"Clearly don't want to observe the world." Couldn't it be that women don't want to spend all that time in college because they have to take care of their families, or don't have the money or that even if they do, retards like him won't take them seriously, so why even bother?
This coming from the sex that genuinely, wholly believes that all women are born wanting to have children and serve men. This coming from the sex that truly believes strippers love them. What limp-dicked projection.
Now onto this bitch nigga father:
I have no problem being a kind and loving father,
Yes, you do.
the problem is only that I do not enjoy it.
Bingo. You do absolutely have a problem being a kind and loving father.
It's not that I'm trying to maximize my personal pleasure;
You most certainly are and you contradict yourself several times in this post, as evidenced below, that reveal your true nature.
if I have to watch them or entertain them for more than about 10 minutes my blood starts to boil. I just want to be working, or accomplishing something.
See? You
do want to maximize your personal pleasure
at the expense of your children's childhood and formative years.
I just don't want to be there
And yet you have "no problem" being a "kind" and "loving" father.
I know that when he is a teenager, I'll long to have these days back.
My son turned ten just the other day
He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on, let's play.
Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today
I got a lot to do" he said, "That's okay"
And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah
You know, I'm gonna be like him"
I've long since retired and my son's moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time"
"You see, my new job's a hassle and the kids got the flu
But it's sure nice talking to you, dad
It's been sure nice talking to you"
And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me
He'd grown up just like me
My boy was just like me
nothing fixes me emotionally.
You're gonna be one of those guys who believes cheating with a much younger woman will revitalize you. I'm sure your wife and children will look forward to hearing your bullshit justifications about why you have to move in with KayLeigh and abandon them totally after having dragged out your sham fatherhood act for another decade.
Yes, you are. Now do the right thing and [REDACTED] so that your children can know true and compassionate, patient love. Love that actually shows the fuck up in their lives.
is my feeling within a certain range of historically normal and it's modern parenting norms that are off?
Men love trying to appeal to historical accounts to explain their own miserable failures as humans, fathers, husbands, whatever. What does it mean to be "historically normal"? What is "historically normal" about how children largely went without knowing their fathers? Fathers had
real jobs back then and didn't spend their time bitching on Twitter and listening to rapist half-breed niggers like Scam-drew Taint.
That's not even an accurate depiction of fatherhood and family dynamic. Look at Mr. Ingalls from the
Little House on the Prairie memoir novels from Laura Ingalls Wilder. Wilder talked glowingly of her father, always mentioned his presence, his support, his love, his sacrifices.
The majority of men are failures who genuinely do not want to develop relationships with their children because they cannot admit that they never actually wanted children--just the status symbol of reproduction. Shame on them and shame on this festering wound of a "father." I hope his children grow up to realize what a sorry, selfish loser he is and are greeted by the world with the love their father never game them, love which he wouldn't even spare
a few hours on them. Spending more time bitching and whining on Twitter to other dysfunctional moids seeking validation while his child plays alone during his most formative years.