Wow.
This is a new low even for Tess.
Who hears that a friend of theirs has had a sibling die and decides to make it all about them?
I bet you Tess hasn't had any meaningful contact with Jolene in over a month.
Would not be surprised if it had been years since she had talked to Lizette.
Had Tess even ever mentioned her before online?
This bitch vlogs buying fast food.
I suspect if she has spent time with anyone it would be documented.
I don't understand how anyone can be Tess's age and not understand that people are going to do what they are going to do and you can't change that.
I hope people start asking her when did she get a sister and when will she be flying back to Mississippi.
I had no idea Jolene even had a sister, and I've never seen Tess mention Lizette before.
Also, if Lizette killed herself, that was for Jolene to make public, not Tess.
That post is classic Tess; there's nothing in it about Lizette and who she was as a person and why she will be missed; it's all about Tess.
I mean, look at this shit:
"My life changed at 3 am yesterday."
You know whose life actually changed, Tess? Lizette's. And Jolene's, but there's no mention of her.
"One of my closest friends... my sister... is gone"
Such a close friend, you never posted her among all of your countless "best friends." You, who share way too much private shit on your Insta, never told us you had a "sister."
BTW, she's Jolene's sister, not yours, and therefore it is not your fucking place to tell the world she killed herself. And where is Jolene innall your grief? She's nowhere to be found.
"& I'm afraid to go to sleep because then it's real."
This is absolute bullshit, added for dramatic effect. It qualifies as the "impressionistic speech" used by people with Histrionic Personality Disorder—loaded up with dramatic emotion, but really saying nothing that makes any sense. I watched Amber Heard churn out so much of it during her trial testimony, it really pops out now.
"I'm paralyzed with grief and guilt."
So paralyzed, you were able to take a selfie, type this comment that is entirely about you, and post it so the entire world can see how grief-stricken you are. Guilt? Yeah, right.
"I don't know what to tell my kids."
In Rylee's case, you tell him first, and tell him the truth. In Bowie's, you only need to tell him that she died, not that it was suicide, and it would probably help to have Rylee there because we know having to focus on your child's feelings is more than you can handle.
(Now I wonder if Lizette had taken over primary babysitter duties from Jolene, for Tess to go on like this over somebody whose existence she's never bothered to hint at before. Because it's not like respecting others' boundaries and not posting them to her social media is a thing for her. But if she was just "the help," the one who watched Bowie while Tess went on vacations, out partying, and off to see her johns, she'd simultaneously be too unimportant to post about, but a major source of grief, and finally achieving "sister" status, once gone. Because that's how Cluster Bs think.)
"I can't talk about her in past tense."
I...I...I...it's all about Tess.
"How can you know someone so well & still not be able to prevent this???????!!!!!"
Maybe you didn't know her so fucking well, after all. Maybe you're just so self-absorbed, you never bothered to notice she was struggling. Maybe you
did notice, but since helping her would have required putting her first, and that was inconvenient, and you were the one with
real problems, you didn't.
"Check on your friends.
Tell them you love them.
Please

"
She couldn't even post this over a pic of Lizette; despite her grief, she took a selfie and put these words over her own bloated face.
This bitch. I swear to fucking god.