🐱 White girls are fetishizing Black men

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White girls and women are fetishizing Black men in bizarre TikTok videos that include rap songs, comments about physical attributes, and tags like #mytype or #Blackmen.


The Daily Dot reviewed nine videos where white women objectified Black men, including seven on TikTok and two posted by Twitter users calling out the creators.

Most of the videos following the trend have thousands of likes on TikTok.

In a video with almost 4,500 likes, user @ms_k_mc appears makes faces alongside the text “Men I like.” Four options pop up: “White men,” “Asian men,” “Mexican men,” and “Island men.” She uses her fingers to shoot down each of the options before presenting above her the ultimate choice: “Black men” with the heart and fire emojis.


In another video, user @bebegirl0018 says “no” to a running list of ethnicities and races before the option “BLACK MEN??” appears on the screen and she nods in approval. Her video is tagged with #mytype, #blackguys, and #blackmen.

User @halpal__ shared a video with the caption, “WHERE ARE MY DARK CHOCOLATE BOYS” and expressed her preference for “specifically dark chocolate” men.



“Just to clear the air—no, I don’t date white boys,” she says. “I do date mixed boys, I like y’all little caramels okay. Y’all is fine as shit. But if you are chocolate, specifically dark chocolate—baby boy!”
In another video, a user posted the caption, “I fetishize black men what abt it?”


Twitter users called out one woman for fetishizing Black men. A TikTok video shows her saying, “So sweet, wonderful personalities….your kisses and your hugs just hit different … For all my chocolate men out there, who said it was OK to be that fine?”


According to the tweet, the video was uploaded by a TikTok user with a private account.

“Yes my dad is OK with me dating Black guys,” the woman says later in the video.


It’s not clear what prompted the video trend, but people on social media are expressing their issues with the content.

“Stop this trend of fetishizing black men in tiktok,” one Twitter user wrote. “It’s weird and uncomfortable to watch. Just say you like black men and go.”


The fetishization tied up in the #Blackmen TikTok trend is especially problematic given America’s historyof white women—and society at large—using Black men as scapegoats for any criminal activity. In the 19th Century, Black men accused of sexually assaulting white women faced the death penalty, but white men accused of the same did not.

The historical problem has resulted in a psychological syndrome called “Blame a Black Man Syndrome,” according to Psychology Today, wherein either an imaginary Black man or an innocent, existing Black man are accused of a crime. According to psychiatry professor Rob Whitley, men who have been falsely accused of crimes can endure psychological damage “similar to that seen in torture survivors.”
 
Thank you daily dot, very cool.

This stuff isn't really surprising given advertising & media nowadays. Interracial relationships of all types are encouraged & portrayed as if they are every other relationship. It's always gonna feature white people because they make up the majority in Europe & North America. I've lived in the UK & the relationships were usually white/Indian or white/black in adverts there & I currently live in Australia & the adverts are almost always white man/Asian woman.

Just from a quick look there at least as many white men/Asian women couples & videos online about that pairing (and also a surprising amount of Asian men/black women) as white women/black men but people like to make clickbait articles like this because it triggers some folks unlike other pairings.
 
So she's another future single mom? Who cares if she burns coal, thats just a burden on the taxpayer and I don't pay taxes.
 
Why do people get pissed off with being fetishised? I would love to be fetishised, provided whoever doing it was hot.

You're not being fetishised for being you-- you're being fetishised for an innate quality you didn't choose (i.e. race). They don't like you for you, they like you because you're something you didn't accomplish in any capacity.

I was involved with a lady for a number of months who, on one hand, would talk about how she liked qualities particular to me that I cultivated, but on the other hand would also talk about how she liked my particular ethnic attributes and call me her favorite [my ethnic demonym]. Maybe I feel strongly about it because she turned out to be a myopic and selfish person who actually considered our relationship certainly DOA from the start but never informed me of her true intentions until after months of requesting and occasionally usurping my time, energy, and heart, but I find the idea of fetishising such qualities while explicitly or implicitly recognizing them as ethnic rather than individual qualities as somewhat sickening.

It's fine to like how people look because you like how they look. If it happens that an ethnicity shares a fundamental physiognomy (and ergo, you happen to have a general soft spot for this particular ethnicity), so be it, but to repeatedly go on in the open about how you like [insert ethnic feature here] or repeatedly call someone "my [ethnic demonym here]" is almost degrading and certainly tacky.

I think this article quote says it best:

“Stop this trend of fetishizing black men in tiktok,” one Twitter user wrote. “It’s weird and uncomfortable to watch. Just say you like black men and go.”

You don't want to be "fetishised". You want to be seen as attractive. There is a difference.
 
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Oh no, poor black men. I hope they survive these trying times with all the women oppressing them.
 
If white women don't want to fuck black men: ree racism. If white women want to fuck black men: ree fetishizing. If white women want to fuck dogs: ree animal rights. I mean, where does it end?

It’s a sign that white women are officially on the bottom of the progressive stack. For years, white men were told fucking white women is racist, fucking non-white women is fetishization, and if you don’t fuck anyone, you are an incel.
 
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