The video starts with clips of Becky as a baby with audio from the livestream era where Amber is telling Becky she wants to hurt her as much as Becky hurt her by breaking up with her.
Next, Mr. Snowflake has a segment all about himself. He inserts a clip of himself from 2022 when he made his first videos sympathizing with Amber, being an Ambaby, spends time talking about the livestream era changing his mind, and what made him rip up his Ambaby shirt he had made in support of Amber.
It felt lowkey ego-driven to make an entire segment of the video about himself, but whatever. Moving on.
Snowflake talks in detail about Becky's sexuality.
Snowflake: "Beck always struggled with self-doubt. Not just about their drawing, but who they were."
Shows Becky's drawings and it's........
I can see why she struggles with self-doubt. It's fine as a hobby, but the video makes this art the same importance as Becky's sexuality.
Becky: "I'm a girl. I'm supposed to like boys. When I was finally in my late teens, I was able to come to terms I'm a lesbian."
Lots of talk about how Becky is a nonbinary genderblob now.
Becky: "I go to Fall Academy. And that's where I meet my first boyfriend."
Imagine being this guy and stumbling upon this video. You get to witness what one of your exes went through after you two broke up.
About Becky's first girlfriend, Becky says, "I fell in love with her so quick. SO QUICK. It was ridiculous."
So Amber quick. Got it.
Becky and her first girlfriend broke up because their relationship was secret and the pressure to keep it secret was so intense that it broke apart the relationship. Becky said she felt alone in her grief because she couldn't talk to her parents or siblings about the breakup due to the family being religious.
This next part is weird. Mr. Snowflake says Becky wasn't able to confide in any adult about this relationship, so
she confided in her 2-year old nephew instead.
Snowflake: "Though Beck felt alone, they found themself able to confide in an unlikely person: Their 2-year old nephew Shawn."
She CONFIDED in a 2 year old about her romantic/sexual relationship troubles??? ... okay.
Beck: "Shawn was my best friend."
A 2 year old?
Becky's mom found Becky's love letters to her girlfriend, and confronted her. The mom didn't accept Becky at first, but eventually came around. Clip of Becky talking about how loving and giving her mom is and how Becky's mom is her best friend. What I'm getting is Becky grew up very lonely. Earlier in the video, it talked about how Becky was very shy throughout school. So Becky is socially awkward, has difficulty finding friends, and considers anyone who talks to her (even a 2-year old) a best friend.
Becky: "My first girlfriend wanted to be with a man so we broke up."
I'm unsure if this "first girlfriend" is the girlfriend who broke up because the pressure of keeping their relationship secret killed the relationship or if this is a second "first girlfriend."
Becky: "The next girlfriend had the boyfriend and ended up choosing him in the end."
Wait the next girlfriend already had a boyfriend when Becky started dating her? So Becky was a side piece? She was the Amberlynn to an Erica?
Becky: "The third one cheated on me in the parking lot with a dude."
The need to mention the cheating happened specifically in a parking lot was an interesting choice.
Becky: "This next one stopped being intimate with me. Turns out she was watching dude porn. And you know, it just felt very crappy."
What is dude porn? Do I want to know? Is this one about Sara Portega, the one Becky was saying publicly online that her "muff was damaged" on a picture of Sara's period panties that Eric posted on Facebook? Then Becky went on a rant about how Becky is a great actress because she pretended to like Sara and never wanted sex with her in the first place?
Becky talks about being biphobic because of the trauma of her past relationships, but now she's not.
Next, the relationship with Amber begins. Nothing new we didn't know before. How Becky reached out to Amber because she felt sorry for how much hate Amber got online, how Becky was taking it slow.
After a month of texting, Amber said they met in person.
Becky says she was surprised at just how huge Amber was when they finally did meet. Becky says she wanted to move slow with Amber.
Becky: "At first, everything was going good. Everything was fine."
Shot of Becky filming her family while hanging out with Amber. Someone in the background yells "NOT ME!!!!" and covers her face but Becky still continues to film.
Introducing Eric and Ricky.
Snowflake: "At the time, Beck was living with two close friends from High School, Eric and his husband Ricky."
Amber decides she wants to move in, so she does.
Becky: "I was still very reserved and keeping my feelings to myself. I literally don't even know why she wanted to date me so bad. I don't get it. Because I was just... I wasn't ready for a relationship when we got together. But I cared about her and I liked her. I didn't want to lose her."
Next is about Becky quitting her job.
Snowflake: "Not long after moving in, Amber encouraged Beck to quit their job as a woodworker and focus instead on helping with her Youtube channel."
Becky: "In the beginning, she did make it seem like quitting my job would be beneficial to my health. I learned very quickly that whenever I did quit my job, it was a control tactic. She said she wanted to be the main bread winner."
Becky: "I never wanted to be in the vlogs or vlog myself, but she would hand me the camera and say 'You're vlogging today.' If I said I didn't want to, she'd say 'Well, you're working for me.' In the end, quitting my job wasn't about helping me, it was about controlling me and keeping me under her thumb.
Snowflake: "As their relationship progressed, and despite not having a license and claiming to suffer from severe car anxiety, Amber would make a surprising purchase: a car. At first, it seemed like a generous gesture, but in reality it was far more self-serving. Amber needed a chauffeur. Someone to take her wherever she wanted to go. More often than not, that meant endless trips to the grocery store or restaurants."
Next segment is when the arguments started. Amber claims that Becky is the one most likely to start all the fights in their relationship, Becky says it's Amber. Of course everyone knows Amber's the one starting most of the fights.
Next, the video talks about how limited Amber was when it came to dates due to her mobility issues. An example is when Becky tried taking Amber to a farm to do corn mazes and lots of other outdoor activities, but Amber had to stop and sit out due to her weight.
Next, Amber and Becky doing a weight loss journey together. Amber starts at 488.6 and Becky starts at 266.6. As we all know, they fail.
Amber: "I'm also going to put the serving size and the amount of calories. I think that's also going to help Becky, too. She's very new to the whole counting calorie world. I really want to help her when it comes to counting calories. That's really important to me, I want to make it easy for her."
This is like a drug addict who doesn't know a thing about addiction, but is too arrogant to believe otherwise, actively sabotaging everyone around them into taking even more drugs. Amber's hubris wins again.
I did want at least a little mention of Becky having some responsibility for her own actions, but this is a Snowflake video so we know we're not getting that, so I can't be disappointed.
RIP Rarity.
The entire video, it keeps cutting to Snowflake as if he's being interviewed.
Next is a classic. The binge monster. Solid proof how awful Amber was to Becky.
Amber: "
I feel proud of myself but I feel guilty for binging because
it's not me when I'm binging. Like Becky has been there when I binge and she tries to help me *fake crying* and I get mad. I got mad. Because obviously I don't drive and I don't know if this is something I want to be honest about and I just get very angry if I don't get my way during a binge and I feel like I'm being possessed by somebody because that's not who I am. I remember after the binge, I regret it, but I remember after the binge Becky was like, "You were really mean to me because I kept saying no." And I was like I don't even remember that. I'm not like that. Like when I'm not binging."
But you
are like that, Amber. You are that person who is ugly, toxic, horrible, whether you're stressed, hungry, upset, happy, joyful, whatever. That
IS you. That is a part of who you truly are. Your actions are an expression of what is inside you, whether good or bad, and it pisses me off when people deny the ugly parts of themself because it's inconvenient to look at.
She wants to protect her ego, think she's a good person no matter what. No matter the hard, cold evidence. This is why she can't take accountability. She wants her abusive actions while also keeping her facade of being a good person. You can be a bad person while also doing good things sometimes.
During this segment, Becky looks downtrodden while Amber stares into the camera with dead eyes, anger bubbling beneath it. I can tell she is remembering her rage at Becky for daring to say "no" to her. For daring to say "you were mean to me." For daring to fight back. Her indignant, self-righteous attitude of "I'M NOT LIKE THAT" really shines through in this moment.
Amber: "I just feel bad. And it's like I don't know. Like, I'm upset that I did that but then it's like I'm also proud that it's only been twice this month."
SO THIS HAPPENED REGULARLY. "
ONLY twice this month." What the FUCK.
Screenshots of Amber backtracking and lying on her Q&As as usual.
Amber: "When I was talking about binge eating and how I kind of got upset at Becky when she was saying no to me, people were using that story and those feelings against me,
instead of saying "Wow Amberlynn, I'm proud of you for feeling honest."
Amber is messed up in the head. In other news, water is wet.
Next is Amber flip flopping between whether or not she's been diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder depending on her mood that day.
Amber: "People think I emotionally abuse you"
Amber stares at Becky with an expression that says 'tell them what I want you to say.'
Becky: "No, she just-"
Amber cutting Becky off: "I get snippy because I'm like so moody. But it's not just me, honey. But I'm not going to air dirty laundry."
How I read this is the second Becky said "she just-" Amber's control alarms blared, and she instantly jumped into threat mode. "I WILL AIR YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY IF YOU SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT ME, HONEEEEEEYYYYY"
Amber: "No relationship is perfect. As much as you guys want to believe it."
Amber has no idea what being in an actual happy, supportive, healthy relationship is. If she ever was, she would realize none of this is normal.
Amber: "Yeah I got a little angry cuz I couldn't- like, you wouldn't let me binge. People were like 'You are abusive, you are disgusting, Becky doesn't deserve you' and I was like *surprised Pikachu face* Have you been in a relationship before? Have you been married? Do you have a girlfriend, boyfriend, like what's going on? I feel like only single people who have said this."
Further proof Amber has NO idea what love is. Amber has no idea what a romantic relationship even is. She has no idea what acting like a human being who loves another human being is like. She hears "no relationship is perfect, couples fight sometimes" and thinks being cruel and mean to her partner is normal. She's not sorry, she thinks it's normal, so she'll continue to do it forever.
Amber: "This relationship is wonderful,
but things happen."
Literal shivers.
Next, BS about how Amber wants to go to the gym, but then backtracks blaming it on Becky not wanting to go even though Amber claims she wants to go sooo badly and it's her idea to go to the gym, then joins the gym anyway, then backtracks again. Normal Amber behavior.
Becky mentions a heart condition where her heart tries to pump before it's fully filled up with blood, which causes her chest to hurt when working out. Amber diagnoses Becky with 'exercise induced asthma' and belittles her by saying "exercise induced asthma, which is thing" all while aggressively staring dead eyed through Becky's soul.
Snowflake: Beck's determination to better themselves was palpable. Amber's enthusiasm for the gym quickly faded."
The Beck ass kissing is pissing me off. Amber might be the worst person in the room 99% of the time, but that doesn't make Becky a go-getter who would have succeeded if Amber wasn't around.
Becky was fat and out of shape before Amber, was fat and out of shape with Amber, and is fat and out of shape after Amber.
It's annoying how blinded he is from heavy bias and ass kissing.
The next session is about Amber still having feelings for Destiny. How Amber would flirt with Destiny in front of Becky.
Amber: "The next question is: Are you still in love with Destiny? No, I'm not in love with Destiny. I would not go into another relationship while still being in love with an ex. That's just stupid, that's just setting you up for all kinda of drama and things you don't want. So no, I'm not still in love with Destiny. I love Destiny as a person, I'll always love Destiny.Not in the way you guys want to make it seem, though. I care for her, she's someone I'm extremely close to, and it's always going to be like that. Becky loves Destiny, you know it's that type of love. A friendship love. Like how I love Eric."
We all know that's a lah.
Becky voiceover: "It was to a point where I would just agree with Amber when she would say 'No, everybody is just seeing things, I don't flirt with Destiny.'"
Becky: "I'd also detached myself at some point. So, I didn't care enough to argue with her about it because she would definitely not like that I would disagree that she did show that she still had something for Destiny."
Becky reading the chat where someone is asking about Amber's rules about Becky: "Wait, so Kate Winslet can't be friends with you, but Destiny can?" Becky laughs.
Amber screaming, "The difference is I don't want to have sex with Destiny, you want to have sex with Kate."
Becky: "I don't want to have sex with Kate." She makes a disgusted face.
Amber: "Yes you do, you want to lick that clit."
Becky: "Whatever."
Next is a segment of Amber calling to make an appointment to see a doctor. Amber claims she hasn't seen a doctor in 8 years and she wants to check to see if she has diabetes.
She gets prescribed medication to treat depression. I'm not an expert so I'm not sure if you can pop by a PCP to check if you have diabetes and come out being prescribed with antidepressants so anyone who knows more about doctors, is this normal?
Amber: "When I talked to the doctor today I was very eye open that a lot of the things I do on a daily basis is because of my depression."
(Yes, that isn't a typo, she leedurally said "I was very eye open")
Amber: "I'm very nervous to see how the lab went. I just want a bunch of positivity.
I think I deserve that."
Amber stops going to the gym because "I can't even fit on the freaking equipment. Like WUUUUUUUUAAAATT??????"
If it was anyone else but Amber, I'd feel bad, but I laughed.
Snowflake: "Though she was on antidepressants, the bigger Amber got, the more her mental health declined. She would often take out her misery on the most convenient person: Beck."
Amber: "I talked to my doctor and this is making me become a BITCH and I'm not lying."
Becky: "I was walking on eggshells with Amberlynn. She was really easy to upset and it wasn't physical, it was very verbally attacking."
Amber: "I don't talk about how I'm feeling. I kind of just like lash out and expect people to understand that it's an illness and it's not me as a person."
IT IS YOU AS A PERSON, AMBER.
Amber: "It's not."
IT IS. Own your actions. Our actions are an expression of who we are under the surface. I'm sure you
can be nice, but just as your nice actions say something about you, your negative actions say just as much.
Amber: "This isn't like my personality."
Yes it is. It's who you are under the mask.
Amber: "Like, I feel like I have a good personality."
You don't.
Amber: "But this is like something deeper."
Yes, it is something deeper. She's almost there but was never able to reach it. She never will.
People notice that Becky is starting to act zonked out in the background of the videos. This was during the time when Becky was on medication after being misdiagnosed. Cue lots of Amber doing damage control, shoving the camera in Becky's face and demanding she explain that they're in a happy relationship and nothing is wrong. All while Amber doesn't pick up on the social cues that there is something wrong.
Amber: "She's dipping her snap peas into this Yoplait." *giggling as if it's a dumb thing to do* "How does that taste?" *shoves the camera into Becky's face*
Becky: *doesn't look happy* "I look like shit."
Anyone with even a 5-year old level understanding of social cues knows this means "I don't feel comfortable, I look terrible, please put the camera away. Do not upload this to Youtube, I'm not feeling good, please don't film me right now, I'm not in the mood."
Amber: "Baby, I just got to tell you how sexy you look."
Amber lovebombing Becky back into obedience while ignoring everything Becky is saying.
Becky: "I feel like crap, too."
Becky again tries to establish some kind of boundary, but of course Amber doesn't pick up on it because this is all about her.
Amber: "I know. Her head hurts, but how does it taste?"
Amber insists Becky explain the suuuper wacky oh so silly thing she's doing with peas and Yoplait. Who gives a fuck??
Becky: "I've had a migraine all day."
So Amber knew about Becky's migraine, but does all this crap anyway.
Next is about how Amber would leave dead scooters at Walmart after Becky would get Amber new scooters. Also Becky doing all the chores.
Amber: "Becky sometimes randomly wakes up and wants to clean the whole house."
Like a normal person?
Amber: "Like literally top to bottom which I'm fine with. But her whole persona changes. She becomes... I don't even know what, the parent you didn't want? Like your whole persona completely changes. So when I woke up and she was acting all parental, I'm just like "Honey no no!" Like, that was about an hour ago, but..."
Becky: "I just-I just said "Will you help me sweep a room?"
What we understand from this is Amber has been spoiled her entire life. No one has ever asked her to clean anything. No one has ever asked her to do any chores. She didn't have to lift a finger. Becky asking "Will you help me sweep a room" is Becky acting like the parent Amber never had and never wanted??
Next, bed bugs segment. This released recently so I'm sure we all remember this.
Becky is the only one that cleaned the litter boxes. There was so much poop in the litter boxes that the cats started pooping on the bed. Amber left behind the poop mattress when she moved. More things we've heard before.
RIP Rarity
These eyes have seen horrors beyond any imagination
Lots of clips about Amber lahing about scooping the litter every single day and "Becky just sweeps around it."
Rarity toe beans to cleanse the palette
Next is about Rarity staying with Rafe and how Rarity wasn't fixed. All that drama. Snowflake leaves out the classic "YOU'VE STIRRED THE POT" video with angry Becky burning down her friendship with Rafe to please Amber while talking about how dirty and disgusting Rafe's place is. A shame he's such an ass kisser because it's an important part of the context of what was going on at that time.
Imagine if Snowflake wasn't so blindly up Becky's ass. We could actually get a fuller, more accurate documentary of what actually happened. Everyone would still feel bad for Becky because Amber is an obvious abusive asshole, but there wouldn't be all this censoring and ass kissing.
Next is about Amber's treatment of Twinkie. How Twinkie is a huge chonker with nails too long. Insert a clip of Amber claiming she never gives Twinkie junkfood, right next to a clip of Amber saying "Twinkie likes hot Cheetos." Lol.
I like how I can randomly pause at any of Amber's videos and 25% of the time, I'm met with Amber's cold, dead eyes where nothing is behind them except thinly hidden rage and smug lahs.
tHe ExPeRtS aLl SaY tWiNkIe'S nAiLs ArE pErFeCt. ThEy'Re ThE mOsT pErFeCt NaIlS hE's EvEr SeEn In HiS 35 yEaR cArEeR. hE sHoOk My HaNd AnD iNvItEd Me To GiVe A sPeEcH aT tHe NoBeL pEaCe PrIzE fOr DoG gRoOmErS.
These are starting to shock me now. It's not fun anymore looking at this.
Becky: "Honestly, I didn't know binging was a thing before I met you."
Amber: "Really. Oh wow." Her voice sounds hostile as she slow blinks and practically rolls her eyes at the camera. I'm under the impression Amber is trying to tell the audience that Becky is lying.
Becky: And it's just, like after seeing what you go through, the guilt..."
Amber purses her lips aggressively and throws Becky a glare. She didn't like Becky saying Amber had GUILT for something. That could mean she was GUILTY of something.
Becky: "... the excitement. In the beginning, the high you get off of it."
Amber: "That's really embarrassing. You've never said this to me before." Her voice is flat. She's looking away now and giving clear signals she is not happy with what Becky is saying. The message is clear:
'Babe, you better put me in a better light, make me more sympathetic, and not say anything too bad about what I've done.'
Becky: After looking at you and the guilt in your eyes...
Amber looks like she's about to puke. When Becky mentions guilt in her eyes, she keeps her eyes closed, hangs her mouth open, juts her jaw forward indicating indignant aggression in a 'I can't believe what I'm hearing' pose, rocks her head slightly to the side, and gives Becky a scary look.
Becky: And then later on whenever you ask me for more..."
Amber: "Okay, I'm actually like getting emotional."
Becky: "Yeah."
Amber: "You see that?"
Becky: "Yeah. And it's just like you know, I don't want to... I don't want to give you more, but I know if I don't, you are going to be upset. You are going to be VERY upset."
Next clip after Amber "trolls" Becky saying she doesn't want to lose weight and maybe she can get on 600 Pound Life and become famous. Jokes always have a portion of truth to them, so I think part of her does want the fame, if only her ego would let her.
Amber: "I've talked to a lot of people (WHO????) and they think I should talk to you about, like, when the binge monster comes. You do everything in your power to help me. You know?"
Becky either says "I've tried" or "I've cried" but Amber cuts her off.
Amber: I know I know it gets scary! It's hard! *her tone sounds like she's talking to a dog or a small child*
Becky: You get mean.
Amber: I'm not like mean, abusive! *sounds mad now but in that 'teehee better not say that sweetie!' kind of way*
Becky: You're not abusive, no, but you get mean and we've argued about it.
Amber: "Yeah.
Which is very common and I've talked to some people, but really off camera, we should like talk. But I just wanted to play a prank on you!"
All this while Amber holds the camera 3 inches from Becky's face.
Next is the classic clip where Becky is responding to people in the chat, trying to defend Amber about her makeup and Amber gets snippy.
Amber: "You actually think that was serious, BABE? Did you take your medicine today? Go take that. I can tell. I can totally tell you haven't taken your medicine. I care about you, so go take that really quick."
Snowflake: "Amber would poorly attempt to mask her cruelty towards Beck trying to make her behavior seem normal."
I agree with that.
Amber reading the chat who is digging into how rude she's treating Becky: "How was that rude?? Becky has to take a certain medicine every day and I care about her. If I notice she didn't take it- It's actually blood pressure medicine, that's why her cheeks were so red. I would hope more than anything someone was like 'Amberlynn, take your medicine, I don't want you getting sick or hurting yourself.''"
Becky voice over from recent video: "She doesn't really grasp the fact that she's not a good person. She really has herself fooled. She really believes she thinks she's really empathetic."
Totally agree.
Amber: "Oh my gooooood how is that ruuuude???? That's what people do when they're in a relationship and they caaaaree!!!"
Next, Becky claiming her biggest insecurity is her chin. But Amber is shown on screen constantly grabbing Becky's chin, poking her double chin, and making it wiggle while knowing this.
Next, classic video of Walmart fanny pack "Baby, you just have to loose a little bit of weight. I know you can do it."
Amber: "If I'm going to be mean to someone, I'm not going to leave that in a vlog. And why would I be mean to Becky, she's my girlfriend, and I love her, like of course I get mean. She gets mean. People get angry at each other. That's a common thing. But people took that so wrong and I'm like WAAAAAAAAAAAT???????"
She still insists being mean and cruel to your partner is NORMAL. It's not. Imagine being with someone who deeply believes this to the point where they'll defend this behavior for decades on Youtube.
Next, is Amber mimicking Becky's southern accent and stealing personal stories from Becky such as when a good friend died in a car crash as a teenager, which Amber cites as the reason for her extreme car anxiety. Meanwhile, there are clips of Amber sitting in a car while it's driving without a seatbelt on and commenting on the lack of seatbelts in a nonchalant way.
Next, Amber going to pride just so Amber can sit in the hotel and go out to restaurants.
Amber saying short hair makes people's faces look rounder and fatter
"Mental things are-is scary."
Lots of blaming of her horrible actions to her depression. Or blaming it on her taking her medication. Or blaming it on her going off her medication. Poor sad gorl, nothing is ever her fault. Because she's sad, she can act like a monster and be seen as the victim according to her.
Lahs about Amber claiming to be a clean gorl who loves to shower but meanwhile Becky was helping Amber with her hair, cleaning the black spots on her neck from the choker, wiping Amber's butt after she poops, giving her buckets a few times to sponge bathe, and helping Amber reach spots she couldn't during the very few times she did batheover the years.
Mentions of choosy, the lint picking, limiting time for Becky to hang out with Eric and Ricky, timers, and Amber refusing to travel or do anything in her life other than eating and shopping.
Next, the cancer saga, more Amber trying and failing to lose weight, and Becky's family trying to get Becky away from Amber due to them noticing Becky's personality changing.
Snowflake: "Beck had no time to grieve their mother's death. All their time was spent fulfilling Amber's demands. Helping with cleaning herself, using the bathroom..."
Shot of washcloths lol
Snowflake: "...cooking, even injecting her with her medication. Beck would drive Amber wherever she wanted to go and assemble all their new furniture. Beck of course had to take care of the animals as well. Regardless of what Beck did for her, Amber still found opportunities to belittle Beck."
Clip of Becky going to visit her family to pick out a gravestone for her mom's grave, going to the house to go through her mom's things, and mourn with family. Meanwhile, Amber stays in the car talking about lesbian porn on Tiktok.
Clip showing Amber's leaked voicemail to Norma about "the money I was going to give you".
Next is about the bank accounts and stealing Becky's inheritance.
The proposal and the two different sides of the story are showcased:
Becky: "We had no business getting engaged, but she ordered the rings without me knowing and was like "these are the ones I want you to propose to me with." so I did. I felt very pressured to do that and there was no telling her no. So that's why I went ahead and did it. I'm not proud of it at all, but I wish I could have gone back and not did it at all and just ran as far as I could, but. Here we are."
Amber: "I never once told them to propose to me. Ever. Ever! (the rest of this is nonsense word salad) But I know that when people are in toxic relationships, sometimes it is hard to get out. So, proposing to an outside perspective, it is confusing, but I can see why it happened because when you're in a toxic relationship or in a relationship you're not happy in, it's hard leaving."
Becky: "I felt pressured into doing it. I didn't really want to do it. I don't think she really wanted to do it, either. She just wanted to be engaged. Like it wasn't with me or anything, she just wanted to have that status."
Amber: "I was sitting in the living room. It was 2am. And I remember it being January 13th because my partner thought that she wanted to change that day for me because years prior, that's the day I was broken up on. She wanted to change that day for me into something special. Which I get where your mind frame's at, it's a good mindframe, but it's also kind of weird all in the same. So I'm in my mumu, not showered (like always), hair greasy as per use. She walked out of the bedroom with something in her hand and it was like this clear box and it was small and I could tell something was in it. And she just sat down across from me and handed it to me and I looked at it. You guys, it was... this is embarrassing but it's actual true situation type deal. It was a tiny pink vibrator with an engagement ring wrapped around it. And she looked at me and said "Will you have sex with me for the rest of my life?" And I said yes. *Amber makes gross faces* We had sex 1 time in the last 3 years. It was very disconnected. Just because it comes from a good place, doesn't mean it's not awkward.
Imagine if it was the same pink vibrator Amber used to send sexual videos to Erica with.
Mentions of how Amber had free reign of Becky's cellphone, but Becky wasn't allowed to look at Amber's phone due to "private journals." It was brought up that Amber would impersonate Becky and text people like Eric and Ricky demanding to let Amber in on their group chats. They got into a huge fight, kept fighting the next day, Becky left to visit family, and that's when Becky decided to break up with Amber.
Cue livestream era.
Dakota Pedota Dashota foreshadowing where Becky tells people to have empathy for a predatory groomer who loves CP, that talking about said predator is close to persecution, that they know about each other's faults and pasts, and they're not a bad person.
There are lots of livestream clips of Amber being outwardly hostile, putting Becky down, being sarcastic, after all empathy bones shattered under her massive weight.
I just wanted a photo of that hair.
Next is Amber rubbing Jade in Becky's face the millisecond Jade arrives on the scene. Snowflake notes that Amber doxxed Jade's location and last name in the titles of the livestreams, but erroneously believes that Amber did not reveal Jade's first name.
Snowflake: "In the end, it wasn't Amber who revealed the truth, but Beck. During a casual phone call, they inadvertently revealed Jade's identity."
Becky: "I gotta go. I love you. Tell Jade I love her, too."
NO. Amber revealed Jade's name was Jade before that. People were able to find out Jade's name due to Jade stupidly sending Amber a message during one of her lives under the name "FarFromJaded" and Amber screeching "THAT'S HER!!!!!" After we knew "Wifey" was from New York city near the Brooklyn Bridge, that her first or last name was Francis, it only took a few Google searches into a few "Jade Francis"s to find out who she was.
In one of the lives, Amber made Jade tell the audience some of her hobbies while Amber doxxed her age, how Jade recently got out of an engagement, and a few other hobbies. Jade said she had recently built a new computer. People found a Jade Francis on LinkedIn who had posted about her new computer she had recently built within the past month. Cross reference the person on Facebook to confirm that this Jade Francis also recently broke up with a HYUGE gorl she was engaged with along with the sports she was involved in during college, it was a match.
Becky only
confirmed the name.
Next, Amber's promise that she'll be paying Becky for the livestreams. Lahs.
We get flashbacks of the time when Amber got so jealous of Becky receiving more attention during the livestreams that she sat just off screen audibly crying hahahahaha. Then when she came back, she pushed her hair behind her ear daintily and asked 'shyly', "Oh, you guys heard that?" while basking in the few seconds the attention was again on her.
Then of course the epic "Who's the one that's been wiping your ass" molment.
Then screenshots of Amber's Instagram Q&A where she was blaming Becky for her cancer and how Jade would NEVERRRRRR have let it get that bad and force Amber to the hospital because she loves her soooooo much.
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Next, Amber blaming Becky for keeping Amber in the closet about being bisexual. Which lasted until she broke up with Jade. lol
Snowflake: "After everything, being lied to, manipulated, and publicly dragged into Amber's drama, Beck tried to move forward. Constant scrutiny and lingering trauma made it hard for them to stay online, leading them to take repeated breaks from Youtube."
Oh really? THAT'S why Becky took so many breaks from Youtube? He either wasn't paying attention or is outright lying about the situation so he can continue to kiss Becky's butt.
Snowflake brings up Becky getting arrested. Something I had forgotten. I still remember the posts about "Rebecca" the badass where they took Becky's mugshot, photoshopped long hair on her, and talked about how Rebecca would never put up with Amber's shit. Good times.
Snowflake: "Though it had been years since they'd been together, Beck was clearly struggling the adverse effects of being in an abusive relationship with Amber."
Becky: "I don't know if I can date ever again because I have so much trauma and PTSD. I feel like I'm ruined from being in relationships. I'm terrified. I'm so scared that I'm not enough and what I bring to the table isn't what anyone would want."
Lucky for you, child groomers and pedophiles into Boku no Pico CP like you. And you're so mentally stable now, you will publicly defend the groomer calling them a good person, not a threat, tell everyone to empathize with her, and to not persecute her by talking about the proof that she's sexually groomed children.
Snowflake: "Whenever Beck returned to Youtube, many Youtubers criticized them, believing that they only came back whenever they needed money."
I wonder why so many people thought this??? What a mystery. Snowflake makes no mention of why. He makes no mention of what Beck was saying and posting that led people to believe this.
Cue 1,001 molments when Amber couldn't stop talking about Becky after the breakup. So Becky snaps and comes back on Youtube to talk about Amber, which brings us to the current times. Amber admits she was toxic and abusive but it was because of her
depression, anxiety, binge monster, trauma, CPTSD, OCD, abandonment issues, BEEPEEDEE.
The only mention of Dakota in the video:
Becky: "I hope that my mom is out there watching and seeing the changes I've made and feeling peace knowing I am safe, happy, and loved."
Snowflake: "Beck, well done if you made it this far into the video. I'm sure it wasn't easy watching, well, reliving 4 years of abuse. So well done if you've got this far. Well done coming back to Youtube. I'm sure that wasn't an easy decision. I'll bet that was scary. You did come back and inspired others to stand up to their abusers, so well done, Beck, for sharing your story."
Snowflake: "As for Amber, you know what you're going to get with Amber. You're going to get a narcissistic abuser who will never take responsibility no matter how many ex-partners come out with very similar stories. You're never going to get a sincere apology from Amber. She's not capable of one. So anybody holding out hope that she'll see the light and might do a sincere apology, she can't do it. She'll deflect, make excuses, shift the blame onto the very people she's hurt. I can't even feel any anger towards her anymore. It's just pity. And in the end, I think the worst punishment she'll ever face is being exactly who she is. Amber's punishment is she is Amber. Miserable every day, hating her life. The worst punishment she'll ever get is just being her."
At least we'll all agree with that.
The end is a montage of Amber saying how empathetic she is, how she has a big heart. All I can think is Dakota saying all these things and Becky repeating them online. She's such a good person, ya'll.
"I am always in the eyes of everyone else the abuser to everybody.
I never have my own story.
Two things can never be true at once. I'm always the bad guy."
Two things can be true at once: Becky could have stumbled into a relationship with Amber an abuser, and Becky could have also stumbled into a relationship with Dakota a groomer who enjoys CP and Boku no Pico. Becky needs to work on why she accepts relationships with the lowest common denominator of a partner.
I think it stems from what was discussed in the very beginning of Snowflake's video. How shy, awkward, and riddled with low self esteem Becky is. How her previous relationships cheated on her and Amber beat Becky down even further. She needs to work on improving herself in tangible ways to increase real self-esteem (not that fake shit people tout online) so she can finally be with someone normal who won't abuse her. Someone who won't require her sticking up for abusers and creeps just because those abusers and creeps compliment you or make you feel good sometimes.
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