JKR being a goddamn idol once again. Honestly I am so glad that she isn't caving to these freaks and monsters that are trying so hard to destroy her. I wouldn't blame her if she did after all the threats she's received, but I'm incredibly happy that she isn't. Hopefully the cops there can continue to protect her and her family from these deranged psychos trying to send her pipe bombs and shit.
That poor woman. It sounds like her husband is seriously manipulating and taking advantage of her, and she doesn't know which way is up anymore. She knows they can't afford his oh-so precious surgery, but he's filling her head with all kinds of lies about how he'll kill himself if he doesn't get it and she's an evil transphobic bigot if she spends even one penny of her hard-earned paycheck on herself. ngl this sounds like financial abuse - he's depriving her of absolutely everything that makes life worth living and won't allow her to get herself into a better position (say, by paying off her debts) so that she never has enough time or money to leave him. Banning her from spending on her hobbies also keeps her isolated, because people with hobbies tend to talk to others who have the same hobby, go to meetups, etc. Classic abusive behavior and no surprise from a man who goes trans honestly.
This one just breaks my heart. That poor woman. The language suggests that she's very religious, but this man has literally driven her to the point of wanting to kill herself - a mortal sin - due to his selfish and manipulative choices. She's 100% in the right here and he's just trying to manipulate her into believing she's wrong and should just keep acting the same as always like nothing's changed out of guilt and pity. His words are all completely manipulative, emotionally abusive bullshit putting the blame on her for not treating him like the husband she loves when he's the one who decided he didn't want to be that person anymore. So... basically, to the great surprise of no one, another trans-identified male showing serious signs of being (emotionally) abusive.
The worst part of this one is if she's deeply religious, she may not feel like she's able to divorce him. I hope her church can help convince her that it's completely okay to leave a man who lied to you, deceived you, manipulated you, etc. She sounds like she's got a hell of a spine, so hopefully she'll be able to ditch his ass.