Women who quit dating and are single , what are your reasons?

[Coffee Druid]

I think the short answer for me is that I have very high standards. They're not even entirely intentional. In physical terms, the men I find myself attracted to are VERY few and far between. Sometimes I wonder if that's just normal, or if my brain is just incredibly picky. I'm not even into model types or hunky conventionally attractive dudes. Just...average or kinda fit guys that take care of themselves and have a good face. Preferably with long hair. Sometimes I actually wish I was attracted to more people, just so I could at least enjoy some more eye candy once in awhile. But I digress.

Beyond looks an attractive personality is a must, obviously. I don't get out much and I find it pretty hard to find social outlets or "third spaces" to just hang out and find people (platonically or romantically). I can go to music shows or other events where there are higher chances of people with similar interests to be. But I suck at socializing or starting to talk to people. Dating apps are stupid in my opinion. I did get the occasional likes, but all of them make you pay to even know who. And none of them are my type. I've actually had some luck with "friend" versions and made a couple friends based on mutual interests.

Another point is that I don't even know if I'm anyone's type. Maybe it's because I don't go out as much as I want to, or I'm just a solid 5.5/10, or I look unapproachable, but I never get hit on or have people even try to talk to me. I also don't get insults either. So I have no idea what I appear like to other people. I just try to work on myself and take care of my own shit. I figure if I really do have high standards, I might as well uphold them with myself first if I expect them with others. I'd rather be on my own then ALSO have to take care of someone else who is lazy or whatnot.

 

[Roast Chicken]

I tried a couple of people but it's apparent I have a shit taste in men. I chased around trying to effectively mother a gearcase who I also shared a bed with.

Speaking of sleep, I basically can't sleep next to anyone - it's annoying to him because I get up several times to piss (overactive bladder) before going to sleep and he dies the annoying thing called snoring/breathing which I can't stand or fall asleep next to. I seem to have some intolerance for noise trying to get to sleep.

I am also afraid of being judged or expected to improve myself by a partner who may be better than me so I don't try because I know either he or I will likely separate or he'll become distant an apathetic which would be far worse. I don't really have any notable talents.

 

[Nique la mere de Macron]

The men where you live must be a hell of a lot better than the men where I live, because I, a person who doesn't have the best self-confidence, have NEVER ONCE worried that any of the crusty, dusty, hobosexual bums living in my town were better than me in any way, shape, or form. Indeed, my problem is the opposite!

 

[Xanax and Wine]

I'm at the old end of Gen Z so most single men are just not people I want to hang out with on the regular. The last two relationships I was in the guys had some serious issues involving porn addiction, being terminally online, were emotionally immature, had low opinions of women (one once dropped speaking points from Andrew Tate) and I could tell they weren't imagining an actual future with me or potential kids. They were just interested in a mom-fuckhole-housemaid hybrid to service them while they play video games all day. I don't want to imply all guys are like that but those experiences have soured my opinion of relationships a lot.

Also I take pride in my career and value my own personal freedom to do what I want so being in relationships always made me feel trapped and stressed to the point of delevoping actual burnout. Not blaming the dudes for that one that's just me being egoistical. I think it's just not meant to be. I find more joy in good friends than in romantic relationships.

 

[bourne-again]

I'm at the old end of Gen Z so most single men are just not people I want to hang out with on the regular. The last two relationships I was in the guys had some serious issues involving porn addiction, being terminally online, were emotionally immature, had low opinions of women (one once dropped speaking points from Andrew Tate) and I could tell they weren't imagining an actual future with me or potential kids. They were just interested in a mom-fuckhole-housemaid hybrid to service them while they play video games all day. I don't want to imply all guys are like that but those experiences have soured my opinion of relationships a lot.

Also I take pride in my career and value my own personal freedom to do what I want so being in relationships always made me feel trapped and stressed to the point of delevoping actual burnout. Not blaming the dudes for that one that's just me being egoistical. I think it's just not meant to be. I find more joy in good friends than in romantic relationships.

This is exactly how I feel. I don't want to write off relationships completely, it is fun to love and be loved. But the average man in my city is boring, uneducated, dealing with some addiction, etc. I don't want to tolerate another porn + video game addicted man that doesn't understand words larger than 3 syllables. I'm also at the old end of Gen Z and just gave up with men my age. I want a smart older man with his shit together and has hobbies outside of video games, gambling, and sports.

It is just not worth it anymore. I also recognize that I have peculiar tastes and I'm not attracted to most men my age. They have such soft features now; very out of shape?

 

[AbsurdumRideo]

Idk having been burnt ( figuratively and literally) by this man kinda keeps me from getting serious with other dudes. It’s complicated , but I’m not totally opposed to dating again. Just not what I need right now

 

[MaleLonelinessEpidemic]

You wouldn't ask this to a scrote, would you?

 

[DSHK]

This is exactly how I feel. I don't want to write off relationships completely, it is fun to love and be loved. But the average man in my city is boring, uneducated, dealing with some addiction, etc. I don't want to tolerate another porn + video game addicted man that doesn't understand words larger than 3 syllables. I'm also at the old end of Gen Z and just gave up with men my age. I want a smart older man with his shit together and has hobbies outside of video games, gambling, and sports.

It is just not worth it anymore. I also recognize that I have peculiar tastes and I'm not attracted to most men my age. They have such soft features now; very out of shape?

Like most women you just ignore/reject the ones that meet your criteria. Im 26 and I am an engineering student. I haven't played video games since middle school and my hobbies are fixing gas turbines, music production, classic cars, retro computers and guns.

 

[Smokeski]

Most women I've met who told me why they are single it really comes down to vaginal ph levels. Like wild outliers. I think it comes into embarrassment because when they take off their yoga pants you can smell them from upstairs. Is this all women? Likely not. But my professional feminist estimate is that about 95% of females who are single are single because vaginal scent problems or recurring severe yeast infections.

 

[netkiwimoongladewave]

Most women I've met who told me why they are single it really comes down to vaginal ph levels. Like wild outliers. I think it comes into embarrassment because when they take off their yoga pants you can smell them from upstairs. Is this all women? Likely not. But my professional feminist estimate is that about 95% of females who are single are single because vaginal scent problems or recurring severe yeast infections.

I don't want to embarrass you for your lack of knowledge of female biology, I try not to make fun of people for not knowing things, especially not men, you're just one of today's ten thousand.

The female body has evolved unique characteristics not found in the male body. What you're encountering is the female body's specialised ability to generate organosulfur compounds. You see, the female body releases a mixture of (E)-2-butene-1-thiol, 3-methyl-1-butanethiol, and 2-phenylethanethiol compounds when it detects the presence of a predator. Known as stench compounds, the smell is one of the most important safety mechanisms the modern female body has. You are probably most familiar with this biological mechanism in the skunk.

So, what you're actually describing isn't bad vagina health, it is the female body's highly evolved defence mechanism that accurately identifies you as a predator. The fact that you are encountering it so often speaks to just how much of a dangerous predator you are. And it's working! The women stay single, free from your clutches. God bless the female body.

 

[2mm and 99 others]

yoga pants

Found the culprit.
I mean, in case you mean something like these:

Private parts aren't to be confined in tight polyester. Polyamide (nylon) underwear should go in trash too. It does a similar thing as in armpit - traps bacteria and such within the thread structure, so those can survive washing, and that's bad enough already, people get ugly rashes from it. The older the garment is, the worse.

 

[crazedaze]

I avoid all threads that have women posting in them. They kill my buzz. I avoid women in real life. And i was lucky in my line of work of not having to deal with any women. I used to date them, but they gave me literal cooties. So if i find out a user is a woman, i typically put them on ignore as to not ruin my immersion. The old adage "there are no women on the internet" used to be true, but the time it came from used to be the golden age. Now all they talk about is periods and tampons.

It's funny because he's proven everything he said here a lie, by inserting himself into a thread that have women posting in it and all he wants to talk about is pussy shit.
The lengths men will go to to avoid admitting they simply enjoy sucking cock for dick

 

[YautjaWeeb]

I think it comes into embarrassment because when they take off their yoga pants you can smell them from upstairs. Is this all women? Likely not.

Found the culprit.
I mean, in case you mean something like these:

Private parts aren't to be confined in tight polyester. Polyamide (nylon) underwear should go in trash too. It does a similar thing as in armpit - traps bacteria and such within the thread structure, so those can survive washing, and that's bad enough already, people get ugly rashes from it. The older the garment is, the worse.

What sort of fabrics do you recommend to get 3 story's worth of stank? Sometimes I feel like 2 story's worth just isn't enough and it's like she isn't even trying anymore.

 

[YHWH's Strongest Soldier]

my hobbies are fixing gas turbines, music production, classic cars, retro computers and guns.

There's a gay guy somewhere that would be really into that. Wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.

 

[DSHK]

There's a gay guy somewhere that would be really into that. Wish you the best of luck in your endeavors.

And there's a butch lesbian out there who shares your love of cats, box wine and feminism.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Found the culprit.
I mean, in case you mean something like these:

Ver archivo adjunto 9235476
Private parts aren't to be confined in tight polyester. Polyamide (nylon) underwear should go in trash too. It does a similar thing as in armpit - traps bacteria and such within the thread structure, so those can survive washing, and that's bad enough already, people get ugly rashes from it. The older the garment is, the worse.

Great! You've now just given leave for thousands of autists to believe any woman wearing standard exercise gear is unhealthy and stinky. They won't be able to verify this, of course (reasons both of access and accuracy), but they will be 100% certain of it nonetheless.

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Great! You've now just given leave for thousands of autists to believe any woman wearing standard exercise gear is unhealthy and stinky. They won't be able to verify this, of course (reasons both of access and accuracy), but they will be 100% certain of it nonetheless.

I did not think this through, my bad and I am sorry. However, my hate for certain synthetic fabrics worn all day outside sport activities stays. Heatwaves of these years made me a fabrics sperg.

 

[Fascist Ferret]

Like most women

have you thought about how the women you meet can tell that you feel this way about women? basically guilty until proven innocent...

 

[bourne-again]

Like most women you just ignore/reject the ones that meet your criteria. Im 26 and I am an engineering student. I haven't played video games since middle school and my hobbies are fixing gas turbines, music production, classic cars, retro computers and guns.

I would reject you because you are too young for me, lol. Those are good hobbies though.

 

[DSHK]

have you thought about how the women you meet can tell that you feel this way about women? basically guilty until proven innocent...

Yes, which is why I make sure to not reveal that fact. I do in fact have female friends so I must be pretty good at keeping it hidden. I just don't want to date any of them, plus most of them are married.

I would reject you because you are too young for me, lol. Those are good hobbies though.

Really expensive though.