I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

[Rocketleaguer]

Is a hysterectomy a relatively easy operation? Is that complicated by the fact she's a 500lb deathfat? All the people saying they had a successful hysterectomy were 2x smaller than her.

 

[变性黑鬼]

Is that complicated by the fact she's a 500lb deathfat?

Uh yes. All of her organs are packed with layers of greasy, slippery fat. Plus, as I'm sure you must be aware by now, they would need a highly skilled gas-man or woman to put her under in a way that she would wake up from.

Amber is gonna die. Let loose!

 

[Turd Fergusson]

My issue at this point is that after her consultation with the medical team, she starts to question her treatment options, including surgery and weight loss, and talks about how she knows her body better than anyone else and knows what works for her.
This is what got her in this situation in the first place.

 

[Takodachi]

"You get what you fucking deserve"
And I'm not saying it because shes an awful person, because frankly, compared to other lolcows like chantelle she is just meh.
Nah fam, I'm talking about the inevitability of fat fucks and cancer, you basically make your body work twice as hard as a normal person and expect no consequence for your actions? Not how the real world works, bud.

She quite literally ate her way into an early grave, and for that I have no sympathy.

 

[Mr. Ghoul]

I'll take my clock cause I didn't see this until this morning.

This news is bad enough to even an make asshole like me feel bad for Amber. Cancer is no joke. I hope that it's at least an early enough stage to be treated so she has a chance.

The end is nigh, Amber. You're going to have to fight harder than you've ever fought for anything in your life. Get your shit together. LISTEN to your doctor and do EVERYTHNG they say. STOP eating trash. Eat ONLY whole foods. Drink ONLY water. ACTUALLY FIX your sleeping schedule. Get off your ass and MOVE.

 

[Poop Bun]

RIP poop bun

 

[Kukkamaaria]

Just to quote what all our deathfat gurls keep saying:

"No one can change overnight! Babysteps, babysteps."

Yeah when the babysteps take 20 years, this happens.

 

[LetThemEatCake]

My issue at this point is that after her consultation with the medical team, she starts to question her treatment options, including surgery and weight loss, and talks about how she knows her body better than anyone else and knows what works for her.
This is what got her in this situation in the first place.

I would hope she doesn't regain her usual arrogance and start dismissing medical advice or skipping treatments or even worse, decide she 'knows what works for her' and go down some moronic juice-fast-coffee-enemas type of 'alternative' cancer treatment that kills you. You don't even have to be dumb to go that route, just know-it-all and arrogant, or afraid enough of normal medical procedures to believe some alt charlatan's promises. Steve Jobs died because he delayed surgery and decided to pursue damn alt diet-based remedy for his cancer. By the time he admtted it didn't work and went the proper route, it was too late and the cancer had spread too far for surgery to work anymore.

 

[not william stenchever]

I know enough through osmosis about this hamplanet that if they do indeed have cancer they will gain weight, not lose it.

 

[Furiosa]

Well I had abandoned Amber awhile ago since it was the same song and dance ...honestly never saw this coming. If it’s legit, I don’t see this going well as she had been having issues a long time (and ignoring them) coupled with the fact she has very little willpower. The only possible saving grace is her age and if it’s in early stages.
Nevertheless this is going to be an interesting next few months.

 

[MirnaMinkoff]

Is it wrong that I secretly hope that she tries to set up a GoFundMeeeeeeeeeee for herself? I can't imagine Becky or Misty doing it for her, but goddamn that would be such an amazing circle of karmic completion.

It would be very stupid to start a GFM because Amber‘s only hope at this point is to get Medicaid coverage for treatment. If she gets a bunch of free money from a GFM it puts her farther away from being poor enough to qualify for Medicaid. No GFM is going to cover the six figures a hysterectomy and treatments she will probably need. It would be far to painful for Amber to spend money on healthcare than on orange chicken and hauls - so she will just go broke and try to get the govt to pay for it.

I predicted Ambers only future was a homebound KY trailer dweller on HUD, SSI and medicaid...it’s just going to happen at warp speed now.

 

[Meygen]

I guess I feel sympathetic and all, it’s just that AL crying has always made me laugh

am I going to hell?

I must admit, hearing her thank everyone for the "well witches" between sobs made me chuckle
Edited wording

 

[Turd Fergusson]

Just not knowing how the U.S. health care insurance system works, I have a couple of questions:

Could Becky get her old job back at American Woodmark which probably has health insurance and get Amber on the plan?

The next opening for Obamacare is in November for plans starting in January 2021. Are hospitals allowed or able to forward any medical costs to a later date so that it could be paid by her insurer in 2021?

 

[Trigger Me Timbers]

Just not knowing how the U.S. health care insurance system works, I have a couple of questions:

Could Becky get her old job back at American Woodmark which probably has health insurance and get Amber on the plan?

The next opening for Obamacare is in November for plans starting in January 2021. Are hospitals allowed or able to forward any medical costs to a later date so that it could be paid by her insurer in 2021?

I bet hard money she or a wéen will do a go fund me .

 

[Positron]

Stage 2 is when cancer cells have started to wander outside and start showing up in the lymph nodes.

No, Stage II in endometrial carcinoma mean the cancer has grown to the cervix but has not yet spread to the lymph nodes. By the time lymph nodes are involved, it is already Stage IIIc.
(Each cancer has its own staging system and the meaning of stages get updated when new clinical data, especially prognosis, become available).

 

[Bookish]

Just not knowing how the U.S. health care insurance system works, I have a couple of questions:

Could Becky get her old job back at American Woodmark which probably has health insurance and get Amber on the plan?

The next opening for Obamacare is in November for plans starting in January 2021. Are hospitals allowed or able to forward any medical costs to a later date so that it could be paid by her insurer in 2021?

They're not married

Sometimes docs or dentists will prebill, if they know your insurance is running out, but post-bill for months later insurance you dont have? Never heard of this happening. They do give lower bills for middle man removal when you pay out of pocket at the docs sometimes. Had both mentioned scenarios happen.

Even before this, people were suggesting she get on some state/govt program (rather than buying private insurance or via the maeketplace) I don't see why she had more money coming in than most in the country, for her to play with and buy trinkets ( her right..no problem), but tax payers should have to step in when it's adult time to pay her medical bills. She was very smug about it when people repeatedly asked her why she didnt get any, especially when the getting was good and insurance companies hands were realky being forced.

 

[Landgrave Deryk]

Sad that shes got the c , but shes abused her body endlessly being overweight is known to cause problems
''never gonna happen to me '' - happens

 

[figbatdigger]

Does she have cancer, or does the cancer have her? Wouldn't the cancer cells just get destroyed under her weight?

 

[toilet_rainbow]

I have that ounce of sympathy. My father has grade 4 brain cancer and despite catching it early, glioblastoma forms so quickly that your best bet is to just increase prognosis with surgery and aggressive radiation and chemotherapy. He's not in pain but it's heartbreaking seeing such a bright, spry old man deteriorate so quickly. I wouldn't wish cancer on anyone.

However. Amber had so many chances to get health insurance and the whatnot, being so catty and awful to people that genuinely tried to help her. I wouldn't say she deserved cancer, because she didn't. But her bad decisions are certainly coming back to haunt her now. I think that her cancer has been around for a good while and could've metastasized by now. This is a woman that did not listen or could not listen to her cues. I think it was only detected because of one of her many ER visits, but only when it was too late.

I bet January 2021 in the death pool. I may not be too far off.

 

[Cardboard Box Mountain]

Compile the list of symptoms we've observed over time.
Obesity
Menstrual issues
Acanthosis nigricans
Bruised looking eyes
back pain
Fatigue
UTIs that either recur or don't go away
Huge gross bleed
Abysmal bloodwork.

So though we can't prove right now that she has cancer, looking at all this, it would be unsurprising. While I don't trust Amber to correctly interpret medical findings and don't believe all findings have been concluded, I am disinclined to believe this is fake.