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💥 Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimitowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 25% wholesome disability influencer, 75% that cash me outside girl
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I think Alex realizes she done fucked up. Having a newborn is difficult under normal circumstances, and they have disability, addiction, and BPD all added to that.
She was so adamant about proving to her "haters" that she could do it all and that Noah wasn't going anywhere and blah blah blah love story for the ages blah blah
Now that the baby is home, assuming it's her and Noah doing the care giving, she's realizing that this shit is hard and instead of showing her haters the truth of newborn life, she'd rather show them nothing at all.
Because she doesn't want them to be right.
That's the best case scenario in my opinion. They are both there and involved with the baby with the help of a carer and are overwhelmed, but can't show it to the haters
No need to list worst case scenarios, reddit has that covered
She was so adamant about proving to her "haters" that she could do it all and that Noah wasn't going anywhere and blah blah blah love story for the ages blah blah
Now that the baby is home, assuming it's her and Noah doing the care giving, she's realizing that this shit is hard and instead of showing her haters the truth of newborn life, she'd rather show them nothing at all.
Because she doesn't want them to be right.
That's the best case scenario in my opinion. They are both there and involved with the baby with the help of a carer and are overwhelmed, but can't show it to the haters
No need to list worst case scenarios, reddit has that covered
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For one thing, Alex isn't caregiving to anyone or anything. She can't even wipe her own arse. Unless she's hired an additional carer for the bub, she's probably missing out on baths and looks grubby and he is
, the unit is trashed, Noah is either a quivering wreck perpetually on the verge of losing his shit or doped up to the eyeballs and completely useless, the dog is shitting everywhere, and the bub is utterly unable to settle because her environment is insanely chaotic. Or even better, she has full blown colic; a new bub that won't stop crying is distressingly common but it doesn't make for good influencer optics. Likewise a trashed unit; basically standard to anyone who's just brought home a new bub, but again, not a good look on social media. Can you imagine Alex trying to stage the perfect mum and bub photo shoot, only to have Ari projectile vomit all over her? I can.
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She posted on Instagram, she lives!
Two stories, both reposts.
One was someone knitting with spaghetti and the other was a chihuahua in the bath.
Disappointing.
Two stories, both reposts.
One was someone knitting with spaghetti and the other was a chihuahua in the bath.
Disappointing.
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- 22 de Jul, 2020
In my experience, the colic usually started after the newborn sleepy stage though. Is it a thing for babies to come home from the NICU and start tearing shit up with the screaming right away?For one thing, Alex isn't caregiving to anyone or anything. She can't even wipe her own arse. Unless she's hired an additional carer for the bub, she's probably missing out on baths and looks grubby and he is
, the unit is trashed, Noah is either a quivering wreck perpetually on the verge of losing his shit or doped up to the eyeballs and completely useless, the dog is shitting everywhere, and the bub is utterly unable to settle because her environment is insanely chaotic. Or even better, she has full blown colic; a new bub that won't stop crying is distressingly common but it doesn't make for good influencer optics. Likewise a trashed unit; basically standard to anyone who's just brought home a new bub, but again, not a good look on social media. Can you imagine Alex trying to stage the perfect mum and bub photo shoot, only to have Ari projectile vomit all over her? I can.
I think you’re right that it’s been a balancing act of competing needs since they got Ari home. Can’t clean up Alex’s ruined clothes from a diaper blowout AND clean up the baby simultaneously. Can’t feed Ari and then sit in the rocking chair for the ensuing contact nap AND take Alex to the toilet. I imagine the apartment smells of sour day-old formula shits and lochia.
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Man, this got depressing fast.
We all have known that one carer is not sufficient for two infants especially when one is in their 20's. We've also known that Alex is toxic. She's said so herself. That includes being toxic to the carer as well as Noah(I really hope Ari is exempt).
It's only a matter of time until the carer burns out and fucks off. What then? Will Noah step up?
I don't know about the uncle post, it's awfully convenient for reddit, but the parts about Alex and Noah's relationship ring true. If Noah dips out now he'd never get custody and I can totally see Alex using their child to control him.
This will all go very badly if they don't find someone full time for just Ari. Even then the second carer isn't going to live with them which means overnight is on Noah. That's a LOT of responsibility and hard work.
It actually makes a lot of sense for Noah to get his parents involved in caring for Ari especially since presumably Alex's parents are remaining hands off. I just don't see how Noah can do it, even with carers.
The best thing for all 3 of them would be to move in with either of their parents. Taking in Alex means assuming care for her also or at the least making room in their lives for her AND a carer.
The lack of current posts does not bode well for their situation. How could they possibly afford 2 carers? Or even the one? Noah is perpetually unemployed. Alex can't be making a living from social media. So all 4 of the are most likely living off the kind benefaction of Alex's parents(Alex, Ari, Noah, and Nina's wage). Somethings gotta give.
Will Alex's parents accept Noah and Ari into their situation? Will Noah's? Cps has already been involved peripherally which means that the threshold for intervention has been lowered, crying wolf or not.
It makes sense for Noah's mom to seek custody even though it'll never happen unless Alex fucks up royally.
What sucks most is that Ari will end up a pawn in Alex's narcissistic codependent machinations. I'm not finding it easy to be optimistic at this point.
We all have known that one carer is not sufficient for two infants especially when one is in their 20's. We've also known that Alex is toxic. She's said so herself. That includes being toxic to the carer as well as Noah(I really hope Ari is exempt).
It's only a matter of time until the carer burns out and fucks off. What then? Will Noah step up?
I don't know about the uncle post, it's awfully convenient for reddit, but the parts about Alex and Noah's relationship ring true. If Noah dips out now he'd never get custody and I can totally see Alex using their child to control him.
This will all go very badly if they don't find someone full time for just Ari. Even then the second carer isn't going to live with them which means overnight is on Noah. That's a LOT of responsibility and hard work.
It actually makes a lot of sense for Noah to get his parents involved in caring for Ari especially since presumably Alex's parents are remaining hands off. I just don't see how Noah can do it, even with carers.
The best thing for all 3 of them would be to move in with either of their parents. Taking in Alex means assuming care for her also or at the least making room in their lives for her AND a carer.
The lack of current posts does not bode well for their situation. How could they possibly afford 2 carers? Or even the one? Noah is perpetually unemployed. Alex can't be making a living from social media. So all 4 of the are most likely living off the kind benefaction of Alex's parents(Alex, Ari, Noah, and Nina's wage). Somethings gotta give.
Will Alex's parents accept Noah and Ari into their situation? Will Noah's? Cps has already been involved peripherally which means that the threshold for intervention has been lowered, crying wolf or not.
It makes sense for Noah's mom to seek custody even though it'll never happen unless Alex fucks up royally.
What sucks most is that Ari will end up a pawn in Alex's narcissistic codependent machinations. I'm not finding it easy to be optimistic at this point.
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You know, if true, Noah deserves to lie in the bed he's made for himself. Don't sleep with a woman you're not at least a little bit willing to have a baby with.
Enablers are the worst. Maybe the problem isn't that Noah is always unfairly ensnared by cripples and drug dealers. "How does my nephew avoid responsibility for what he's done to this woman and now this poor baby?" Let the man stand on his own two feet instead of grooming him every single second to be a responsbility-avoidant faggot.
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- 22 de Jul, 2015
That's a nice theory and I wouldn't blame his family if they'd reached the end of their patience with his career of partying and drug abuse and told him to fuck off forever... but unfortunately there's a tiny, fragile bub that's just been dropped in the whole mess. There is only a paid, burnt out carer standing between Ari's death from either utter neglect or being violently shaken by a sleep deprived, psychotic BPD drug addict.
Many people do straighten themselves out when they have a kid... but people with personality disorders and/or a refusal to get their mental illnesses treated don't. The amount of depressed, autistic women who can't even take care of themselves or so much as tolerate the sound of car traffic going by their house who have told me that their depression would be cured if they could just have a baby of their own is mind blowing. Pointing out that they can't even look after a damn cat or work a fulltime job, there was no way in hell they could care for a colicky baby with zero sleep for six months invariably results in offense and cries of eugenics, and utterly no self reflection or acknowledgement that childcare is brutal even on the well adjusted and hale. IVF is frequently mentioned; I've been seeing increasing numbers of women inquiring if they can access IVF treatment on the NDIS and it's honestly terrifying how bad the lack of self-awareness amongst them is, and how many other women leave supportive and reassuring comments instead of, "You're on the disability pension and a shitton of medications, you have no partner and live in a sharehouse, the fuck is wrong with you?"
I've sharehoused with several BPD women over the course of my career, they're a complete nightmare. If you gave me an ultimatum and told me that I could either live with a narc or a BPD, I'd honestly throw my toothbrush and a clean pair of knickers in a shopping bag and go sleep under a bridge for the rest of my miserable life.
People with broken brains should never, ever have children. I mean, I don't entirely hate the fact that I'm alive, but if I could go back in time to when my father was just about to knock up his first girlfriend, I'd smack him in the mouth and tell him to go get a bloody vasectomy.
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@glass_houses I appreciate what you're saying, but the clear blame on Alex and desire to "save" Noah is personally annoying to me. She didn't corner him and force him to impregnate her at gunpoint. It isn't a popular mainstream opinion, but I think most personality disorder types would benefit from being beaten until they confirm. There aren't many types who benefit from violence, but you would be surprised how well antisocial behavior like rape and murder are deterred if people like Noah's male family members throttling him until he behaves. Sometimes a little primitive behavior works best when someone's behaving like an animal.
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Sorry if it comes across this way, but I'm honestly not blaming one more than the other here. Alex has probably been looking for some man stupid enough to go undressed for the occasion for a very long time, and like any classic narc, she never once considered that the resulting baby would be... well, a baby, and eventually a child, and finally its own person. She thought she would get a biddable doll to pose with, and narcs are always shocked when this is not the case. Her parents should have arranged a hysterectomy as soon as she turned eighteen, and made it clear that they'd draw financial support if she didn't go through with it.
As for Noah, I have no desire to 'save' the stupid prick. I know that BPD people generally calm down as they get older, but not a single one should ever breed ever. They are an unbelievable nightmare even if you're an adult; a child raised by one is going to have a horrendous life. Even if the BPD manages to stop themselves from physically abusing their child, the sudden, violent temper tantrums, the black depressive spells, the absolute lack of sexual boundaries and the resulting predators that invariably come sniffing around, the chronic inability to hold long term employment or manage their finances, the strong tendency towards drug abuse... it's an utterly miserable way to be raised.
If Noah's family had any wits, they'd take legal custody of little Ari, get Noah snipped, and throw him into the army or merchant marines and tell him not to come home for the next twenty years.
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- 18 de Nov, 2020
@glass_houses You have a good heart. I believe that. It's just that it's 100% in their power to do better for Ari, and she deserves so much than that as the best probable outcome.
This is arguably why what I'm saying is closer to internet bullying than your "harsh" (kind) words: It's the kind of statement that would really hurt to read about themselves, that they're failing, everyone sees it, and the only reason it's happening is 100% their fault.
This is arguably why what I'm saying is closer to internet bullying than your "harsh" (kind) words: It's the kind of statement that would really hurt to read about themselves, that they're failing, everyone sees it, and the only reason it's happening is 100% their fault.
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- 17 de Nov, 2019
Alex can't even take care of herself, how is she going to take care of the baby? I think that Ari should be taken from Alex and given to a mentally and physically healthy, human-shaped woman with a mentally stable and non-druggie man. Ari is not safe with Alex and the Hitler hair guy.
Disabled and/or mentally unstable people shouldn't have children.
Disabled and/or mentally unstable people shouldn't have children.
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I never thought they would be that way. I thought they'd take her right away.
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Alex seemingly admits to liking underage boys. BIG yikes. This is an "ask your friends your type challenge" she posted some time ago that's surfaced on tiktok.
Unrelated but probably of note. Noahs insta has been deleted.
Alex seemingly admits to liking underage boys. BIG yikes. This is an "ask your friends your type challenge" she posted some time ago that's surfaced on tiktok.
Unrelated but probably of note. Noahs insta has been deleted.
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Chances are good that the both of them are... just exhausted and burned out. Raising a severely disabled, high medical needs child destroys a lot of parents and guardians, especially when that child grows into a narcissistic adult. I suspect that they've just decided to keep throwing money at Alex and hope that Noah steps up. Narcs also get a kick out of using their children as weapons; she may be using her parents' desire for a relationship with their granddaughter against them and controlling their access to her.
Narcs are truly vile creatures.
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- 18 de Nov, 2020
I hope Alex and Noah are enjoying those hardwon moments of tired peace with a newborn. They're really magical if you can allow yourself the chance to enjoy them. I would be lying if I denied I was a little envious, as hard as it is. It passes in a second and only a fool would do it again with Alex's disability. Don't be foolish and miss out on Ari being little, Noah. Screw the haters. This is all that matters.
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I genuinely like your gentleness and optimism - you're a shining light in even in the bleakest of threads.
But in this case... IMO, the best thing that could happen to all three of them would be someone else getting custody of Ari, with Alex and Noah getting visitation. Neither of them are capable of caring for themselves or each other, let alone a baby.
It would either be a wake-up call, and they'd rapidly get their shit together, and Ari gets to grow up with people who can care for her... Or they don't, and Ari still gets to grow up in a loving family.
And even if they get their shit together, Ari's going to have to grow up very quickly and Alex and Noah will turn her into her mother's carer the second she's able. Imagine growing up with parents who can't or won't hold you, read you stories, or even give you a kiss and a bandage when you scrape your knee. And now imagine being that kid and having to do that for someone else.
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- 20 de Feb, 2019
I could just imagine that if in five months they lose custody of Ari, those retards would start having unprotected sex again to try to make another baby in Alex's freaky mangled goblin body.
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It's bold of you to assume Noah would stick around an extra five months.
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- 22 de Jul, 2015
Druggies will do unspeakable acts so they can get high.