Selecting a Victim
Most aspiring transmisogynistic harassers will seek out the art due to aparticular trans girl in mind who annoys them in some way. Maybe shestarted acting Weird, maybe you're just vehemently against herholding any power over you, maybe she just disagreed with you on aship. Whatever your reasoning is, it does not matter much to yourattempts at life destruction beyond what talking points you can farmout of your grudge. If, however, you are the sort of amoral sadistwho would seek to destroy a trans girl's life without even the remotejustification of a petty grudge purely out of some fucked up sense ofpower, then it would do well to select a victim that will be morevulnerable to your attempts.
With a deft manipulative hand, these tactics can work against most anytrans girl you'd seek to upend, however, those who have pastexperience with attempts against them will be better equipped tohandle your attacks. It's best to seek a victim who is ignorant ofthe modes of transmisogyny, especiallyif you are specifically attacking her in a
spacethat has no past experience repelling similar attempts. The numberone way a victim might be able to fight back against your attempts toslander her is knowing the true intentions and methods of what youare doing to her, and you cannot let this be common knowledge if youwant success in your endeavors.
Multiply-marginalized trans girls are
especiallypotent victims, as people are primed to cast away those further fromthe societal "norm" of experience, which trans girls areinherently already far beyond. For example, a neurodivergent transgirl in one way or another is a
perfectvictim, especially if her neurodivergences manifest in a way thatmakes her ambiguously Weird. Many communities are always
itchingat the chance to shove away their weirdest members, and you can levythis to your abuse's advantage with very little effort if you pickyour victims carefully. The cluster B types are especially vulnerableto this, as if your victim has ever lashed out or split on someone,you can lean into people's preconceived ideas of "narcissists"or "anti-social" people being Inherently Evil to layer oneven
more attacks onyour victim.
Consider also picking a trans girl you can double up on lightly-disguisedracist tirades against, as with only the
barestveiling most people are willing to jump on racial minorities seen as"uppity" faster than you can blink, doubly so for the transgirls that are your victims. In more physical communities, you canleverage disability to
terrifyingeffect with your amoral tirades. Sprinkle on implications of yourvictim being a "burden" in some way or another, and you canget people to cast her aside without even having to step foot intothe more difficult lanes of attack.
But even for a "less marginalized" trans girl, while it mighttake some more work, you can turn the very same mechanisms you'd useagainst multiply-marginalized victims as excuses for your lessmarginalized victims. Don't worry about the hypocrisy, you're here todestroy an innocent victim's life, you threw that morality out thewindow as soon as you started.It takes some more searching, but if you can just find something totake out of context to frame your victim as exactly the same kind ofbigot that you're willing to be, she can be an even
easiervictim than the ones mentioned before, as you can borrow a page fromthe fascist playbook and turn the language of social justice againstthe very people it was created to aid. Hell, working to frame your
victim as enacting thevery same transmisogyny you're trying to ruin
herlife with is one of the most effective approaches, as you can get thevery beings who might protect her on your side if you play your cardsright.
Mode of Attack
At this point, you've decided on your victim and are actively trying to figure out how to start. Thefirst step is merely to have patience. If you want to actually makeyour life destruction
stick, you need to wait for the rightmoment to strike the iron. If you don't have what it takes to be ableto wait her out without your conscience getting to you, you don'thave what it takes to destroy a life.
Secondly, of course, you need to decide on a mode of attack, the two major categories of which I'dclassify as "Flash Flare" and "Slow Burn." Thisdecision must be made early and, critically,
must be stuck to.Backing off on one and flip-flopping in the middle can kill yourlegitimacy at attempts of
either. It can very clearly revealyour hand beyond the veil of "just asking questions" if youcannot stick to a specific plan, and can drive the allies you
needon your side away if they start to realize that they're the baddies.
Flash Flare / Callout Post
For the aspiring abuser who has less confidence in their own patience, a hard, fast strike out of theblue is probably the best course of action. This method, too,benefits from patience, but that certainly doesn't mean it can't beattempted at any time, just that it may be far easier if you wait fora perfect moment to strike.
The main factor of going for a fast and hard strike is finding some Controversial point to grow aharassment mob around. Maybe your victim said something you canship-of-Theseus into sounding racist, maybe she chose to associatewith someone already considered "problematic", maybe sheeven just posted about some sort of kink or sexuality and you'regonna bend that into her being a rapist or a pedophile. The lastapproach works best of all of these, as society is always primed tosee trans girls as pedophiles; the TERFs already did the work for youon that front. But even if any sexual allegations aren't yourcenterpiece seed, they can do
wonders as an extra spice, aperfect excuse for "if you support my victim against me, you'resupporting pedophilia" attacks.
Of course, pedophilia isn't the only thing you can kill a trans girl with by the accusation, you cantake special advantage of people being extra willing to attribute
anywrongdoing to a trans girl. She made a comment against prisons once?You can frame her as a fascist sympathizer based on "but thefascists should go too!" and
no one will check! You don'teven have to have any vague remote excuse, just making 'evidence' upfor your crusade is a beautiful way to stack on the hatred, andpulling accusations from every category helps solidify youraccusation of your victim as Inherently Sinful, like society alreadyprimes everyone to want to do to any trans girl they see. That lastpoint is one of the most crucial here, if you want this to stick,leaning into christian sin culture helps a lot, as framing yourvictim as "unclean" in some way or another is a perfect wayto isolate her.
Regardless, once you find some seed, composed of as many vaguely Controversial things as you canfind or create, now is time for the actual strike. As mentioned, thisdoes well to have patience on, as a more
recent bout ofControversy around your victim will make people less suspicious ofyour motives. You can certainly drop the callout post bomb on her atany point, but if you do it at any random time, it is far easier foryour victim to call attention to "why are you drudging up pastgrudges out of the blue". This is, of course,
exactlywhat you are doing, and you do not, under any circumstances, wantpeople to realize that.
Once you have dropped this callout post bomb, you do, of course, have to defend it. Transmisogyny is apowerful force to pull upon, but it usually isn't easy enough to justdo only
one attack. For one, try and get yourself a coupleallies who are willing to amplify your attacks. They need notactually know your more sinister intentions, arguably they're even
more effective if they think they're doing actual justice. Oneway to try to get allies on your side is to encourage everyone nearyour victim to abandon her, lest they be just as "problematic"as you've claimed she is. If your victim is in some relative positionof power (say a moderator role or even mild informal socialinfluence), you can also try and build up a martyr narrative of herbeing the
real attacker here. Make appeals to some "silentmajority" that supports you and are oppressed by your victim, nomatter how fake or nonexistent any "silent support" may be.No matter what resistance any of your victim's support network gives,stick to it ardently, build up a whole small
movement if youcan. Hell, try and get a harassment forum to join you if you're
really confident.
Of course, most importantly of all is to stick to it, lest you compromise your own credibility evenfurther. No matter what consequences this has on your own network, nomatter any quibbles your conscience may have about hurting people, nomatter how evil you feel, if you want to destroy your victim's life,you have to stick to it to the end. Don't give up the fight, don'tgive up the attack, until you've either won and she's been driven outto probably kill herself from your actions, or until you've beendriven out instead for your harassment. You weren't ever going to beable to do your intended life destruction without putting your socialstanding somewhat at risk, so that's the consequences of failure, andcutting your losses will make you even
less trustworthy if youmake any future attempts.
Slow Burn / Whisper Networks
Of course, if you have a lot
more patience, and don't mind it taking a while to
truly destroyyour victim's life, taking a slower approach puts you personally atfar less risk and can be far
more effective. While attackingher in the long term from the shadows, you can push a lot more subtleand sinister points against your victim without having as muchpotential for her to push back against you.
The most important thing to focus on with a slow burn approach is knowing that you
cannot pull itoff alone. Assembling a whisper network is required, as without agroup of collaborators, a single person spreading rumors barely haslegitimacy, even for the vulnerability of trans girls. Therecruitment for this is necessarily a slow process, one that requireswaiting for opportunities. Perhaps someone you see has suddenlypicked up a grudge against your victim and you can pull them in withyour own ammo to turning that into full-blown hatred. Disgruntledex-partners of your victim are brilliant for this, as it's very easyto convince them that "we weren't good partners for each other"is the same thing as "she is inherently abusive and I need toget rid of her." Play up the pain of your allies-in-recruitment,no matter how petty, and try and direct it towards desiring harm ofyour victim.
Of course, your allies don't
just have to be those with personal grudges. Many communities haveself-ascribed "anti-pedophile crusaders," and these are a
valuable resource considering how easy it is to make someonesee a trans girl as a sex criminal. Recruit them by leaning into anarrative of how your victim "protects pedophiles in<community>," which works
especially well in fandomspaces with the presence of their "anti" faction. If youconstruct a narrative of your victim puppeting the community frombehind the scenes, you can lean right into the fascist playbook ofportraying your vulnerable victim as the puppetmaster.
Assembling your allies together is a slow process, but as you do that, it gives you more power to levystronger influence. You can, for one, subtly encourage your allies toslowly push away your victim, start slowly excluding her. Trans girlvictims are often very liable to blame themselves if people aredriven away from them, so if you play your cards right, your victimwon't even notice if people slowly start abandoning her on your oryour allies' urging. In order to get this sort of thing to stick,it's important to lean into the "just asking questions"nature, to hide the full extent of what you're doing. You're not"smearing a trans girl as a pedophile", you're Just AskingQuestions about the "Problematic" things she's up to. Thefascists often speak of "hiding their power level" in theirrhetoric, in order to convince people who might not be as on boardwith the
open evil, and you'd be wise to take their lead tokeep allies who might think they're still doing justice on your side.
Of course, if someone
else ends up attempting some sort of callout post against your victimindependent of your little whisper network of attack, which for amore famous trans girl is more likely than you'd think, you canincorporate this into your attacks. Be just one more person signalboosting the claims, subtly levy your already long-prepared whispernetwork to lean into "she was already Problematic, and now shedoes this? why are you still friends with her," but don't
fullylean into the flash flare at the cost of your whisper network. If thecallout post fails, you want to still have a whisper networkmaintained even with your open attacks on your victim, now armed withnew ammo of whatever was drudged up for you by someone else.
A whisper network is very much the long game, and it can take
yearsfor it to see full effect, but the way it can make your lifedestruction
stickis unmatched. Slowly isolating your victim from any support andslowly convincing those around her to drop her as a friend tends tostick far harder after you let your maintenance fade. After all,someone who abandoned your victim in a flash flare of passion at thecallout calling her Evil might repair it, but someone who you'vecaused to naturally drift away from your victim might never
wantto repair it. Your isolation can be complete if you play the longgame, and likely drive your victim to take her own life from theloneliness, at very little risk to yourself.
Ammunition and Justification
Now that you've decided on how exactly you're going to go about destroying your victim's life andlikely driving her to suicide, you have to actually collect yourammunition to put your plan into action. No matter if you're goingfor a slow-burn or a quick huge callout post, you have to actuallyhave justification for your irrational hatred of your victim, or elseno one else is going to go along with you easily. It certainly doesnot have to be
true, but it definitely functions better if youcan ground it in something people are willing to believe.
As mentioned previously, society already has everyone you're going to try and recruit primed to viewtrans girls as sexual abusers in hiding, so accusations of sex crimeswill function perfectly to discredit your victim. You'd do well tofind some seed you can frame into an allegation of sexual assault orgrooming to start with, as that is going to be the easiest one to getgoing. Perhaps your victim has a disgruntled ex who you can convinceof their false victimhood, or perhaps your victim once talked to aminor who you can convince that they were groomed. However it is,while it
helps to have a supposed "victim" of yourvictim to justify your attacks, you certainly don't
needsomeone real. A vague "multiple people have told me she abusedthem" can go a long way, as the vagueness makes it nighimpossible to fact check, and casts doubt on anything your victimsays against your attacks, as you can frame her own retaliation asabuse
itself.
Of course, you don't even need even a
made-up "victim" to accuse your trans girlvictim of sexual impropriety. If your victim is into any sexuality atall, she's likely to have some kink or another that is vaguelyControversial enough to accuse her on. Never mind that it's betweenconsenting adults, if you frame it as
thoughtcrime, if youframe it as
sin, it's very difficult for your victim toactually defend against it. One particularly effective mode to attackwith is any caregiver/little dynamics your victim might be into, asit is very easy to twist "your victim likes diapers" into"your victim likes fucking children" as a ship-of-Theseusargument. Targeting littleness works especially well because it is akink that usually comes from parental abuse that manifests into fawntrauma, and you can take advantage of your victim's trauma making hertry to appease anyone that hurts her to neutralize any ability shehas to fight back.
While littleness is one of the
best targets to base accusations of sexual abuse on, basically
any kink can work well enough for that. If she draws CNC youcan call her a "secret rapist," if she's into petplay youcan call her a "zoophile", if she's into gore orsadomasochism you can claim she's physically abusive. Hell, you canget the antis on your side if she merely ships the wrong characterstogether or likes a "bad" character, as they're all too willing to join at the
hint ofanything like that they can attack someone for. Literally any kink orsexuality can be twisted into a slight against your victim, and thisworks very well for your attacks so that they may pull at thegroundwork the fascists already set out for you.
Of course, while attacking your victim's sexuality might be almost the perfect platter of ability toattack, there's many,
many other modes of attack you can take.For example, if your victim picked up some new religion of somevariety, something she's excited for and found very important, it is
trivial to frame her as an abusive cultist for enthusing aboutit. Remember from before, communities are usually itching to get ridof their ambiguously Weirdest members, and "she's an abusivecultist trying to convert you" puts words to any subtle ableistdiscomforts they might already have with your victim'sneurodivergences.
Maybe your victim made some bad political take at some point, or at least something that can betwisted
into a bad take. Lean into the bad-faith readings,frame anything that isn't explicitly including everyone as inherentlyracist somehow. People are always itching for some excuse to see awhite trans girl as basically the same as a white cis man, lean intothat by degendering your references, call her "they/them"no matter her pronoun preferences. If you can take away the immediateperception of your victim as a trans girl, you can hide the blatanttransphobia of your attacks in the padding of the language. If yourvictim is white, emphasize that, call her inherently racist, leaninto any little thing that can be framed in bad faith as not beinggood enough.
Of course, this all applies reciprocally for if you are attempting a transmisogynoir against aPOC trans girl. You can lean into racist caricatures about violence,as people are always
very willing to see someone they canconsider as a black man as a feral violent murderer waiting tohappen. Mix in transphobic anxieties about "invading women'sspaces," and you can double up on the accusations of sexualimpropriety from before, as people are even
more willing tosee a POC trans girl as a rapist on flimsy evidence.
Really, literally
anything you can imagine
anyone having any conceivable level of problemwith can be reframed into your victim having committed someunforgivable sin only solvable by exile. Get creative, try differentmodes of attack depending on what communities you are attacking yourvictim is in, learn from what has or hasn't worked in the past (whichis, of course, another benefit of a slow-burn approach). If you leaninto it enough, anything can work for your desired life destruction,as people are
itching to get rid of trans girls in the firstplace, and at its core, you can tap into that with
anything.
Failure Modes
Now, of course, the level of complete life destruction you are attempting is absolutely
notwithout risks, and there are many common failure modes your attemptson your victim's life might fall into. Especially notable is yourattempts backfiring and getting
you purged from communityinstead, which is a risk you have to account for if you really wantto go for your attacks. No matter what, this is your doing, this iswhat you signed on for when you started going after your victim, andflailing around in your loss is likely to make you look more patheticto any other communities you might try and move to attack after yourfailure.
The most obvious risk is your victim catching wind of your blatant attempts at destroying her life,and warning those around her not to trust you. This can be
supremelydifficult to evade, which is why it was strongly suggested to try andchoose a victim who is less aware of the modes of transmisogyny youare using to attack her. With a deft hand and a slow burn approach,you can still manage it, as people are more likely to be wary of acallout post than a Just Asking Questions whisper network, but if youplay your cards wrong, it is
very likely to backfire andattack your attempts specifically, even bolstering your victim in theprocess and making it harder for any others (or you under a newalias) to come in and try again.
The other failure mode, and one that is less obvious from the outset, is your set of collaboratorscollapsing into infighting. Those who think they are doing actualjustice rather than merely destroying an innocent victim's life arevery primed to jump at shadows, and any of your allies doingsomething they consider Problematic is liable to have your groupcollapse under internally-targeted callouts. This can be avoided bytrying to prevent your collaborators from getting close enough to
notice anything they might be upset by, in the same mode as anabusive cult preventing its victims from comparing notes. However,this kind of thing can overall be
supremely hard to prevent ifyou're not strongly careful, and I'd strongly recommend caution andadaptability to any specific circumstances accordingly.
Conclusion
If you've followed these steps well and wielded your own charisma against a trans girl, you haveprobably succeeded in your life destruction! Your victim is probablyhomeless, dead, or both, completely shredded from community by yourharassment campaign to get rid of someone you're scared of for noother reason than her being an Uppity minority who you didn't likebeing around you! Good job! I hope you're proud of yourself! Time tomove onto the next victim, as at this point, I suspect you have ataste for the blood of the innocent, for which you can start thisguide again and repeat ad nauseam until you get bored or exhaust yourcredibility.
Congratulations, you destroyed an innocent life! Well done! I hope you're happy with yourself.