r/ActualLesbiansOver25
VanFailin
NOBODY CARES THAT YOU DON'T LIKE GIRLS WITH DICKS
Everybody has sexual preferences and not all of them are okay to talk about in an open community. Maybe you don't like girls of a certain weight, or race, or age, and if you've made it to 25 you've probably noticed how very inappropriate it is to say these things in polite company. Why, then, do you constantly talk about not wanting to fuck trans girls?
It's totally fine if you don't like my penis. No one is asking you to have sex with me if you don't want to. I would hate that, in fact. What we are asking for is a space where we're free to talk about our sexuality without being constantly othered. If you don't like a post that's trying to be trans inclusive, you don't have to complain about it. For true queer solidarity you can even try not downvoting every transbian you see. If I've pissed you off, I invite you to block me and every trans girl you see, though it's traditional to leave a pretentious comment first. I'm not asking you to like me, I'm asking you to engage with trans women respectfully or ignore us entirely.
I understand the lesbian community shares in a great deal of violence from men, much of it with a penis. I also have "penis trauma," because I was born with one. Imagine if that shit happened to you. When you say your "sexual orientation" precludes me for my penis, you're saying you think I'm a man. You're supposed to say "genital preference" and we infer it.
If you're a real ally, whether you want to bang me or not, thanks for reading.