Respuestas al mensaje #5,117

It will not. Formulate your escape plan and leave, now. It is a matter of when, not if, he begins abusing you more than he already is (stalking is...

I'm an optimist too, and It's my worst quality. I burn time trying to solve problems that I should probably just have never taken on in the first...

If you stay with him, he will ramp up the behavior because he isn't facing any repercussions for it because why should he? And maybe his brain...

If he is fantasizing about abuse, and has admitted he is jealous you were abused, that is a Chernobyl glowing red flag. His brain will not unfuck...

People’s kinks are one thing, but “jealous [you were] abused”? That’s not ok. Tf? Are you afraid to dump him? Girl, that’s not a red flag...

People very rarely change for the better. And never without putting a lot of work into this change, it doesn't happen by itself.