Love on the farms - I know this shit is corny but i'm interested

will kiwi farms users ever fall in love irl

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zyclonPD dijo:
I guess it's possible, but all studies have shown that the vast majority of relationships and succesfull relationships are normally built with someone from your immediate social circle. You are more likely to meet a partner at a social events such as a wedding or a birthday party who turns out to be a friend of your friend. Finding a fulfilling relationship online is a gamble at best and hides things that will become important later such as quirks that the person has that may cause you to dislike them.

I have attempted online dating before and still to this day any relationship I have had that went on for any length of time or had any meaning resulted from meeting the person irl first. Not saying it's impossible here or some other online community, just saying don't hold your breath.
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From my experience and observations, the men who are autists typically have the most interests in common with tumblr, the shippers and the gothic lolitas. They both like anime, they both like videogames, they both will be into obscure interests.

HOWEVER. You'll find that most of them have different ideas of how the relationship should work. The tumblr girl typically discovers during the relationship, they actually want a traditional b/f take them out to dinners, have a special 1 year anniversary event, and provide for them. Basically they are the trad girl from the 1970's who wrote Kirk/Spock slash, dressed up as a intersectional feminist.

The autist guy fell for the stupid Disney movies and equality propaganda, and believes that if you can find the right one, nothing else really matters, as long as you get along. And they then get blindsided as the weeb tumblr girl suddenly realizes that having a b/f is shit if you aren't a normie trad b/f. And if they want sex they can just jump on Tinder for someone hotter. So she decides to break it off.

I'm sure there are exceptions, but this is what I generally see happening, and reading about.
 
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Medicated dijo:
Yes autism is a dealbreaker for relationships.
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Hmmm I’m not convinced that’s always true. It depends on the form it takes. If you’re decent, can hold down a job, able to pull your weight in a household and have a sense of humour then I think you’d be Ok. The kind that’s basically pedantic sperging isn’t a problem for those of us afflicted similarly :D There are plenty of women out there with no interest in the reality TV /chiselled jaw narcissist type men and who would prefer an utter nerd who shares their love of random pedantry and weird humour. Everyone I know who married the chiselled jock type is now divorced. The nerds are almost all still together. Less ego maybe? Dunno.

Women are forced socially to be nice and amenable which is why autism is often missed in females - they aren’t allowed to act like guys are a lot of the time.
 
Otterly dijo:
Hmmm I’m not convinced that’s always true. It depends on the form it takes. If you’re decent, can hold down a job, able to pull your weight in a household and have a sense of humour then I think you’d be Ok. The kind that’s basically pedantic sperging isn’t a problem for those of us afflicted similarly :biggrin: There are plenty of women out there with no interest in the reality TV /chiselled jaw narcissist type men and who would prefer an utter nerd who shares their love of random pedantry and weird humour. Everyone I know who married the chiselled jock type is now divorced. The nerds are almost all still together. Less ego maybe? Dunno.

Women are forced socially to be nice and amenable which is why autism is often missed in females - they aren’t allowed to act like guys are a lot of the time.
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I'd agree it happens. But I've never seen or read about any that weren't breakups myself. If you weren't diagnosed early on, were shunned and known as the "problem child" for teachers. That person would finish school as nothing but a social outcast.
 
Okkervils dijo:
I don't know, I know quite a few autists who were less than popular in school but flourished in the professional world. Depending on the job you don't always have to be social, just productive and good at what you do.
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How many of them have you banged, you degenerate?
 
Okkervils dijo:
I don't know, I know quite a few autists who were less than popular in school but flourished in the professional world. Depending on the job you don't always have to be social, just productive and good at what you do.
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lol productive? thats 99% of Kiwis out of the running, time to go home boys.

Okkervils dijo:
Can't my affection be cute and innocent? Why do you have to make it dirty?
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Oh so you are the one they based those anime characters on.
 
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