am i a narcissist? 10/03/18 - Well mmhhmm honeybooboo

Ok, I just took this too and I thought I was really fair. I got a 27. Still pretty high.
There is a healthy degree of narcissism, these quizzes tend to not point it out. Having a very low score usually indicates very low self esteem, which is a problem as well. Narcissism as a personality trait is common in a lot of high achieving jobs, it's just one type of flaw that some people find endearing and others don't. It's not the same as having a narcissistic personality, which is pathological and prevents success. Shameless lying is a trait of NPD so online quizzes can't reasonably detect it.
 
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I bet that she is wearing cardigans with dolman sleeves similar to this one. I can see how the arms would fit her (tight), but fit nicely- according to her.
 
Yes, you sentient pile of lard. You make everything about you.
 
Ooh, where was this? I missed the Rafe era. Is it a younow?

I do believe it was on a YouNow. Back when she was doing them almost daily and possibly during the time Becky would drop Amber off at their dungeon to be babysat.

Ver archivo adjunto 558404 I bet that she is wearing cardigans with dolman sleeves similar to this one. I can see how the arms would fit her (tight), but fit nicely- according to her.

This is how it's modeled on Target's site. The state she is wearing a 1X and is 5'9", for context. With Amber being half a foot shorter, it really shouldn't fit like a cropped sweater on her.

And yeah, it seems this hideous thing is nearly sold out online with the only color option available being black.

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There is a healthy degree of narcissism, these quizzes tend to not point it out. Having a very low score usually indicates very low self esteem, which is a problem as well. Narcissism as a personality trait is common in a lot of high achieving jobs, it's just one type of flaw that some people find endearing and others don't. It's not the same as having a narcissistic personality, which is pathological and prevents success. Shameless lying is a trait of NPD so online quizzes can't reasonably detect it.
I’m not convinced she has NPD, similar to reasons you stated, but also that a lot of her personality traits could equally be explained but sociopathy, borderline, or just being an addict. At least, I just don’t get the same vibes as someone like Onision, who I do think has NPD.

Her controlling behavior just doesn’t seem to come from a place of feeling self assured.

Otherwise, video is boring and I don’t really care. You’re 57 pounds away from 600, congratulations.
 
Her controlling behavior just doesn’t seem to come from a place of feeling self assured

But that is precisely why narcs are so controlling. They are terminally insecure. It's the sociopaths who don't have pangs of shame or insecurity. But whatever, it's useless to try and analyze her over the internet. Too many of the symptoms overlap and we don't see the whole truth with her, ever.
 
So, in throwing out everything she knows about dieting she's going to.... do exactly the same thing.

Track calories (at an unrealistic goal level for her past behaviour)
Drink water (occasionally diet soda)
Track all food (which she hasn't been able to do consistently or without lowballing servings) and time she ate.
Track daily weight fluctuations
Track feelings and thoughts
Plan ahead when she can
Track steps daily
Moderation without sabotage.

I give her approximately 0.02 seconds before that all becomes too much for her considering she previously felt simply tracking calories was too much. I'm not worried about 1500 being too little, for someone of her height that would be perfectly fine and it's not like she hasn't got fat stores to dig into, but I don't think for a second she'll be able to do it.

The one genuine thing I can say here is that I actually think her tracking the times she eats could be useful provided she does something productive with the information. I would hope the shock of exactly how much she consumes int the wee hours would lead her to consider and make changes, but given that she's currently sitting at 543 I'm not hopeful for shock as a motivator.

But she did write it down in a journal y'all! Zachary will be so pleased..
 
So, in throwing out everything she knows about dieting she's going to.... do exactly the same thing.

Track calories (at an unrealistic goal level for her past behaviour)
Drink water (occasionally diet soda)
Track all food (which she hasn't been able to do consistently or without lowballing servings) and time she ate.
Track daily weight fluctuations
Track feelings and thoughts
Plan ahead when she can
Track steps daily
Moderation without sabotage.

I give her approximately 0.02 seconds before that all becomes too much for her considering she previously felt simply tracking calories was too much. I'm not worried about 1500 being too little, for someone of her height that would be perfectly fine and it's not like she hasn't got fat stores to dig into, but I don't think for a second she'll be able to do it.

The one genuine thing I can say here is that I actually think her tracking the times she eats could be useful provided she does something productive with the information. I would hope the shock of exactly how much she consumes int the wee hours would lead her to consider and make changes, but given that she's currently sitting at 543 I'm not hopeful for shock as a motivator.

But she did write it down in a journal y'all! Zachary will be so pleased..

I would just give up if I were her, what's there to even look forward to in her life besides 1200 calories of sushi? Her "fans" aren't real, she has no talents or aspirations and no family/animals that actually give a shit about her.
 
So, in throwing out everything she knows about dieting she's going to.... do exactly the same thing.

Track calories (at an unrealistic goal level for her past behaviour)
Drink water (occasionally diet soda)
Track all food (which she hasn't been able to do consistently or without lowballing servings) and time she ate.
Track daily weight fluctuations
Track feelings and thoughts
Plan ahead when she can
Track steps daily
Moderation without sabotage.

I give her approximately 0.02 seconds before that all becomes too much for her considering she previously felt simply tracking calories was too much. I'm not worried about 1500 being too little, for someone of her height that would be perfectly fine and it's not like she hasn't got fat stores to dig into, but I don't think for a second she'll be able to do it.

The one genuine thing I can say here is that I actually think her tracking the times she eats could be useful provided she does something productive with the information. I would hope the shock of exactly how much she consumes int the wee hours would lead her to consider and make changes, but given that she's currently sitting at 543 I'm not hopeful for shock as a motivator.

But she did write it down in a journal y'all! Zachary will be so pleased..
I mean she said it herself "you guys know... me and goals... I do nothing but fail"
and at 1500 she'd be fine but experience some real hunger pains which she probably hasnt experienced in im assuming a longgg time.

ps: watching the michael kors part makes me just feel confusion, like is it supposed to be funny or ironic or a classic Becky underhanded jab at AL and excessive branding?
Becky: "even my choochie is gucci"... jesus christ i wanna shootie myself with a shotty.
 
Planning "when I can" is particularly stupid. How do you intend to stick to a calorie limit if you have no idea what you're going to eat?

Amberlynn has all the time in the world to plan meals and prep them (she has no job); she has a butch butler who will take her anywhere at anytime; and she has the money to buy whatever groceries she wants.

She could plan every meal down to the goddamn bite. What is this "plan when I can" bullshit? This is why you fail over and over and over fat AL.
 
I bet AL is the same person who takes those idiotic quizzes like: I BET WE CAN GUESS YOUR FAVORITE COLOR and shit like that.
Not to mention lol @ her thinking that narcs would EVER admit to being narcs.
 
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