Here is the video I am talking about.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=uL8PA2J1-fAIf you want TLDW from the top of my head - Desmond's parents did nothing wrong, look how happy their autistic son is while dancing at gay bars and Alig wasn't bad influence for him despite being a junkie, who killed and dismembered his drug dealer and then bragged about it, and was also obviously high as a kite on his streams.
Other instance of this I can recall was here.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=T3TXLZKYnLw"B-but guys, I am not trying to say BDSM is bad, there are many couples who are alright with whipping each other, I AM NOT A BIGOT, GUYS"
And here he couldn't keep it in his pants and said "which unfortunately happened" about 2016 elections.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Q0Wj5rH2GMg