Long Island. ‘‘She was so selfless and devoted. She saw us on weekends. She left her family to help my son.’’ Anna and Zach have been friends for six years, and they stayed in touch even as she prepared for trial. ‘‘She speaks to my son as an equal,’’ Toni says. ‘‘She treats him as a human being. If he told me he was in love with her, I would believe him.’’

As for D.J., once Anna decided that he could express himself — once he told her several things that she said she could not have figured out herself, like his nickname and his date of birth — then her mind was free of doubt. ‘‘I knew [D.J.] was the author of his typing,’’ she said in court. ‘‘Why would I question that?’’

Those who do raise doubts about F.C. tend to go too far, she wrote in a 2011 paper for Disability Studies Quarterly: ‘‘Although opponents of F.C. present themselves as engaging in scientific debate, some instances of continuing anti-F.C. expression meet the criteria to count as hate speech.’’ She conceded that there were studies showing that the method didn’t work, but there were others that indicated just the opposite. The skeptics’ dismissal of F.C., she argued, their insistence that it never works, could be taken as a form of ableist oppression.

‘‘We just need to recognize that research does a thing,’’ Christine Ashby, the head of the institute in Syracuse, said at last year’s annual summer conference for typers and facilitators. ‘‘Research gives us a piece of information, but it’s very dangerous when that piece of information gets used to take away people’s way of gaining access to the world.’’

Almost 300 people had convened at the city’s Sheraton hotel, including parents, siblings, support staff and F.C. trainers, and about 75 typers, almost all of whom were on the autism spectrum. Most were children and teenagers; a few had cerebral palsy. In the hotel’s ballroom, the typers sat with their facilitators and listened to the presentations, or they got up and walked in circles. They also laughed and groaned and blurted out a score of chirps and mournful cries — whooo, whooo, unna-unnahhh! Unna-unnahhh!


‘‘For a really progressive view of disability, there’s no other place to be,’’ a graduate-student organizer told me on the first day. ‘‘It’s like we’re in this little bubble. It’s an amazing bubble!’’

At one point during the conference, Ashby led a session for facilitators called ‘‘Circling the Wagons: How Shifting Definitions of ‘Research’ Keep the Voices of F.C. Users Out.’’ Before she set out on a critical review of the studies from the 1990s, she apologized, half-joking, for the ableism of that metaphor: double-blind. Such insensitivity was not surprising from the F.C. skeptics, she said, who are more concerned with scientific method — with cold, quantitative research — than with real, lived experience.

When stories like Betsy Wheaton’s started to emerge in the 1990s, proponents of F.C. acknowledged that their method was subject to abuse. People rushed into it without proper training and then fell victim to their own enthusiasm, Ashby said. A responsible facilitator, she explained, always checks her client’s eyes to make sure he is looking at the keyboard. She always pushes backward against his hand or arm, steadying his movement instead of guiding it. She always tries to ‘‘fade support,’’ so that he can type more independently. And when something sensitive comes up — like a claim of abuse — she checks the message with another ‘‘naïve’’ facilitator.

In Syracuse, I met several people who started with F.C. and later learned to type without support, including Jamie Burke, a young man who once worked with Rosemary Crossley and now spelled out his words to me with no one touching him. His messages were somewhat cryptic: ‘‘Law of fair and just,’’ he wrote, and also, ‘‘I love challenging my correction.’’

Jamie proves that the method works, Ashby said during the ‘‘Circling the Wagons’’ session, but the skeptics claim that he would have learned to speak and type anyway and that F.C. might even have slowed him down. ‘‘Simply achieving success means you didn’t need support in the first place,’’ Ashby said with exasperation. ‘‘Several years ago, one of the biggest F.C. skeptics offered something like $100,000 to any F.C. user who would go and pass his double-blind test,’’ Ashby said. ‘‘Do you know how badly I wanted to get one of the people I know and love to go do that? Just because I wanted to stick it in his face and use that money to do good work in the world. But I would never subject somebody to that.’’

‘‘No!’’ cried a facilitator in the room.

‘‘Who would do that?’’ Ashby said, shaking her head. ‘‘That is the most inhumane thing I’ve ever heard of. You go in to see this person who despises you, who thinks you are incompetent and incapable. And you go perform in front of them, like a show pony. And if you can do it, then he’ll still say that you probably weren’t autistic to begin with.’’

The proponents of F.C. have argued from the start that when typers fail in formal testing, it’s because they become confused or feel antagonized; they freeze up in the face of inquisition. Mainstream experts have no patience for these evasions. If the method works for someone, they say, then have that person tested — and don’t claim that he hides his skills only under careful scrutiny. Yet their admonitions go unheeded by a growing number in the autism community. Ashby said that she has seen a resurgence of F.C., but that ‘‘it’s happening much more carefully this time.’’ Recent surveys of parents, caregivers and special-education teachers find that less than 10 percent now use facilitated communication. The practice has even made its way back into pop culture, too. In 2013, the memoirs of a Japanese teenager with autism, who is an F.C. user, were translated into English by the novelist David Mitchell and his wife, K.A. Yoshida, as ‘‘The Reason I Jump.’’ On ‘‘The Daily Show,’’ Jon Stewart called it ‘‘one of the most remarkable books I think I’ve ever read.’’

Meanwhile, because of past scandals, facilitated communication has been quietly rebranded. In 2010, the Facilitated Communication Institute in Syracuse changed its name to the Institute on Communication and Inclusion. ‘‘We need to do more on F.C., but we can’t call it that,’’ said John Hussman, a major donor to the institute who runs a $6 billion mutual fund and whose son uses the technique. He had just given a talk on the neuroscience of what is now often termed ‘‘supported typing.’’ ‘‘We have to come up with some other name to fly under the radar and maintain credibility,’’ he said.

At the conference, I interviewed, through typing, a teenager named Matt who spoke only in echolalic phrases — things he had heard and couldn’t help repeating. ‘‘Aunt June will be right back!’’ he kept shrieking. ‘‘Nobody’s having bread! Where’s Aunt June?’’ But with a facilitator’s left hand on his shoulder and her right hand beneath his armpit, he spelled out a sober proclamation: ‘‘I came here to affirm a commitment to facilitated communication. I would spend life locked in a prison of silence without it.’’

Later that afternoon, I met a 20-year-old man named John who had a prominent underbite. John had been assessed as having the mental capacity of a 3-year-old, but using F.C. he could write poetry. His father handed me some printouts of John’s writing (‘‘The place to discover the ember of love is worlds away but so close/in the land of the nonverbal autistic’’), then grabbed John’s finger so we could have a direct exchange. ‘‘Know that we are intelligent,’’ John’s finger typed into the keyboard.

‘‘We figured out that he taught himself to read at age 3 by reading a dictionary,’’ his mother said. ‘‘Now he’s a senior in high school.’’

Wasn’t she worried by the studies showing that F.C. doesn’t work — that the messages aren’t always real?

‘‘From a parent’s perspective, who cares about the research?’’ she replied. ‘‘The research will work itself out. In the meantime, I want to talk to my son.’’

Before Anna showed up at D.J.’s house that Memorial Day in 2011, she warned him that his mother and brother might be upset by their relationship. They might even ban her from seeing him, she said, and as his legal guardians, they had the right to do so. ‘‘They would never do that to me,’’ D.J. typed back. ‘‘They love me too much.’’

Some weeks after the blowup that ensued, P. called Anna on her cellphone and asked her to explain herself. ‘‘Well, look,’’ Anna said. ‘‘I was not pleased to realize that I was feeling that way. I didn’t think it was professional. I mean, I’m married and all that stuff — it wasn’t something that I was looking for, and so I just kind of really, really repressed it.’’ She added that D.J. was the only person she had been with, other than her husband, in more than 20 years.

Anna and her husband married in June 1989, when she was still a teenager in college and Roger was 24, a tuba player for the Detroit Symphony Orchestra. They had a son six years later and a daughter a few years after that. In 2010, when Anna first began to fall in love with D.J., she and her family were living in a modest house in West Orange, N.J.

‘‘The marriage wasn’t great,’’ Anna later said in court, ‘‘but I wasn’t at a state of wanting imminently to end it.’’ Eventually, she said, it came down to a choice of hurting Roger or hurting D.J. ‘‘There wasn’t any choice. I wasn’t going to hurt [D.J.].’’

Roger declined to be interviewed for this article, but in testimony at a pretrial hearing, he said he realized that his marriage was in jeopardy only when ‘‘the prosecutors came and banged down the door.’’ Even then, he and Anna went to couples’ counseling. The therapist’s first words, he said, were, ‘‘Anna, you must stop dwelling on this relationship with [D.J.].’’

Roger may have hoped that she would follow that advice, but when he went through the browser history on their home computer, he found that Anna had been looking up real estate listings. In a fury, he took the 12-page account of her relationship with D.J., the one she had written for her lawyer, and emailed it to D.J.’s family and to the prosecutor’s office. ‘‘If you’re so proud of this so-called relationship,’’ he remembered thinking, ‘‘then let the whole world know.’’

A ridge of high pressure slid into New Jersey right after Memorial Day, pulling sticky air up from the Gulf of Mexico. Temperatures surged into the triple digits in early June and stayed there, kicking off what would be among the very hottest summers in the state’s history. Barred from seeing the man she loved, not sure if his family would ever reconsider, Anna became desperate.

‘‘I just wanted to follow up with [D.J.] as to why I wasn’t there today,’’ she said in a voice-mail message to P. a few days after they first discussed the relationship. The next week, she tried again: ‘‘It’s Anna. Wondering if things are going to work out. ... ’’

Finally, Anna went to D.J.’s house one evening, uninvited, so she could speak with his mother face to face. She parked outside just before 6 p.m. and waited for P. to arrive from work. ‘‘We have to talk,’’ she said when P. headed past her to the door.

‘‘About what?’’ P. said.

She phoned Wesley and took Anna around to the back porch, so the home health aide wouldn’t hear what they were saying. There, Anna promised to sign a formal declaration saying she would leave her husband in five years and marry D.J.

‘‘Anna, go home to your children,’’ P. responded.

When Wesley arrived and saw what was going on, he confronted Anna with his doubts about the typing. ‘‘If you believe that [D.J.] can do this F.C. thing, then if I ask [D.J.] a question, he should be able to give me the right answer.’’ Anna agreed to the test, and Wesley asked, ‘‘Who is Georgia?’’

With Anna’s hand on his, D.J. typed an answer, very slowly, over several minutes: ‘‘Georgia in high school worked for Mom.’’

Georgia, who died before Anna got to know the family, was D.J.’s ‘‘auntie.’’ She had often cared for Wesley and D.J., helping out when their mother was at work. Wesley said later that Georgia was D.J.’s other mom, that he loved her as much as anyone and that she made the best scrambled eggs and toast in the world.

Then Wesley said he had a second question, and Anna objected.

‘‘Well, this is just a follow-up question,’’ he continued. ‘‘Tell me who Sally is.’’ Sally was a nickname that D.J.’s family used for Georgia.

Now D.J. typed, with Anna’s help, something about ‘‘Mom’s little nephew,’’ but the answer trailed off. As Anna remembered it, Wesley shook his head and said he hoped Anna could work out her marital difficulties. (In court, Anna’s lawyer argued that the answers to Wesley’s questions were correct: Georgia had ‘‘worked for Mom,’’ in the sense of helping her with child care, and she was ‘‘Mom’s little nephew’s kin.’’)

‘‘Thank you for everything you’ve done,’’ P. said.

‘‘Don’t thank me for what you’re taking away,’’ Anna said.

Wesley walked Anna to the door, and she drove off. But as soon as she turned the corner, she had to pull over; she was shaking too much to drive. Wesley later told the police that Anna had been so distraught, he was afraid that she might be suicidal or that she would ‘‘go home and do something to her kids.’’

‘‘That was the worst day of my life,’’ Anna later wrote.

The next few weeks in Newark were even hotter than the ones that came before. At a zoo just down the road from P. and D.J.’s home, keepers fed the cougars ice pops made of blood. As the scorching summer days went by, Anna heard nothing more from D.J.’s family. She grew depressed and couldn’t eat; she said she lost 20 pounds.

At the beginning of August, in a final reckless measure, she wrote an email to the director of D.J.’s afternoon day program. She said that D.J.’s family was ‘‘unsure’’ if she could see him anymore, but she asked if she could visit just one more time. ‘‘It’s a mess, and really frustrating for me, because it has more to do with issues within the family and who gets to make decisions about [D.J.],’’ she wrote. Could she just come in ‘‘quietly,’’ so she could tell D.J. why she disappeared? She had to let him know that she still cared about him, that she was trying to fix the situation.

The director called the family right away. Wesley and his mother had been ready to let matters rest, but when they heard about the email, they decided to take action. On Aug. 7, Wesley wrote a letter to the dean of faculty at Rutgers, Newark, and told her that Anna was harassing his family. He cast his complaint in terms that harked to Anna’s scholarship in racial justice: ‘‘Her continued attempts to see [D.J.] and her insinuation that my mother and I do not know what is in [D.J.’s] best interest is insulting and straddles the racial assumptions about the capacity of black parents to properly raise their children.’’

He had accused Anna of turning into her own worst nightmare. ‘‘White people uphold white privilege in ways that they repress,’’ she once wrote. Even when they mean to help, they behave ‘‘in ways that are disrespectful and that undermine the self-empowerment of the people whose space they invade.’’ Had Anna done the same to D.J. and his family? A professor of ethics who wrote passionately about the rights of the disabled was accused of sexually assaulting the person she was most determined to protect — a black, disabled man; a child of a single mother; a member of the most vulnerable among the vulnerable.

In mid-August, D.J.’s family went to the police, and when P. spoke to Anna for the last time on Aug. 22, their phone call was recorded.

‘‘Yes, [D.J.] wanted to be physically involved with me, and I wanted to be physically involved with him,’’ Anna said. But, she continued, ‘‘our relationship is not just about or primarily about the sex part. We love each other very, very, very much, and I wouldn’t have sex with somebody that I didn’t love.’’

P. listened carefully from her end of the line, as did two detectives from the Essex County Special Victims Unit. Anna didn’t know it yet, but her relationship with D.J. and the ‘‘least dangerous assumption’’ from which it began — that he was mentally sound and thus capable of consent — had put her in a very dangerous spot.

‘‘Were you really serious about this?’’ P. asked, baiting her for details.

‘‘Yeah, I am,’’ Anna said, her voice shaky. It had been two months since she had seen D.J., and she was miserable. ‘‘I mean, you have to understand, literally, I’m lucky if I get through 20 minutes of any day without thinking about him. That’s how much I miss him.’’ She went on, ‘‘If — if — if I did things like bite my hands, I’d be biting my hands right now, too.’’

How, she wondered, could something ‘‘so special and so incredible for both of us’’ have been turned ‘‘into some kind of horrible, wrong thing?’’

‘‘I wouldn’t have fallen in love with him if he wasn’t capable of consent,’’ she would later say in court. ‘‘I wouldn’t have fallen in love with him if he wasn’t someone interested in reading books and talking about them. He was my best friend.’’

Last month, Anna Stubblefield went on trial for two counts of first-degree aggravated sexual assault, the same charge that would apply to someone who had inflicted severe injury during a rape or participated in a violent gang rape. The state set out to prove that D.J. was incapable of consent to sex or physically helpless to resist it, and that Anna either knew or should have known the same.

D.J. went to court only once, presented by the prosecutor as a ‘‘demonstrative exhibit.’’ His mother led him in, holding up his tiny frame at the armpits. She walked him down the aisle and over toward the jury, as his head rolled back and his eyes seemed to focus on the ceiling lights. ‘‘Jury, this is my son,’’ she said. Then she turned D.J. to face the judge. ‘‘Your honor, this is my son.’’ If D.J. spotted Anna in the courtroom — it would have been the first time in four years — he did not react. Anna’s lawyers later argued that the prosecutor tried to block her from his view, so D.J. wouldn’t reach for her as he used to.

Each side called in outside experts to meet with D.J.: Howard Shane of Harvard for the prosecution and Rosemary Crossley for the defense. But before the trial began, the judge ruled that facilitated communication failed New Jersey’s test for scientific evidence. That put Anna’s defense team in a legal straitjacket. Its entire case rested on the fact that D.J. could communicate through his keyboard, or that at least Anna reasonably believed he could. Now much of the evidence of that communication had been summarily tossed out. The judge ruled that Anna, and only Anna, could testify about the typing and why she thought it worked. She would have to win the jury’s sympathy alone.

On the morning of Oct. 2, after the jury had deliberated for less than three hours, a red light flicked on in the courtroom, signaling a verdict. Anna waited in her charcoal suit and sling-back shoes and the silver bird brooch that she had worn nearly every day in court. Her mother sat in the gallery, holding hands with Anna’s older brother, Michael, a computer scientist who had flown in from Wisconsin. Throughout the trial, several benches in the courtroom were filled with a rotating cast of Anna’s friends and fellow activists: Nick Pentzell, the autistic man from Pennsylvania; Devva Kasnitz, an anthropologist and former president of the Society for Disability Studies, who has a severe speech impediment; Toni DeMeo, Zach’s mother. On the courtroom’s other side, P. sat with Wesley, Wesley’s girlfriend and another member of the family.

The jury found Anna guilty on both counts. D.J. was incapable of giving his consent, and Anna’s faith in D.J.’s typing — learned from her mother, sustained through academic conferences, reaffirmed by friends and colleagues — could not excuse her. In the language of moral philosophy, she was, at best, ‘‘culpably ignorant,’’ lost in a fog of good intentions.

Anna sat in silence as her lawyers argued for continuation of her $100,000 bail. When the judge explained that Anna had been convicted of two counts of a first-degree felony and that further bail would be impossible, she collapsed onto the defense table in loud, convulsive sobs. ‘‘Please,’’ she begged, ‘‘what about my daughter?’’

‘‘I truly feel for what is a very difficult situation,’’ the judge said quietly. But Anna would be facing 10 to 20 years for each of the two times that she and D.J. had sex. The prosecutor had asked for the punishments to run consecutively. Anna, whose sentencing is scheduled for Nov. 9, could end up in the Edna Mahan Correctional Facility for Women for up to 40 years.

Though Anna’s father says that she had been training in jujitsu to be able to defend herself in prison, she seemed optimistic to the end, planning out the life she would lead with D.J. after she was found not guilty, after he was freed from P. and Wesley and after they at last could marry. ‘‘We would have welcomed him with open arms into our family,’’ Anna’s brother said.

Just before 11 a.m., the bailiff lifted Anna from her seat and cuffed her hands behind her back. As she stood, she tried to speak, but her body shook and her throat closed up amid the sobs. The word ‘‘justice’’ could be heard, but nothing more.

Correction: Nov 8, 2015
An article on Oct. 25 about Anna Stubblefield, who was on trial for sexual assault, referred incorrectly to Sue Rubin. She was not among those present at the trial.
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Crossing this potential malinger cow over from the Xitter thread.
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I'm not chronicling the entire thread that would lead to these tweets as it's about 40 tweets long and so full of misinformation that it would be aggravating to nitpick, but it's very easy to find.
 
Crossing this potential malinger cow over from the Xitter
Here’s a cross-post from the SJW thread where I documented some of the other fake disabled folx who whine about food delivery right now:
There’s been kind of a brouhaha about Door Dash on Twitter for a couple of days. It all kicked off with this :
God, why don’t they marry DoorDash if they love it so much?
 
Crossing this potential malinger cow over from the Xitter thread.
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I'm not chronicling the entire thread that would lead to these tweets as it's about 40 tweets long and so full of misinformation that it would be aggravating to nitpick, but it's very easy to find.
Man, those histamines in the keyboard and the stress hormones don't slow her down one bit. Look at her go.
 
jfc this article is something else
It's really striking how much, in my personal opinion, those wires got crossed for her. Not only did she have a background in ethics, but she seemed fully aware of how FC had been debunked, and she still basically tricked herself into thinking it was working. She is definitely a predator and abuser, she was clearly attracted to the control and power she had in that dynamic, but sometimes manipulators do buy into their own bullshit to some degree as we have seen many times in this thread.

Unfortunate her initial sentence was overturned and that she was only made to pay $4 million to the family in the civil trial. She did way more damage than $4 million, and not just to the family but to nearly every person she spoke to in an effort to educate on something as pseudoscientific as FC. She was selling a complete lie to people from a position of someone well educated and experienced on the subject, and people trusted and believed her. It's just a terrible situation, and I really feel for the family, they were given so much hope and so much reassurance. They were all used, abused, and taken for a ride.
 
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It's really striking how much, in my personal opinion, those wires got crossed for her.
It's like she fell in love with herself. All of her victim's interests, likes, dislikes, literary tastes, etc, were just her looking in a mirror, cooing at herself. I don't know what to think of her, is she an apex covert narcissist, or an example of how women are the superior sex, because when we go nuts, we reach heights of manmade horrors beyond comprehension.
She did way more damage than $4 million, and not just to the family but to nearly every person she spoke to in an effort to educate on something as pseudoscientific as FC.
It's amazing and horrifying how long FC went on after it was proven to be the ideomotor effect + desperate parents + deluded academics. Blackpill moment for transhausen-by-proxy ending in our lifetime.
 
Yes, absolutely. I've had mine for almost 10 years, and even with regular washing, it's only just starting to wear out too much to use.
agree, I've had mine for years and apart from the manta logo on the front falling off its in great condition. the straps have stretched a bit, so at some point I'll need to move the Velcro along.
 
Holy shit, I remember watching a Gavin McInnes video about this back in middle school
You were in middle school when Gavin McGinnis was a thing? Holy FUCK I'm old...

Anyway, can you imagine one of these days that people like this are going to be the majority in congress and just pass a bill where being addicted to not working is recognized as a disability?

We're going to end up running out of people who are paying in if we keep letting people hustle their way onto lifelong disability.
 
We're going to end up running out of people who are paying in if we keep letting people hustle their way onto lifelong disability.
Absolutely, I don't know how our country supports the number of claimants it does when only 56% of the country pay income tax. I know its not the only form of tax (we pay VAT on essentials like plumbing and electrician services ffs), but I know some claimants who honestly I think can work just fine and they wipe out my contributions every month in what they get.

Thinking about munchies, they cost the NHS so much with all the unnecessary tests they get. I just looked up the costs of MRIs, ECGs, and CT scans, they run into the hundreds. So one fun jaunt to hospital, if they manage to get admitted instead of being told to fuck off, runs into the thousands. In cases like this, I think the US system is better, at least they have to pay for what they get. But then I think of people with type 1 diabetes and prefer our system.
 
man this thread popped off and I had this post drafted and didn't want to lose it by replying.

The dog looks embarrassed to be there. ‘If you only knew how bad things really are…’
First time meeting Jessi, huh?
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I hate myself for remembering this, I hate the friend who dug up a copy of this on request, I hate myself for making the request, I hate Jessi for taking this, I hate the Internet for existing. #freeAtlas goodboi dindunuffin.

2. Alcoholism - I sadly know a couple of still for now very highly functional alcoholics and they’re always hurting themselves.
Just tag me next time.

Allegra Peres, of Staten Island, NY, is a 26-year-old they/them claiming Long Covid, POTS, CFS/ME, endometriosis, and MCAS.
Ahh, like my favorite ME/CFS weirdo Whitney Dafoe, this one's totally-not-psychiatric condition is being treated by benzos.

As an aside, youtube queued up some Anti-MLM thing when I was autoplaying for background noise the other day. The host was reading viewer-submitted MLM horror stories. One, before she even got to the "meat" of the story, I knew was going to be a munchie spinning a real tall tale and I was not disappointed. The first sentence was about how her mom abused and medically neglected her via the MLM's hokey supplements even though she's disabled and my brain just went, it's MCAS. Sure enough, it's MCAS, she had a whole promising life in the medical field ahead of her and it's been ripped from her because her horrible narc mom who was totally an olympic athlete starved her and made her take dumb JuicePlus+ capsules and let her disease spiral out of control. I got so annoyed by the blatant histrionics and exaggerations and the host taking it 100% at face value that I had to turn it off. I know the channel was Hannah Alonzo but I can't find the specific video and my watch history is off.

i get so cranky when these "debunking" channels fail to have even the slightest of critical thoughts about the sudden rise of things like formerly obscure medical conditions and transgenderism that seem to disproportionately be erupting specifically in middle class white women in their late teens and early 20s.

Speaking of Dr. Afrin...

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Welcome to Tricia Melland part 3. Tricia claims to have a mitochondrial disease that is shutting down her organs, which can only be diagnosed and properly managed by one unethical lunatic thousands of miles away from her home. In our last part, Tricia spent six months giving herself sepsis and malingering on pain meds in hospitals across the United States claiming mysterious headaches and nausea that only respond to high-dose opiates. She's had her J-tube surgically removed citing its futility due to her total intestinal failure. Her final year of high school was medically uneventful and she graduated on time despite missing months upon months of school. She's now ready to start college three hours away from home.

Fuck you iron deficiency corticosteroids mito!!!
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August 4th, admitted for (you know it!) suspected sepsis.
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And “allergic reactions” that she says look like sunburn. I mean it looks like general flushing to me. It might be fever flushing but it also might be something like steroids, certain antibiotics, some pain meds... a lot of stuff can cause this. Hell, some people flush from taking niacin which is just Vitamin B3. (Fun fact: I am almost sure this is how Cheyanne convinced people she had MCAS! Cheyanne was well acquainted with supplements and their effects from her Fit Vegan Not-Ginger saga while she still lived in Florida)
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Again I ask… what is the other dog doing there? She’s in the hospital. He’s not a service dog. I mean Kenny isn’t either but she doesn’t even pretend Esky is.
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On the 9th she gets her 31st transfusion. Tricia when I submit myself to the Red Cross bloodsuckers I’m not thinking of some stupid munchie wasting this precious life-fluid for their latest attention grab. I’m thinking of the innocent neighborhood trigger-happy gang members who really need it.
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Released in time to start college and pledge to a sorority. What luck!
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Second week of the semester, she’s admitted for another line infection. This time she’s super busy with college work so she gets discharged right away.
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Admitted a few days later because of her stupid immune system and now she’s on Bipap.
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For two days. Then she’s home again.
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All quiet until Halloween when she goes as a spoooooky blood bank vampire.
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November 4, admitted for (you know it!) suspected sepsis. The dog alerted again of course.
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The line is visibly infected this time. It takes hours to dig all the crap out of her chest and leaves her with another gnarly pus-pit that she has to pack with gauze.
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Discharged on the 13th. I guess her kidneys aren’t in too bad of shape if she’s getting aminoglycosides.
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29th, she’s off to Iowa to see a retina specialist. At least this time it’s a state that borders the one she lives in. I’ll point out that she’s back to her pattern where she posts nothing unless there’s an appointment or she’s hospitalized. No fun times with her sorority sisters or cute pics of her dog on campus, no whining about her courseload or celebrating that she got a good grade on an exam. If it isn’t a medical update it’s not worth posting.
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Early December, another respiratory infection. This one makes the lining of her lungs partially collapse and keeps her from being able to use her Cpap at night. They can’t do anything to help her unless she gets worse.
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Once again I am confused by her timeline. This is the 2009 hospitalization and now she’s saying this is when her GI system started to shut down. Still can’t imagine taking this pic of my kid let alone uploading it to the Internet.
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Moving on, winter break comes and goes with no medical drama and thus no posts, but school’s back in session so her g-tube drainage and ostomy bag are both full of blood now. Go big or go home!
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Admitted in Omaha and getting more transfusions. She gets scoped and the results “weren’t great.”
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February 1, she’s still getting blood and still bleeding. They’re hoping it’ll stop on its own. She misses another concert for this.
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Two days later, discharged even though she’s still bleeding somewhere.
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It lasts three days, then she’s back and getting more blood. Two units of blood don’t bring her counts up at all because she’s both actively bleeding and not producing enough new blood. Doctors don’t know what to do.
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She gets scoped on the 9th. No answers and they still don’t know what to do except keep giving her more blood. They try to give her iron and she has a terrible reaction.
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And her line is infected again. She needs a double balloon enteroscopy and surgery soon. This kinda suggests they don’t actually know where she’s bleeding, since the balloon enteroscopy goes deeper than your standard endoscopy does. They might do another bone marrow biopsy and replace her line.
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Hello Escobar WHY ARE YOU IN THE HOSPITAL?
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Good boy, Kenny. Because they claim he’s a therapy dog and this means he can come visit Tricia too.
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I did find an article saying that they got him certified with something called Pets for Life, a local therapy dog program. This certification consists of a temperament test and a shadow day. Okay fine, but that still doesn’t explain what he was doing at the Stratosphere and their fucking amusement park which, I will remind you, is on a platform tower 1000 feet in the air. Also weirdly this publication says they live in Olathe, Kansas, on the other side of the KC metro area. Fastpeoplesearch, et al, says they live in the Stratford Gardens neighborhood of Kansas City, MO and lists no other addresses ever for Tricia. This address matches with Tricia's photos/videos of her home. I guess it was just a mistake. Leawood, where this event took place, is the suburb directly across the Kansas state border from their suburb.
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50 donations people selflessly gave so she could get more digital instagram heart stickers.
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ooh I was right, they don’t know where she’s bleeding. She goes for the double balloon enteroscopy and wakes up intubated in ICU. The fuck is up with this hospital letting her have her dog on the bed in the ICU? I know service dogs have "rights" so to speak but even Tricia says on other hospitalizations that he's not allowed in ICU with her. I also just want to point out, in case it wasn't obvious, that the fact that Kenny is there all the time means that so is Mom, since Tricia can't take him out for potty breaks while she's in the hospital and the nurses are not obligated to do so.
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Behold the one and only video she ever posts of Kenny “tasking.” It’s a simple retrieval after she “dropped” her pain pump controller thingy. The dog picks it up for her and brings it to her. That’s niceYOU KNOW THE PERSON FILMING THIS COULD HAVE DONE THAT TOO?


On my first pass when I was just skimming I was kind of lost as to what the lil fucker allegedly did for Tricia since she basically never ever says what this dog is for other than general comfort, which is not a task. i went over to his account where she posted this "business card" she had printed that said blood sugar alert, retrievals, and finding help. Well at least we know he can do one of these things now, although why she needs the dog to do this when her mother basically never leaves her side is beyond me. As for the blood glucose, Tricia had an IRL friend who was also "sick" with remarkably similar problems despite claiming entirely different disorders and she also claimed her dog detected low blood sugar. Why these girls can't just get a CGM if they're having such terrible blood sugar issues is beyond me. If I get the ambition I'll dig into that one too.
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She missed another ding-dang-darn Twenty One Pilots concert!! Don’t worry, this doctor is one of those assholes who spends the whole concert holding his phone up to record it. Oh boy do I love when I pay to see one of my favorite musical artists live on stage and I get to watch it through someone else’s phone screen held directly in my line of sight. It’s just like staying home and watching YouTube, but with the added bonus of being nestled in a stranger’s humid armpit!
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Her hospital writes an article about her. Add basketball to the list of sports she previously did. We finally get something of an answer: she was hospitalized for normal viruses that would “wipe her out for months” and being life-flighted around the country because of it. Kenny’s backstory is a lie, she was saying she was going to train him to be a SD from the day she got him. The article also lets us know Tricia is a biochem major and still wants to be a doctor.

March 4, after five weeks in the hospital, she’s finally out. She is right back to going to comedy shows the next night. The show was in Des Moines which is three hours from both her home in Kansas City and her college in Lincoln.
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Two days later, hospitalized for more blood and now she needs surgery.
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New central line who dis? They give her a medicine she’s allergic to so now she’s on the bipap again and complaining about how much pain she’s in.
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She’s out temporarily because she made her sorority’s charity event about herself, then she goes right back to the hospital as soon as it’s done. According to wiki this sorority officially pledges their charity fundraiser to Make-a-Wish so I don’t know if this is in addition to that or if Tricia convinced her local branch that her cause was more important than that dumb charity that gave her a free vacation even though her family is loaded.
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Of course, this hospitalization is another painkiller vacation.
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Day 50. Looks like they got a peripheral line in her arm?
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Once again, discharged in time for Easter. A true miracle!
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April 30, she’s admitted with (you know it!) suspected sepsis. She’s gained 10 lbs in a week from the infection.
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Why all the candy and soda for someone allegedly in total GI failure, Tricia? I don’t know, if someone told me they can’t eat anything I wouldn’t bring them candy and soda in the hospital. Sounds like your sorority sisters see you living on the all-sugar diet at home.
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Dehydrated on 7L of fluids while they’re trying to change over her steroids. I’m gonna guess QuickTrip sodas and Chick-fil-A lemonade are probably not indicated in total GI failure. Just a hunch.
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She and her doggie have now spent 18 days in the hospital and she probably has kidney stones.
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She does, then she passes them and is discharged the next day. Almost her entire second semester of college was spent hospitalized. She never talks about her classes so my assumption is she had to drop them all.
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June 4th, she’s baaaaack. Another line change ends in a “weird reaction” and terrible pain. She’s there another week, reasons unspecified (dilaudid, the reason is dilaudid).
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Annnnd still on a shitload of oral meds and supplements despite being in total intestinal failure.
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She’s a deb! I didn’t even know people still did this!
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Ahhh fuck this bitch. The little IG hurts himself but she’s going to see her mito quack in LA and simply can’t be without the dog that does nothing – how will people know she’s sick unless he goes to Disneyland with them?! They take him to LA as her accessory and whoops, turns out it wasn’t just a minor injury. It was a veterinary emergency requiring surgery and now the little dog is paralyzed. He makes it through surgery and is now on strict crate rest. I suppose this is perversely the lesser of evils; if she had left him with a dog sitter or a boarding facility they might not have been around to get him to the ER when shit got dire.
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It’s intervertebral disc disease, something that is exceptionally common in old dogs but also happens in young animals sometimes. Chondodystrophic breeds like dachshunds are particularly prone to it and Kenny is part dachshund. There’s a reason good SD programs stick to certain breeds and carefully monitor their breeding programs for congenital health issues.
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As soon as they make it home from LA she gets admitted again with (you know it!) suspected sepsis. Can’t let her paralyzed dog have all the attention now can she?
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Home in a few days because anything she needs can be handled at home. She has to go back if it gets worse.
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The literal next day: it got worse!!! Her line is replaced and after a few more transfusions, she’s home on the 7th.
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Back on the 18th for another line infection. They might start her on that holy munchie prize, IVIG, to bolster her immune system.
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She gets a nice weekend of freedom then goes back to the hospital, this time in Omaha because her local hospital she’s been going to for years isn’t as familiar with her special case (read: Omaha gives her special anesthesia and dilaudid for a line change)
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Back out on the 27th.
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oh. it’s beautiful. Her brand new central line just … fell out of her chest. It didn’t get caught, it just fell out, landed on her feet, clear out of the blue. It must be her super slow EDS healing. Finally. Finally I can say it with my whole chest, with no flicker of doubt in my heart: OK MUNCHIE.
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GOD IS SO GOOD that she miraculously had no problems with this line change because there’s another Pentatonix concert tonight. Weird gamble though, if getting to the concert was a priority why not wait until after? My guesses are either painkiller WD desperation or she was actually gambling on NOT being able to see them again now that she already has several times, and trying to turn this into special attention from them agan. We saw this with Jordan Asbee who intentionally got hospitalized during the Tay Swift Eras concert she had tickets to hoping the other Swifties would tag Taytay and get her a special visit or something. Jordan even wore the outfit she was going to wear to see Taylor in the hospital and made a ton of tiktoks in it but never got acknowledged. And we'll see Tricia pull a similar stunt in the future.
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Real friendship is tricking your friend into eating things you find gross while pretending you really wish you could try it and documenting it for social media.
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Kenny is all better. Unfortunately this means Kenny is going back to "work" right away.
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I do not like the little doggie clipped in the basket or the fact that she has him leashed by the rear clip on his harness. Dude just got over temporary paralysis from his spine disease. If he jumps, he’s fucked.
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Back in the hospital on 6 October for another infected line. Discharged two days later with new antibiotics but hopefully it doesn’t need to be replaced this time.
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Well that won’t do. Two days later, she’s back to have it removed, and to pose for bathroom selfies of her ostomy.
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Ahh another terrible surgery. Now she’s on supplemental oxygen and CPAP.
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And all of this line fuckery was because there was a TPN conference in Orlando and she wanted to have oxygen for that to live out her Hazel Grace fantasies, just like back in Pittsburgh when she wanted to go to that mito thing and meet her Augustus Waters. When the hospital failed to play their role and prescribe her oxygen, she just borrowed a friend's concentrator. You know, a totally normal thing to do.
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And she’s not giving it back now that she has it.
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Hospitalized again for (you know it!) suspected sepsis. Who is all this food for? Did they have their sorority thanksgiving in her hospital room? Is it for her family? I refuse to believe that Tricia had all this food right in front of her in her hospital room and didn’t at least taste it.
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By the 2nd she’s out again, home in Kansas city, and partying with her friends. Still no signs she is actually attending classes.
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The semester is now over and Tricia is celebrating by flying to White Plains, New York to see a Mast Cell specialist. Hmm. Who could that be?
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Why it’s none other than our old pal Dr. Lawrence Afrin!
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Did you know Dr. Afrin was one of the first people to decide MCAS was a real disease that could be diagnosed? There are other mast cell diseases like systemic mastocytosis which are not bullshit, which have been identified for a long time for which there is testing available that can diagnose or rule it out, but “Mast Cell Activation Syndrome” is a new phenomenon only very recently believed to exist. Here’s a video of him speaking at a 2016 conference about how they basically have no idea what this is, most of the patients studied don’t have the pathogenic gene mutations for mastocytosis or any mutation it could reasonably be attributed to, there still wasn’t an agreed-upon set of diagnostic criteria at the time of this conference, it can cause whatever symptoms you claim to have and it’s totally not anxiety. I really like the part where he says that they “drive their doctors batty” by presenting to the office complaining of UTI pain and stomach pain and all sorts of problems and all testing turns out negative. Oh and it’s definitely linked to all those other zebra diagnoses like POTS and hEDS but we don’t know how, we just know all the zebras that already scored those diagnoses are now banging down our doors to get this one. So basically this disease was proposed to exist at the start of this century and with no real evidence supporting that it’s real and that the early cases weren’t just a mild variant of systemic mastocytosis, there has grown a whole cottage industry of “specialists” telling (mostly) women they have it and prescribing them things they do not need like indefinite high-dose steroids and IVIG. And our boy here is at the forefront of that industry.
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He quite literally wrote the book. The reviews of this are full of women saying “omg I feel so validated I knew this was not in my head!!”
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I think instead of going deeper into Afrin’s work, we should go on a lore roadtrip. I never quite grow tired of pointing out how connected these girls all are and showing off that after watching them for nigh on a decade I can now map out their relationships and how they all know exactly what they’re doing. Brynn Duncan was diagnosed by Afrin in 2012 and she’s the first patient I can find openly admitting he’s her doctor. Brynn claims Afrin diagnosed her after she spent 7 years trying to get to the bottom of her symptoms, which every other doctor blew off as psychosomatic, anxiety, or attention-seeking behavior. I hesitate to say she’s Afrin ground zero but she’s close, and she was all sorts of involved in spoonie circles in her early years. When I go through zebra munchie accounts from 2012-14 it’s pretty much a given she’s hanging around in their comments section.
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Here’s the first time I find Brynn and Tricia interacting, January 2014. Tricia was just starting her TFiOS obsession at the time.
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Cheyanne Perry first started claiming mysterious allergies to everything except distilled water in March 2014. She had just gotten a feeding tube for “gastroparesis” and needed to manufacture a reason she couldn’t run her tube feeds because she was anorexic and did not want to gain weight. Cheyanne went from "no anaphylaxis, epi pens just in case" to "constant anaphylaxis that has plagued me my whole life" in days after discovering the magical four-letter acronym.
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But before that we can see a different girl: m_shelley19, who also haunts Tricia’s comments. I’ve been cutting a wide path around this one for years because I felt she was what i originally thought of Tricia: sick, but super dramatic, no identity outside of her illness, and collected new diagnoses when her real one ran out of steam. At least my ceaseless optimism keeps things lively. Did you guys know you can download an entire CaringBridge blog as a single PDF file? It's true! Michaela is the one who runs the Tubie Teens page. She and Brynn are from the same area and IRL besties who “met” on instagram one day and then realized in conversation that they were both in the same hospital at the same time. Where one goes, so does the other.
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Here’s the first time I find Michaela and Cheyanne interacting.
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And the first time I see her talking to Brynn, January 2014.
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While she lived in Florida, Cheyanne started seeing Afrin without actually meeting him in person. According to her, he insisted that all the tests that were run in Florida came back negative or inconclusive because those dummies were doing them all wrong.
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Here’s Cheyanne in the hospital in Florida with some girl named Bailey and Ashely Carroll. Ashley is (allegedly) another one of Afrin’s patients. We know her from her c. 2019 friendship with Amanda Winig as she is one of the girls who got skinwalked by the skinwalker. Ashley was on high-dose steroids as well and while I do not have proof she’s one of Afrin’s former patients I do have plenty of anecdotal evidence from people who knew her. I like Ashley and mostly leave her alone because she’s really fucked now and has rebuked spoonie life; the reason she was friends with Amanda was apparently an attempt to show Amanda the dangerous path she was headed down. (I know nothing about Bailey)
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Here’s Ashley with Brynn in May 2015.
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And October 2015 with Michaela, too.
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Brynn’s story went viral in 2015 when an article referring to her as a “bubble girl allergic to life” was published. Millions of people read it and her comments quickly filled with girls saying they saw her story on CNN and it was like literally them, like literally exactly their lives omg. A year later while still at the height of her popularity, she and Afrin filmed a “documentary” (read: advertisement of his services) for the BBC.
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In 2016, Cheyanne moved to the same town in South Carolina that Brynn lives in and days after that she went up to Minnesota to see Afrin in person for the first time. According to her, Afrin diagnosed her on the previous testing that he himself said was not done properly. He did no additional testing on seeing her and agreed to continue managing her care long-distance through the same local doctors Brynn was seeing in South Carolina.
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Denae Manchester was from Boston and started as a head injury/lupus/weird woo illness faker, claiming that shortly after she graduated with a masters degree she suffered a TBI when an autistic child kicked her in the head. Given that she only saw woo clinics and did “sensory play” (read: playing with play doh and coloring in coloring books) as treatment I’m gonna guess no one believed she was actually impaired by this. Denae married her long time boyfriend in 2014 and in the car on the way to her wedding started having “reactions.” Instead of a honeymoon she had a prolonged hospitalization where she faked anaphylaxis and stopped eating until they gave her a feeding tube. Denae saw a doctor called Dr. Mariana Castells, a respected mastocytosis expert, who initially believed her and Denae felt SEEN. Over time Castells stopped believing her, told her a lot of her problem was was psychosomatic and referred her out to psych, and told her no to IV benadryl, a port, and anything else she asked for.
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Here’s the first time I find Brynn and Denae interacting, October 2015)
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(Funny enough, Brynn also saw Castells in 2012. She said she loved her but never mentioned her again which probably means she either said Brynn wasn’t sick or wasn’t giving her better stuff than Afrin did.)
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Right around when Castells was telling Denae off about her drug-and-tube seeking, Denae became friends with Cheyanne and Brynn online. Through them she also started to see Afrin long-distance and spent days on end chimping that she could not find doctors in Boston willing to listen to his orders until she finally found one oncologist who would give her a PICC and let her put steroids and antihistamines through it in 2016. Castells “fired” Denae as a patient after this (or as Denae says it, agreed she was too complex and should see Afrin instead). In 2016 she had her first appointment with Afrin, driving all the way from Boston to Minnesota to see the only doctor in the US who would tell her what she wanted to hear.
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I am legally obligated to remind everyone that this is what Denae Manchester was doing to prove she had for real anaphylaxis. She did this in hospitals, doctors offices, all over social media, just whenever the mood struck. And Dr. Lawrence Afrin went "oh yeah that's totally legit MCAS."
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Also around this time, Denae, Cheyanne, and Brynn started talking to a girl in Philadelphia named Taylor Nearon. A year prior Taylor had become one of Afrin’s patients and found a local doctor willing to carry out his orders. Within a year the athletic teen girl had probably doubled in weight and developed severe osteoporosis from the steroids. Taylor died a year later after she developed a rare steroid complication called epidural lipomatosis. A fatty tumor had grown in the epidural space along nearly her entire spine. Surgery was done to remove it but too late, her spinal nerves were strangled and her bones had turned to chalk. She broke nearly every one of her vertebrae in recovery and was paralyzed from the neck down. On a vent, unable to move or do anything independently, and facing constant infections, Taylor opted to have treatment withdrawn.
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Here’s the first time I find Taylor on Brynn’s account in 2015.
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At around the same time, Ashley Carroll lost feelings in her legs and found out she also had epidural lipomatosis. She opted to not have surgery, apparently because of what happened to Taylor, and has instead gone off the ‘roids, gotten out of sicksta circles, and gotten her life (but not her mobility) back. Afrin is still on the board of the mast cell disease charity Taylor’s parents founded and goes to all their events because the man has 0 shame.
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After several delays, Denae moved to South Carolina in May 2017, moving into the same town as Brynn and Cheyanne and seeing all their same doctors who were willing to work with Afrin. She ended up steroid-bloated, full of tubes, and in a wheelchair like the rest of them.
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In August 2017, a young EDS munchie from North Carolina named Beefany Bethany Harrup started complaining of mysterious allergic reactions. She, too, saw this miracle worker in South Carolina and ended up very quickly becoming a steroid-dependent trainwreck. Here’s her and Denae hanging out in April 2019.
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And three months later.
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And three months later. Bethany has left the internet over "haters" after becoming Reddit's favorite pet munchie for a few years. Apparently she lost a significant amount of the steroid weight and just crochets a lot now.
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We don’t talk about her much here but Mairead the Chronic Zebra whose symptoms disappear on the weekends when she wants to go hiking is also one of his girls, as shown in this 2017 photo. Mairead is a crunchy woo weirdo who was on super restrictive diets so like Cheyanne, I’m sure she had a reason steroids wouldn’t work for her.
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In 2019 Cheyanne’s liver started failing from a TPN complication called hemophagocytic lymphohistiocytosis and she needed a bone marrow transplant to fix it. Any doctor or hospital willing to help her threw their hands up when she continued to refuse all reasonable treatment and not take her medications because Afrin totally agreed she was allergic to everything including specific brands of IV tubing. Her liver failed and her intestine started to disintegrate leaking bacteria into her bloodstream and making her septic pretty much all the time. The only solution was to remove her colon and then get a multi-visceral transplant as a last ditch effort to save her life. In 2022 she moved to Indiana to get a chance at a transplant. That happened in mid-2023 and she died in August of complications from it.
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Most of the other girls listed above have dialed back their shit in recent years. It seems like Covid put a damper on them running to the hospital every 2 days for “anaphylaxis” more than the fact that like half their friends have died of steroid complications. There’s a girl named Ellie who was one of Afrin’s patients since she was like 10 years old, who I am super convinced is being munchausen-by-proxied and she now has massive steroid bloating, tubes, multiple bouts of sepsis, the whole enchilada, who is friends with Brynn and Denae and was friends with Cheyanne before her death. I have always gotten the strong feeling that these much older girls were acting as something of an echo chamber, that her mother convinced her she was sick and then these women reinforced it.
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Oh right just to tie up that loose end I left up there: yes Michaela is also an Afrin patient and has been steroid-bloated in the past because of it.
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Afrin moved from Minnesota to Purchase, New York to join forces with also-quack MCAS nutbar Dr. Tania Dempsey. Together they run the Amorak Integrative Medicine clinic where they tell you that you def have this totally real not-anxiety disease plus probably chronic lyme and sure, whatever else you say you have that will be $1000 please. And as we can see from @Pho Real's post he's still diagnosing a new crop of girls for us to discover.
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They also offer a step-by-step guide for convincing your local doctors that you are not just anxious, dramatic, and looking for a get-out-of-life-free card.
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Anyway, that is where Tricia is seeing him. Of course, he totally agrees she has MCAS and Mito, just like he’s been paid to say. She has a ton of testing done and it’s going to take weeks to come back but we know the answer. No matter what those test say, she has MCAS and needs steroids for it.
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And while Tricia’s in New York she uses her “sick kid perks” to score tickets to see what was then one of the hottest musicals.
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Back to school after winter break and back to sucking down bags of blood for anemia her doctors still don’t have an answer for. She estimates this is around her 60th transfusion.
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A few weeks later, her central line is broken again. She then claims she desats down to the low 60s despite supplemental oxygen but she and her mom decide not to call the ambulance. Yanno, just wait it out. What’s a little loss of consciousness and hypoxic brain injury between friends amirite? Once her panic attack totally real crisis passes she heads to the ER. It takes them 24 hours to place a peripheral IV.
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It blew as soon as they used it. They did end up finding a hole in her line. It takes two hours to dig her old line out and place a new one because of all the scar tissue from previous lines.
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This time she doesn’t get two weeks of malingering on a dilaudid PCA. They boot her out citing the “crazy amount of germs” she could contact in the hospital.
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For the rest of the semester there’s nothing of note, except that she’s doing poorly in her classes, imagine that. Out of curiosity I looked into a few of her sorority sisters she posted and lol, the troon out rate was enormous. Like fully half the the girls she was hanging out with in this sorority - an organization for women - are now some flavor of genderspecial.
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She goes to LA to see her neurophthalmologist and Dr. Boles again. No change to her vision in either direction but she can’t see at night and therefore can’t drive at night. Any exposure to smoke or alcohol at all will make her disease worse. In the comments she says that her body has compensated for her depleted mitochondria by creating a “crowding of mitochondria in the back of the eye mimicking papal edema.” First of all it’s papilledema, the Vatican has nothing to do with this. But uh, that doesn’t really make sense in terms of how the human body works. Most cells in your body have mitochondria (red blood cells are the exception) and the number in each cell is dependent on their function. So it’s not like they’re free-floating in your body and just concentrated in the backs of her eyes. Also papilledema, the real kind, can be caused by increased intracranial pressure which she’s already claimed she had back in Pittsburgh.
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HI DR. BOLES HI HI HI HI!!! I’M YOUR NEW BIGGEST FAN. He totally agrees with Dr. Afrin that she has MCAS. It’s so nice when the lunatics agree on something. He also does a test where he turns down her oxygen and she holds her breath like a toddler until he decides to turn it back on. He tells her she needs more blood. Ooh look at that refreshing-looking drink TOTAL INTESTINAL FAILURE.
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She gets her blood in Nebraska as soon as she’s home.
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Vial with the peach cap/green band is the antacid/antihistamine famotidine.
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Still taking tons of pills despite her #intestinalfailure.
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Ice cream date with her buddy! The ice cream was for the dog of course. I wouldn’t put too much stock in the way this little dog is holding his tail, ftr, iggies tend to have that clamped tail carriage while alert. If you look at pictures of Italian Greyhounds shown for confo a lot of them will have the same deal going on.
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Priscilla Presley wants to pet her little doggies. The Peabody is pet friendly at least, so they didn’t have to pretend Esky was anything other than a shelter mutt who can sometimes behave.
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NO_ONE_CARES.wav. These kids and their performative “coming out” for extra attention. All evidence says she's never dated anyone in her entire life and this remains unchanged in 2024. Why the fuck does it matter that she’s sometimes attracted to women? No one would ever know if she didn’t announce it because she’s too busy rubbing bacteria in her lines to find a partner of either sex and she has no intention of changing this in the future. Also can’t help but notice this was during a time when she was surrounded by a bunch of performatively “queer” sorority weirdos who trooned out.
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Attention-seeker starts playing musician’s piano backstage at a concert; everyone claps. Oop, somewhere between Memphis and now she has gotten canister oxygen instead of her borrowed concentrator, right after her appointment with Dr. Boles and the breath holdy test.
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July 28, hospitalized for (you know it!) suspected sepsis, and her “service dog” hurt himself in another minor accident. RETIRE. THE FUCKING. DOG.
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She’s culturing Candida krusei, a multi-drug resistant opportunistic fungus. They have to get her infected line out ASAP but no one can place an IV in her charred veins. They want at least 12 hours without a line to get the infection cleared. Everyone I asked about this said they want more like 48 hours.
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They place a PICC on the 29th. Anesthesia is too busy with real patients to deal with her ass so she gets her line dug out of her chest with no anesthesia, no sedation, only lidocaine which she’s allergic to. NEVER AGAIN!
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Sent home on IV antibiotics. No, Micafungin is an antifungal, you have blood mushrooms. IVIG is suggested again.
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Wow neat TOTAL INTESTINAL FAILURE.
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We stop here. After this Tricia embarks on a quest to make sure she can never, ever back out of her lies even if she wants to, and she loves every second of it!
 
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Absolutely, I don't know how our country supports the number of claimants it does when only 56% of the country pay income tax. I know its not the only form of tax (we pay VAT on essentials like plumbing and electrician services ffs), but I know some claimants who honestly I think can work just fine and they wipe out my contributions every month in what they get.

Thinking about munchies, they cost the NHS so much with all the unnecessary tests they get. I just looked up the costs of MRIs, ECGs, and CT scans, they run into the hundreds. So one fun jaunt to hospital, if they manage to get admitted instead of being told to fuck off, runs into the thousands. In cases like this, I think the US system is better, at least they have to pay for what they get. But then I think of people with type 1 diabetes and prefer our system.
The US healthcare system is so expensive because you basically have to get insurance. Every hospital visit with scans and things of that nature can go anywhere from the tens of thousands to the hundreds of thousands, and everyone who's on disability or makes a low amount can get state insurance which pays for 100% of everything. Taxpayer funded.
 
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